It isn't illogical. I enjoy smoking my pipe. It relieves stress and tension, provides a pleasurable experience. I'm willing to accept the trade off of a shorter life span. Hell, I consider that a perk.chuckman1 said:They are hated on way too much.
Their habit may be illogical but it's one of their weaknesses.
We all have weaknesses.
Actually that's your selfishness talking. It is her life. If she kills herself by smoking, it's her fault. Unless she is forcing the rest of your family to smoke, then, no it's just her life.Black Watch said:It isn't just her life. It is mine to, and everyone else's. When she dies, parts of me, my dad and my sister are going with her. Thats what happens when you are a part of a family.Digitaldreamer7 said:It's her life, not yours, if she want's to rot.. so be it.Black Watch said:No, because people who are smokers don't seem to know what they are doing to the people around them. My mother is a smoker and she just doesn't seem to know how painful it is to watch her rot before my eyes.
With that being said. It is a romantic deal breaker for me, not a friendship one. I won't be romantically involved with a smoker, kissing one is disgusting.
Actually, it is selfish to think that killing yourself only effects your life.Digitaldreamer7 said:Actually that's your selfishness talking. It is her life. If she kills herself by smoking, it's her fault. Unless she is forcing the rest of your family to smoke, then, no it's just her life.Black Watch said:It isn't just her life. It is mine to, and everyone else's. When she dies, parts of me, my dad and my sister are going with her. Thats what happens when you are a part of a family.Digitaldreamer7 said:It's her life, not yours, if she want's to rot.. so be it.Black Watch said:No, because people who are smokers don't seem to know what they are doing to the people around them. My mother is a smoker and she just doesn't seem to know how painful it is to watch her rot before my eyes.
With that being said. It is a romantic deal breaker for me, not a friendship one. I won't be romantically involved with a smoker, kissing one is disgusting.
The problem ISN'T that they're killing themselves. Hell, personally I couldn't care less if they're killing themselves- that's their choice, just like people who drink themselves blind or stuff themselves with crap until they need bigger pants. The problem with smoking is that it's invasive and toxic and to make matters worse it breeds an inherent self-centredness in the people who do it. While alcohol can start fights, cause accidents, or be responsible for domestic abuse, at least this varies from person to person and only results from a considerable excessive misuse of it. I drink a little, but I've NEVER been drunk in my life and have NEVER done something I've regretted because of alcohol. But even normal use of tobacco is unavoidably harmful (tobacco is literally nothing less than a poison) which affects not only the smoker but everyone around them. The smoke drifts around in a wide area around the smoker to be inhaled by people who wouldn't smoke a cigarette at gunpoint and they don't even get the benefit of inhaling it through the filter first! And when it comes to parents who smoke around their children or even while pregnant... well, sometimes I wonder why we don't need a license to breed.cameron196789 said:I also think people are a bit too harsh on the smokers, while I do not support smokers, I do not believe they should so publicly hated. People argue that they are killing themselves, but are people drinking alcohol and eating fast food not killing themselves, yet I don't see people being as harsh on these people as they do on smokers. I think that the media also has a large role in effecting how people view the topic as well.
It's bad for everyone else as well and they don't care about that either. So someone drinks? What right does anyone have to tell them they can't drive a car? Oh wait...Necrofudge said:Yeah, I never really understood it either. So they smoke? What right does anyone have to tell them otherwise.
It's the 21st century. OF COURSE THEY KNOW IT'S BAD FOR THEM. They just don't care. In a way, I admire them for that.
yeah no. smokers smell. its not a trick. if they have smoked recently they smell and if they havent smoked they dont smell.WilliamRLBaker said:The smell from smokers is something you've made up in your mind and I've noticed it alot while there is definitely a smell from them Non smokers make it out that they smell like a garbage heap based solely upon their own mental tricks they must use to demonize smoking I've tested it I smoke often and my friends whom I hang out comment on the smell I have specifically worn freshly cleaned clothes, washed thoroughly and did not smoke at all before I met up with them at a bar I went outside like I had went to smoke but didn't and when I came back they made the same comments man you and your cigarette smell...Merkavar said:i dont think they are hated that much. like smokers arent spat on or beaten up.
