I was wondering about different ways to ask someone out on a date. It can be something really simple or something that is very elaborate. It doesn't matter just say some ideas you have about the subject.
Asking someone out
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I just get on with it by simply asking "Hey, you wanna do something together sometime?"
Usually works out.
Usually works out.
Sorry, I can't say I have any experience there. I'm usually too shy to be the one that does the asking. Or I always manage to convince myself that a relationship with so-and-so would totally fail, and there's no way he would even had remote interest in me. So, I scare myself out of asking anyone out. xD
I've been asked before, however, and it's usual just been a simple "Do you want to -insert activity here- sometime?" Never encountered anything elaborate, but the elaborate stuff often times ends up being pretty cute. :3
I've been asked before, however, and it's usual just been a simple "Do you want to -insert activity here- sometime?" Never encountered anything elaborate, but the elaborate stuff often times ends up being pretty cute. :3
I'd be a bit more specific than that. It would be more along the lines of:Julianking93 said:
"I enjoyed talking with you. Would you like to go (insert activity/place) and talk some more (insert specific day/time)?"
In my experience saying "let's do something sometime" usually ends up becoming doing nothing no time, simply because I wasn't specific.
Wow...come on guys, it's really not that bad :S
Tell her you cant help but look at her from time to time, but you know absolutely nothing about her, and then ask if she wants to have lunch or a coffee.
Or, if you wanna be cute, buy a rose (or some other dying plant) and attach a lil note to it and leave it for her somewhere. A personal favourite of mine is going up and asking what their favourite colour is, coming back a few minutes later with an origami swan or butterfly or something in the colour of their choice. XD
Thoughts anyone?
Tell her you cant help but look at her from time to time, but you know absolutely nothing about her, and then ask if she wants to have lunch or a coffee.
Or, if you wanna be cute, buy a rose (or some other dying plant) and attach a lil note to it and leave it for her somewhere. A personal favourite of mine is going up and asking what their favourite colour is, coming back a few minutes later with an origami swan or butterfly or something in the colour of their choice. XD
Thoughts anyone?
I've never been a fan of 'asking people out'
Just try and be friends with them, if they brush you off you don't have to experience the downer of being shot down.
Just try and be friends with them, if they brush you off you don't have to experience the downer of being shot down.
I know it is a difficult thing to do and your mind starts playing the 'what if....?' trick on you. But look at it this way:
- If you do ask her out, you know directly if she could like you or not (simple as that
).
- Regardless of the outcome, you've managed to overcome the fear of rejection, let this be a boost for your confidence.
- It doesn't have to be elaborate, just plainly ask, so you don't have to spill your guts because she took it differently.
- Unless you are planning to date a praying mantis, she doesn't bite your head off when you ask.
Good luck!
- If you do ask her out, you know directly if she could like you or not (simple as that
).- Regardless of the outcome, you've managed to overcome the fear of rejection, let this be a boost for your confidence.
- It doesn't have to be elaborate, just plainly ask, so you don't have to spill your guts because she took it differently.
- Unless you are planning to date a praying mantis, she doesn't bite your head off when you ask.
Good luck!