Arguments Over the Internet

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Giest4life

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After I decided that this was going to be a largely useless reply to <url=http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.215956-Someone-just-called-me-a-dumbass-How-not-to-fly-into-a-rage-over-every-internet-argument#7289646>this thread, I decided to make it an OP.

Debating on the internet is useless for two primary reasons. 1) There are no ground rules for debating on the internet. In a "proper" debating leagues (NFL in my case)the criterion for "winning" is laid out clearly, and there are judges to determine which of the debtor's has best met that. On the internet however, there are no rules, everything is permissible: "facts," anecdotes, spam, and sound "reasoning" is just a fraction of the arsenal an internet troll debater can use to "win."

But here we run into our second reason: what exactly constitutes as winning? In "proper" tournaments, advancing to the next round but only up-till the quarter-finals is a very tangible measure of success. But on the internet, it is left to the participants' and the spectators' fancy to decide the victor: trolls will consider the amount of responses they get, some will consider the amount of "thumbs-up" they get for their argument, some will only accept victory--or defeat--when their opponent surrenders, and while others might only take solace in the fact that their "reasoning" was enough to carry them to the podium---or it might be a concoction of these various reasons.

A third might be that "it's just not worth it." But unfortunately for many, their ego makes it well worth the effort.

So fellow Escapists, how do you "win" arguments--if at all--on the internet.

Personally: "This is not the mouth for these ears" said Zarathustra. And I heartily agree.

EDIT: If such a thread already exists, then I apologize for my laziness for not using the "search" option.
 

NeutralDrow

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Eqan Asif said:
So fellow Escapists, how do you "win" arguments--if at all--on the internet.
When one or both of us concedes a point.

Why exactly do we need to "win" arguments, anyway? They're arguments, not debates.
 

Giest4life

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NeutralDrow said:
Why exactly do we need to "win" arguments, anyway? They're arguments, not debates.
"Win" in the sense that is makes us feel good; just as when we "beat" a game--the "game" actually is not literally fighting with us. There is no trophy to go around, so yes, it's largely not for "winning."
 

Mr.Petey

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The only way to win one is having the mature mind and sense to just walk away really. If someone can use the internet to hide behind and know that they'll never get more than threatening words on a pc screen, then they'll do it.
The thing is to put yourself above that, regardless of the topic of the argument as it's just wasting time and not getting anyone anywhere. The odds are the other person will have the "never say die" attitude about them and if you both have the intent on winning the argument with this mentality then it'll always be a clash of the egos
 

child of lileth

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I usually think I win once they can't say anything relevant anymore. Same with when I reply to trolls, and so on.
 

Cpt_Oblivious

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You lose when your points have strayed so far away from the original topic you just can't be bothered to continue.
You win, when the other guys does that.
 

NeutralDrow

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Eqan Asif said:
NeutralDrow said:
Why exactly do we need to "win" arguments, anyway? They're arguments, not debates.
"Win" in the sense that is makes us feel good; just as when we "beat" a game--the "game" actually is not literally fighting with us. There is no trophy to go around, so yes, it's largely not for "winning."
Oh, in that case I "win" when I've presented my position coherently and completely, and convincing people (or being convinced myself) is just a nice bonus.
 

Sarctastic

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Arguing is useless, debating is not.

If you go into a discussion wanting to 'win' then everybody involved loses.
 

Madshaw

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you win a debate when you see all the sense to your opponents arguments, their evidence, and there reasoning. and you still know they are wrong