I am actually more comfortable around women than I am around the average male. They are a little too much like rampaging gorillas for me.
Are you comfortable around people of the opposite sex?
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I actually tend to get on better with women than men, at least straight off the bat, once people get to know me it's all the same. Problem appears to be I'm a big guy, tall and broad so any macho men start raising their tail feathers around me. Tis funny.
Sure. Sometimes I prefer them over men. In the end though, I'm either uncomfortable around the person or not for factors that don't have to do with gender.
I prefer female company to male company and i'm a man.
My problem has only ever come when i'm sexually interested in someone.
My fiancee tells me that i practically ignored her in the first few months of our relationship, as overcompensation for either being too clingy or still suffering from a previous relationship.
Women are cool to hang around though.
[sub]And they have boobies. Hee hee, i like boobies.[/sub]
My problem has only ever come when i'm sexually interested in someone.
My fiancee tells me that i practically ignored her in the first few months of our relationship, as overcompensation for either being too clingy or still suffering from a previous relationship.
Women are cool to hang around though.
[sub]And they have boobies. Hee hee, i like boobies.[/sub]
Being around women isn't the problem.
It's being attracted to one that scares me senseless. I always make a fool of myself in situations like that.
It's being attracted to one that scares me senseless. I always make a fool of myself in situations like that.
You have a girlfriend but no self confidence. How is that even possible?! I've never heard of a woman being attracted to someone without confidence. I think you're more a winner than you realize.
Try not thinking about it so much. I know I'm a lot less nervous talking to people when my mind is clear of thought and I'm just focused on the other person and nothing more.
So to answer your question; yes but only if I'm thinking about what to say, how attractive she is, or making assumptions about what she'll think of me, etc. Fortunately I don't do that too often anymore.
Try not thinking about it so much. I know I'm a lot less nervous talking to people when my mind is clear of thought and I'm just focused on the other person and nothing more.
So to answer your question; yes but only if I'm thinking about what to say, how attractive she is, or making assumptions about what she'll think of me, etc. Fortunately I don't do that too often anymore.
I don't really handle any social situation very well, but it doesn't really matter if it's men or women. I am equally derpy in all forms of society.
This.Blue2 said:
I find it's easier to be honest and open with girls than with guys. That's big for me.
Haha, well sure, it depends on the person more specifically, of course. A great deal of girls actually fit that stereotype haha! Jeez, you should see how the get on in all-girls schools. Like big lesbians, I kid you not. Just as long as one doesn't announce that she's a lesbian, then no-one will be grossed out. Which is... ironic really, lmao!SckizoBoy said:
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I tend to be more comfortable around women than men as well. I have more of an easy time just talking to them. That is within reason anyway, if they're a humourless ice queen, then I'll be as comfortable around them as I am the macho, womanising morons that a lot of guys tend to be these days.