but smokers do stink alot, damage theirs and everyone around thems health and smell. also smoking is one of the stupidest habits.
you smoke to releave the effects of your withdrawals from smoking. it creates the problem and offers the solution in one handy tube.
the reason i dislike smokers is partly cause they smell (have i mentioned that?) and partly because it is so pointlessly useless. with drinking you drink and feel all nice and warm and stuff(positive effect). with smoking you smoke and fell all normal and stuff cause all smoking does is get rid of the withdrawal effects(removes the negative effect that it creates).
the same with teeth staining as long as you have a consistant teeth brushing regimine, floss and use mouthwash cigarettes will never stain your teeth just like strong coffee.
by the by you do not just feel warm and such while drinking every one experiences a buzz or drunkeness differently me I'm a violent drunk when I am able to get drunk I get mean and annoyed constantly and have even wanted to fight my friends over the simplest things.
This. Dunno what else to add really.Arcane Azmadi said:No, I certainly think smokers are still let off easy, and their constant defensiveness whenever challenged is something I find endlessly annoying. I have NO tolerance for smoking and I'm not shy about letting you know it- if you smoke near me I will pointedly move away from you.
And I am SO SICK of smokers defending themselves with the same meaningless and irrelevent arguments they keep spamming out any time someone dares question their right to poison the world and everyone around them. "Cars and industrial pollution do far more damage than cigarette smoke" they whine. "Cars and industry are necessary evils of modern day human existence," I counter "while cigarettes are a meaningless, totally optional and thoroughly disgusting luxury product. There's a huge difference between shooting wild animals and destroying their habitats to make an area of land safe to live in and farm wheat on, and shooting wild animals and destroying their habitats to make fur coats and farm cannibis."
The problem ISN'T that they're killing themselves. Hell, personally I couldn't care less if they're killing themselves- that's their choice, just like people who drink themselves blind or stuff themselves with crap until they need bigger pants. The problem with smoking is that it's invasive and toxic and to make matters worse it breeds an inherent self-centredness in the people who do it. While alcohol can start fights, cause accidents, or be responsible for domestic abuse, at least this varies from person to person and only results from a considerable excessive misuse of it. I drink a little, but I've NEVER been drunk in my life and have NEVER done something I've regretted because of alcohol. But even normal use of tobacco is unavoidably harmful (tobacco is literally nothing less than a poison) which affects not only the smoker but everyone around them. The smoke drifts around in a wide area around the smoker to be inhaled by people who wouldn't smoke a cigarette at gunpoint and they don't even get the benefit of inhaling it through the filter first! And when it comes to parents who smoke around their children or even while pregnant... well, sometimes I wonder why we don't need a license to breed.cameron196789 said:I also think people are a bit too harsh on the smokers, while I do not support smokers, I do not believe they should so publicly hated. People argue that they are killing themselves, but are people drinking alcohol and eating fast food not killing themselves, yet I don't see people being as harsh on these people as they do on smokers. I think that the media also has a large role in effecting how people view the topic as well.
And then there's the thing that enrages me the most- WAY too many smokers (not all of them, but the vast majority that I've seen) are dirty, self-centred and lazy. Even if they're not smoking near another person, their poison still drifts into the air and, even worse, their litter end up on th ground or eventually in the water- and they act like it simply doesn't matter. When I see a smoker casually flick a cigarette butt onto the ground and walk away without even bothering to stub it out with their foot when they're standing less than 10 feet away from an ashtray or garbage bin then I have to restrain the urge to chase them down, grab them by the scruff of the neck and scream at them "WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?!". Fortunately I've managed to control this urge by channelling my rage into a new habit I have, where I pick up the smoking butt, sneak up behind them and drop it into either the open top of any bag they're carrying or, if they don't have one, down the back of their shirt or jacket and beat it before they notice. I think that's what we call "poetic justice".
It's bad for everyone else as well and they don't care about that either. So someone drinks? What right does anyone have to tell them they can't drive a car? Oh wait...Necrofudge said:Yeah, I never really understood it either. So they smoke? What right does anyone have to tell them otherwise.
It's the 21st century. OF COURSE THEY KNOW IT'S BAD FOR THEM. They just don't care. In a way, I admire them for that.