Yeah... OP, you're kinda young... she's gonna tear your heart out sooner or later. You gotta learn to be cold blooded and have indiscriminate sex with lots of women. That's the right way to do it.
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Nope. Not particularly looking for one either. I've got more important priorities in my life. That, and going out to restaurants, clubs, movie theatres, just don't interest me much. (I'd rather cook my own food, or watch movies at home, and I don't drink)
Madara, that's generally bullshit unless someone is so emotionally reactive that they get suicidal over a breakup. Otherwise, the highs and lows that bookend of relationships are not only healthy, but necessary in our development. Yes, it hurts, but so does hardship and death, and we only become aware of how to handle these things through experience.Madara said:
Congrats to you and your lovely, monkey_man. Enjoy the honeymoon and play responsibly. I'll assume that someone else has already given you the safety first speech.
My own situation is... complex, though not uncommon for San Francisco. I've got a girlfriend who plays tabletop games and co-op shooters with me, and we're debating whether or not to take it to a physical level, and neither of us are in a hurry.
Said girlfriend is not the same as the woman with whom I live, who is just a roommate and a long-time friend. (We tried the paramour thing years ago; it lasted years, but we were clearly better friends than lovers.)
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To those of you who are single, yet don't want to be, the best places to meet potentials are statistically: school, work, church, friends of family, friends of friends.
Yeah, it sucks for us atheists. Activity groups and ideology groups are good substitutes (focused around, say, hobbies or political activism. Humanist groups count amongst churches).
Note that the local pub isn't on this list. Nor is online gaming.
Neither is Craigslist, though I've met some marvelous people there.
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Yeah, it sucks for us atheists. Activity groups and ideology groups are good substitutes (focused around, say, hobbies or political activism. Humanist groups count amongst churches).
Note that the local pub isn't on this list. Nor is online gaming.
Neither is Craigslist, though I've met some marvelous people there.
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Not at the moment but I have been talking to this girl.
She looks just like Zooey Deschanel. I know right!
I have no idea where it will go. I've been pretty obvious that I like her, but...
She looks just like Zooey Deschanel. I know right!
I have no idea where it will go. I've been pretty obvious that I like her, but...
I've been in a long-distance relationship technically for almost a year now, but it has only become official this past week. She's a year and a half older than me (I'm sixteen, she's going on eighteen), and lives around 300 miles away, but that doesn't bother me one bit.
We met at Hume Lake, a camp that churches all across California go to every year. By the end of the week, we were in love. I had helped her through a really rough time in her life, and we grew closer than I've ever been to anybody else. We've stayed just as close over the past year, and are still very happy together.
We met at Hume Lake, a camp that churches all across California go to every year. By the end of the week, we were in love. I had helped her through a really rough time in her life, and we grew closer than I've ever been to anybody else. We've stayed just as close over the past year, and are still very happy together.
I mean, is that Japanese or something? What?
Nope, and it's looking to stay that way for awhile. Just graduated high school and might end up moving states and such.
Though, curious, has anyone written a letter to their future husband/wife?
Though, curious, has anyone written a letter to their future husband/wife?
My partner and I met online a year and a half ago, we fell in love, he came to America and spent a week and a half with me, and then six months later I moved to Australia to be with him. No second guesses and no regrets.
We have a wonderful, deep and meaningful relationship. It's hard sometimes and it was very hard at first, but we've always worked through every problem that we've ever had and we always will.
It's very hard immigrating to another country when you can't get married, but our relationship has only gotten stronger in face of these trials. This is the most difficult thing I've ever had to do in my life and there's nobody who I'd rather do it with.
We have a wonderful, deep and meaningful relationship. It's hard sometimes and it was very hard at first, but we've always worked through every problem that we've ever had and we always will.
It's very hard immigrating to another country when you can't get married, but our relationship has only gotten stronger in face of these trials. This is the most difficult thing I've ever had to do in my life and there's nobody who I'd rather do it with.
I met my boif in a forum, lol. He lives ten hours away, which is close enough that it feels close, but far enough away that we can't do much visiting anyway 9_9
I'm going to university, and I still have a couple years left, but after that I'm moving in with him if it's still going well ^^ We've been dating about ten or eleven months now, he came down to visit for a week but other than that it's all been online. It gets frustrating sometimes. Oh well, I love him a lot ^^
I'm going to university, and I still have a couple years left, but after that I'm moving in with him if it's still going well ^^ We've been dating about ten or eleven months now, he came down to visit for a week but other than that it's all been online. It gets frustrating sometimes. Oh well, I love him a lot ^^
No, and I haven't been in one yet either, not that I haven't tried. Getting an engineering degree at one of the top engineering colleges doesn't really leave me with a lot of time to socialize, let alone look for a relationship. I've recently been told that a girl here at the dorms has a bit of a crush on me, but I don't feel the same way towards her, so I will probably end up staying single throughout the summer at the very least.
Yup, coming up to a year now.
Neither of us expected it to last.
Not that I'm complaining, of course.
Neither of us expected it to last.
Not that I'm complaining, of course.
Change your personality.RAKtheUndead said:
OT: No. A 2 year relationship ended a few months ago. Still devastated, no idea how to get back in the game.
Congratulations, by the way.