defskyoen said:
And yet again you start off with declaring their/his opinion is wrong and yourself right, even though you clearly can't define what a homosexual is or how one becomes one and at what period of one's life. That's no problem though because I can't either, but I'm not the one saying your opinion is wrong.
A homosexual is someone who is sexually attracted to the same sex, dude. It's not something that's difficult to define. You become one when you have sexual attraction to the same sex, at the period of your life when you develop a sexual attraction to the same sex. Why did you think those were unanswerable questions? I'm confused.
I wasn't comparing it to those
You most certainly were - you said (paraphrasing) "there are a lot of other abnormalities, and we don't consider those normal." The difference is those other abnormalities aren't based on a consenting relationship between two adult humans. I didn't mention paraphelia because (corpse-fucking aside) I could give a shit if someone wants to have a relationship with an inanimate object.
You also seem to regard these sexual practices as abnormal and judge them yourself, which is kind of odd, aren't you being intolerant to the people that practice them inside the border of the law?
I am absolutely being intolerant of necrophiliacs and people who practice bestiality, and I'm okay with that. If you don't see the difference between that and your position on LGBT individuals, I can't help you. It's like you want to catch me in some sort of trap but you're doing it by setting up such an absurd premise that you're coming off ridiculous.
Again with the selective quoting and argumentation fully ignoring my valid points of for example mental diseases or handicaps being generated by both viri, chromosomal and gene disorders... sexual disorders if they are gene based (and not behavioral or environmental from one's childhood as you are trying to say) might as well be classified as such in which case it is just matter of opinion if they are good or bad.
I don't know how to respond. You clearly do not have a clue what you're talking about. The article you linked has nothing to do with the topic we are discussing. Nothing.
Then you go on twisting me saying something which I didn't, I was referring to infertility (which you've thrown in before) and handicaps and finally end by calling "discrimination" against everyone disagreeing with you.
Do you mean when I implied you said being gay was an "affliction"? If you were referring to infertility there and not homosexuality, I think it's easy to see how a normal reader might've gotten those confused. If it makes you feel better, I'll go back and replace the word affliction with "disorder", since that's something you've called it a number of times, and maintains the strength of my argument.
For someone who wants his point of view to be universally accepted and throws out the word "bigoted" after every 2nd sentence you seem remarkably close-minded towards other people's perspective, including Mr. Chambers or the number of people that don't want to "come out of the closet" and celebrate it and instead marry and have a family.
I'm a big fan of the truth. If people are being bigots, or discriminating, I have no qualms about labeling them as such. As for being close-minded, I don't think you understand what that term means. It's not that I'm not open to receiving new ideas, it's just that I've already taken the time to evaluate those that you're advancing, and I've found them lacking.
I'm confused by your closing sentence - are you saying that Chambers is gay but living straight, and we should respect that, or that there's a dichotomy between being gay and having a family, or that being
okay with homosexuality and having a family are at odds? I don't understand what point you're trying to make.
As a final note, I don't think I was able to respond to nearly as much of your post as I would've liked because I honestly had a lot of trouble understanding it. I'm not sure I can ask you to do anything about it, but you jump from topic to topic sort of frenetically, and it's rarely clear what you're responding to, or what argument you're trying to make. I guess if you could try to use fewer ambiguous pronouns, that would probably help a ton.