Are you a dateable person?

[filecore]

It's funny how, when you're a teenager, you have this constant the-world's-gonna-end feeling that you need to rush everything and that if it doesn't happen NOW then it's never going to happen. When you're a decade or two older, you don't feel in such a hurry anymore. It's the perspective of experience. I'm not belittling teenagers, per se - I was once one myself, so I understand it from both sides!

 

[Blackmagic1515]

hmm.. well, regardless, you don't seem to have much trouble actually getting a boyfriend it's just that you carn't keep them. I'd recommend you should just be more careful with who you go out with in future, make sure it will work before commiting yourself.

Thanks for the advice but I've sworn off relationships for now. I kinda think they're a waste of time and I'm too lazy to go out and start looking for one. But thanks anyway =]

 

[ThreeWords]

I'm an excellent liar, I can be extremely charming, and I am terribly fashionable.

This, except that I'm not exactly fashionable.

I dress for comfort, which means always, all seasons, a pair of battered jeans and a t-shirt with an unidentifiable logo

However, the whole charming liar thing does help, and I suppose my girlfriend affections suggest I am dateable

 

[TheNamlessGuy]

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[Rekuiem]

Yea, but apparently someone rubbed invisible ink all over me, so I'm completely invisible in most places. Or maybe it's because I tend to be oblivious.../shrugs who knows?

I have a very good relationship with mary-jane though.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Yea im a pretty cool guy so its all good.

 

[Robyrt]

Seeing as I've only had about three boyfriends before I'm going to say no. It might have something to do with the fact that I'm quite shy, don't talk much, don't go out much, spend too much time reading, act/dress like a tomboy and don't really like being touched (unless it's a quick hug). Although I've been told I have a likable personality. Guess you'd have to tell me really, I don't have the self-esteem to judge myself =p

You actually do sound eminently datable; the problem is that your target audience - boys who think those qualities are cute and endearing - are generally also shy, bookish, and underrating themselves. Don't sell yourself short; I know at the age of 19 I would have gone for your type in a heartbeat if they showed any interest in me

 

[ThreeWords]

This, except that I'm not exactly fashionable.

I dress for comfort, which means always, all seasons, a pair of battered jeans and a t-shirt with an unidentifiable logo

However, the whole charming liar thing does help, and I suppose my girlfriend affections suggest I am dateable

I'm comfortable when I'm dressed nicely.

Though I will admit, wearing layers (and wool trench coats) in Florida is less than pleasant.

I have the reverse situation. Here is lovely warm England, I find myself in T-shirts all year round, despite others disbelief

 

[Blackmagic1515]

Seeing as I've only had about three boyfriends before I'm going to say no. It might have something to do with the fact that I'm quite shy, don't talk much, don't go out much, spend too much time reading, act/dress like a tomboy and don't really like being touched (unless it's a quick hug). Although I've been told I have a likable personality. Guess you'd have to tell me really, I don't have the self-esteem to judge myself =p

You actually do sound eminently datable; the problem is that your target audience - boys who think those qualities are cute and endearing - are generally also shy, bookish, and underrating themselves. Don't sell yourself short; I know at the age of 19 I would have gone for your type in a heartbeat if they showed any interest in me

Aww thanks, there's a boost my amazimgly small self-esteem desperately needed. You've made my day sir, I thank you.

 

[DoomyMcDoom]

of course where I live you're either successful and good looking, or broke and messy looking...

Well if that's the criteria for the women, then they're evidently all shallow and materialistic. And who wants that sort of a girlfriend? I know I wouldn't want to be with somebody who only wanted to be with me because I was successful.

Of course, it doesn't do much for your sex life, but there's always the commercial alternative.

I figure, if I even still care in 3 years or so, I'll be moving to another place with less of a frantic "Drive a BMW, or we won't even be seen with you in public" kind of dating scene, should improve my chances a bunch.

 

[Baby Eater]

I wrote this. [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.85690#1252744] Does that answer your question adequately?

my brain sploded

OT girls see me as a best friend rather than a boyfriend so i guess not

 

[Baby Eater]

Seeing as I've only had about three boyfriends before I'm going to say no. It might have something to do with the fact that I'm quite shy, don't talk much, don't go out much, spend too much time reading, act/dress like a tomboy and don't really like being touched (unless it's a quick hug). Although I've been told I have a likable personality. Guess you'd have to tell me really, I don't have the self-esteem to judge myself =p

i love girls like this! that's usually the only kind i would date but as someone already said guys who like girls like you (aka me)are also shy and recluded (aka me). you gotta try thinking better of yourself you seem like a nice girl

and i'm totally NOT buying a plane ticket right now why do you ask? XD

 

[pyrod]

nope not dateable

 

[METC]

I'd say I'm nice enough to date, but no one knows me at my school. That's probably due to the fact that most girls at my school are quite shallow.

 

[Korolev]

No. I am not dateable in the least. I'm akward, I'm bland, I have a painfully average appearance and I think too much and forget to talk to people. Plus I'm stubborn. I don't think I'll ever get married. But that's okay.

 

[ShotgunShaman]

Well, as seeing as I'm a dashing, rugged diamond thief posing as a five star chef, yes, I'm dateable.

 

[Cocal]

How the hell should I know? I've never had someone ask me on one.

..And I think that's my answer. No.

me too brother.
I'm starting to lose hope...

Hope? You mean that warm, uplifting feeling in your stomach? Yeah, I lost that a long time ago.
But I've replaced it with spite...

Same here, except it's not really spite, it's more like a dread and anger.