Are you drawn particularly to certain features in romantic interests?

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KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime

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Well gender doesn't make any difference to me.

Physically: I like a decent build, not too large, not too rail thin, though being super thin works for me if they're super tall. East Asian and European descended are generally most attractive to me. Long hair is a major plus for me generally, but that's assuming they have the right facial structure for it, and the right short style is fine. The biggest plus either way is a more feminine frame, MASSIVE bonus points for guys who are willing to cross dress, more so if they make it look good.

Personality wise: Well a willingness to break gender rules is always a plus in my mind. At least a few shared hobbies and interests, but the more the better. Trans is generally a nice bit of common ground. They should be intelligent enough to stimulate me, and hopefully visa versa is true too. A good sense of humor, a laid back personality, and a charming/sweet side.

Though all that considered I'm not horribly picky.
 

Reasonable Atheist

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Short cute asian women with a butt ledge. You know what i mean? Like the butt is so round that the underside curves into the leg so that there is a upside down ledge.

Nice big boobies (proportionate to her frame

Basically all of my girlfriend's features. Love may have made me biased.
 

DanteRL

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Not having peeny/balls... Shout out to Joss Whedon!

Aside from that, usually short girls, blonde hair, and a sense of humor. Seriously, that's of EXTREME importance.
 

DrOswald

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For a person to be of romantic interest to me there are a few factors. Note that I am happily married, so I am basically describing how I chose my wife. This also describes what I look for in a long term partner, I never did one night flings.

Physical factors:

First, sex is an important part of romance to me. Therefore I must find them sexually attractive. Not shooting for a super model, but I need to want to get between the covers with them. This is only first because it is easily figured out - I can know if I want to have sex with a woman practically instantly.

In terms of physical characteristics, I don't really have a type. I tend towards pretty more than sexy, and cute more than pretty. I like breasts a lot, but size is not really what I am looking for there. The make or break factor is usually the face, but that is only because almost all women have bodies that are sexy enough for me (I really don't have a type), but many women don't have a face that is pretty or cute enough for me. To be perfectly frank, while the face is tends to be the make or break factor in terms of physical attractiveness, I care more about the woman's chest and legs than her face. In addition, a pretty or cute voice is practically a must for me.

In terms other sexual characteristics, a willingness to have fun and experiment with sex is very important. Nothing is less sexy than a person who takes sex seriously. If we are not having fun in bed, then it isn't worth it. In addition, I like sexually aggressive women.

Other factors:

As long as the woman meets a certain level of physical attractiveness to me, these factors are far more important. Basically, a woman who is only fairly attractive beats out the most beautiful and sexy woman in the world based on these traits.

First, a laid back and easy going personality.

Second, a willingness to communicate. If I do something you do not like, tell me so I can fix it.

Those are basically to avoid drama. I don't do drama, I never will. No woman is worth the effort, I want to enjoy my time with my partner, and drama destroys that.

Third, she can't be the jealous type, and I mean this in a very particular way. I want to be able to be open about all aspects of sex, and I want her to be open as well. I enjoy exploring sexuality, and if we have to pretend we only have eyes for each other that limits us. I enjoy hearing about how my wife thinks Thor is super sexy and how much she would love to have sex with him, and I don't want her to get mad if I make a comment about how Scarlett Johansson looks fantastic in a catsuit. (Note: this point in particular has worked out magnificently between me and my wife, I very much recommend people learn to be this way.)

To be clear, this does not mean I want an open relationship in terms of actual sex - I want an exclusive partner. Or, rather, I want to be an exclusive partner. Truth be told I would actually not be concerned if my wife were to have sex with another man, so long as she was honest and upfront about it to me and practiced safe sex. But I, personally, only want to have sex with my partner. That said, I doubt my wife would want to have sex with another man for the same reasons I wouldn't want to have sex with another woman. We are both shy and introverted people, and sex is far too personal an act for us to be comfortable with casual sex.

Fourth, she has to be fun to be around. I have to want to be around her for more than just sex and romance - she also has to be a friend. This is one of the most important factors for me, this is the true make or break no exceptions rule.

There are a lot of other things, but those are the real big ones.

Wow, that turned into a wall of text fast.
 

Cold Shiny

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Laggyteabag said:
Cold Shiny said:
It matters not, no woman would ever find me attractive in a hundred million years.
I like how you made an account solely to post that. Kudos to you.

