I currently am a raging manwhore, but I'm not proud of it.
I am a manwhore because I have given into temptation before. I am currently dating a girl, a girl I claim to love, and we have yet to have sex. Rarely do we have any sexual encounters at all actually. On the surface, it doesn't sound so bad, it's just that the only problem is that we've been dating for almost 3 years now.
A man has needs.
It would be different if I was single and for some reason not able to get any action. It's the fact that the opportunity is always there. We are constantly alone, and per usual I will go and make a move, only to be shot down like the other 58826602 times. After being rejected BY YOUR GIRLFRIEND so many times, it starts to do things to you self-esteem.
Recently I started seeing a friend of ours. She knows my girlfriend, and we went into it with good intentions. Just two friends who enjoy each others company... I will spare the details, but let's just say that now she comes over to my house basically every night and things happen. Things I am certainly not proud of but things that, nevertheless, I cant seem to stop.
It is at this part of the story that I say I am not bragging, merely explaining my reasoning on becoming a manwhore.
You see, while this is the first time I've ever had an affair, it's not the first time the subject has been thrown into my face. Friends of mine, hell, friends of mine AND my girlfriends have straight up offered me sex. About 6 or 7 of them have essentially said "let's have a sexy love affair" and I pride myself on having said no every time. Which is why it is even stranger that the one person I do have an affair with, was the one person I had never had any feelings for.
I never assumed things would end up the way they did between me and her. Life has a way of throwing you a bone every once in a while...