Are you in a relationship?
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Gratz OP, so that van thing worked out after all 
The "this is the best thing evar" feeling is prettymuch the same for all new relationships, and after a while that high goes away and you can see things as they really stand, so for the love of god don't rush anything.
The "this is the best thing evar" feeling is prettymuch the same for all new relationships, and after a while that high goes away and you can see things as they really stand, so for the love of god don't rush anything.
Yup. Been living with her for about a year, and... well... I guess I'm kind of a bastard for feeling this way, but I miss the fuck-buddy I had before I went and got this girlfriend of mine. We had a little more in common, and I was having a lot more sex. I mean a lot more sex.
...and I wasn't even living with that one...
...and I wasn't even living with that one...
yep, almost 6 months officially, 8 months dating. Shes the love of my life, and were on vacation as we speak!
Nope. Mostly due to my own issues such as low self esteem and a crippling sense of rejection. Also I'm fairly certain most females don't find fat guys all that attractive, so my physical appearance has a considerable amount to do with my loneliness.
Its kind of weird, After graduating high school last year I tried and succeeded in pushing the girl I had developed a massive crush on from my mind as I assumed I'd likely never see her again due to the fact that she is a year younger than me. Well, the other day I went to my younger brother's graduation and she was there. I figured it was fine if I just saw her and didn't talk to her at all, of course the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry and after the ceremony I found myself talking to her. Now I'm right back where I started with her wedged into my mind, except she's going away to college while I'm stuck here going to community college.
Its kind of weird, After graduating high school last year I tried and succeeded in pushing the girl I had developed a massive crush on from my mind as I assumed I'd likely never see her again due to the fact that she is a year younger than me. Well, the other day I went to my younger brother's graduation and she was there. I figured it was fine if I just saw her and didn't talk to her at all, of course the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry and after the ceremony I found myself talking to her. Now I'm right back where I started with her wedged into my mind, except she's going away to college while I'm stuck here going to community college.
My first relationship ended wow wait.....three.....ish months ago. I ended it because I moved to Hawaii and had been living in New Jersey. It was long distance but not nearly that much and we'd go a long while without a chance to see each other so I didn't think it was fair to either one of us. We're still friends and she's actually dating someone else now but, I have yet to find someone new. Hell I've barley even made any friends since coming to Hawaii in early April.
Nah, not at the moment. My last serious relationship lasted about six years and it ended about two years ago. I'm in no hurry to get into another. My last short-term "fling" ended badly when she decided she wanted more than just a fling and was not happy that I didn't want the same.
Aww, that's cute. Congratulations!
I've been seeing someone for a few months, but I'm still on the fence concerning how serious we are. Happy about it though.
And man, this thread is like the best pick-me-up. There's so much love and happiness here! *squee*
I've been seeing someone for a few months, but I'm still on the fence concerning how serious we are. Happy about it though.
And man, this thread is like the best pick-me-up. There's so much love and happiness here! *squee*
To be fair, personalities tend not change. You are who you are, unless you get some sort of brain injury.similar.squirrel said:
OT: Been single for about 3-4 years now, naturally i would prefer that to change, but that's how i am at the moment. I just walk through life and see what happens, try to take any opportunities which arise, try to make life as enjoyable as possible for myself and if i acquire a girlfriend along the way then great.
You can get rid of the traits that turn women off. To be fair, his core personality seems a-okay. It's just the fatalism, hostility and narcissism that probably repel the ladies.Nickolai77 said:
Much the same way...similar.squirrel said:
So, no... and I think it will stay that way for a while, since I'm not looking to be in a relationship at the moment and even if I was, I have a rather warped idea of the 'perfect partnership'. My last meaningful relationship was defined by mutual sadness more than anything else. More than two years on, I still see all relationships that way.