OT: Legs. I like nice legs. You can have small breasts, big breasts, long hair, short hair, you can be black or white, 20 or 40, chances are, you still have nice legs.

Otherwise, I find pleasing things about almost anything and anybody. I like short hair, long hair, brown, blonde, ginger, glasses or no glasses, I can pretty much go along with anything, and at this point, I am pretty sure that I would.

I...........just thought............

Anyway, I've been visiting the escapist for a long time now, and I figured that if I was gonna keep coming I might as well sign up.
 

Eddie the head

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Nothing outside the norm. Any woman who you might say is attractive I would likely say is attractive. That said I do find black woman particularly attractive. That's kind of a bizarre preference I've noticed but still nothing that will shock you.
 

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Petite with a sweet voice who I can enjoy make smile and laugh. A little shy about physical intimacy but not averted and very "huggable", I like a good fucking hug and snuggle and I will not live any other way.
 

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Random Argument Man said:
Mentally:

If she's really passionate about things and willing try new stuff, it's almost a guaranteed crush. Also?Honesty is a biiiiiiig plus

Physically:

She doesn't need to be an athletic beauty, but she I really don't want a couch potato that does nothing.
Pretty much nailed exactly what I was going to say.

Also, I didn't know having a good singing voice was such a huge plus until I heard my current crush practicing. It was so beautiful I got a C on my chem final instead of a B (how could I study when presented with perfection?)
 

DocJ

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Uh, cat ears, a tail, maybe a little bell collar or something...


Obvious jokes aside though I'm more of a personality guy. Looks don't mean much to me if you're a piece of crap inside or have a lot of different opinions to my own. People say opposites attract but they really don't in my opinion. You'll just spend most of your time doing your own thing while they do theirs. Personality wise I tend to like someone who is a little quiet, I just can't stand people who won't stop talking. I also tend to look for people who have their eyes up, and not down into an LCD screen. Finally I'd just say someone with a rather silly sense of humour. Making bad or even horrible jokes is part of what makes them quite funny in my opinion.

But if we're going off of looks, I tend to find myself staring at shoulder length hair or slightly longer, with a mild dye, like natural colour with streaks or just a mellow colour. Not a fan of fluorescent green hair or something similar. I once accidentally turned a corner quickly and thought the poor girl around it was from space. Moving on I also tend to look at girls in proper clothes and aren't advertising themselves as bicycles. Jeans, a nice shirt or even a tee shirt are fine really. But if I can see about 60% of someone's skin in public it just makes me snort and turn away.

To be more specific,
THIS


NOT THIS

TLDR: Good clothes, little experimental with hair, and a sort of shy personality who will make jokes and actually be looking at me instead of the LCD screen of a phone.
 

Lt._nefarious

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I am a sucker for skinny girls, tall and thin. which is what my girlfriend is. And I mean thin, thin which a lot of people I know don't get, but I'm just weird. That said a girl being short and not quite as thin can still be gorgeous in my eyes. I'm basically the scummiest kind of person, I do generally just like slimmer girls. I guess the one thing all the girls I've liked or dated have had in common are big eyes, I melt when girls have big eyes!

For equality's sake, if I was a woman I'd definitely like guys with beards and short blonde hair, that would be my thing!
 

GrumbleGrump

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I really like girls with facial piercings. I don't know... Theres sommething oddly attracting I find about piercings. Maybe it's because I always wanted facial piercing, but can't get them because I practice martial arts.
The ability to talk to each other is also a big plus. I hate having to force conversations with people.

Also, wide hips. I looooooove wide hips.
 

CrystalShadow

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Not especially. I mean, I have features that I like. (Hair colours, eye colours, etc), but I don't tend to think about them them in regards to real people.

In general terms, I mostly care about how well I get along with somebody... And... Attraction is something which... I can't describe any real rules for. Especially not personal ones.
Just, some people I find attractive, some people I don't.
And I'm bisexual, so even that isn't going to narrow it down much...

I will say on the whole I find I'm drawn to faces more so than anything.
A pretty face will do a lot, while a hot body just makes me go 'meh'. Most of the time, anyway.
If you're talking looks only, I'd rather have someone with a nice face and a not so nice body than the other way around...

But yeah, in general? ~shrug~ If I like you I like you. If I don't, I don't. I don't have a set of rules or requirements or anything... XD

Doctadoone said:
Uh, cat ears, a tail, maybe a little bell collar or something...
Uhm... >_>

Wait, what is it with people expecting us to wear bells? That's just...

Lol. Anyway... XD