manic_depressive13 said:
MeatMachine said:
manic_depressive13 said:
Edit: And reading all the rest, I support your endeavor to not become a social worker. I'd say that's the best course of action for everyone.
Why, exactly?
I get that I may have come across as frustrated and defensive, but the entire reason I am posting here is to listen to people who challenge what I say. I have a point to make, but I'm not stubbornly insisting that people should agree with me. As far as I can tell, the best way for me to come to terms with whatever problems I have as a potential social worker (I'm guess you think these are a propensity to get frustrated and defensive,) are to open myself to new perspectives and try to understand them.
So, do you say that because I'm taking the totally wrong approach to personal improvement, or do you really think I'd only ever make a negative impact in this field?
Based on what you have said so far I'm thoroughly concerned at the prospect of you being in a position of power over vulnerable people when you have demonstrated insensitivity to other people's struggles, and dismissed actual legitimate science based on your own feelings. Anyone can get "defensive" or "frustrated". The issue is why you feel that way, and in this case you have said several things that can easily be seen as sexist and racist.
Eh, as a social worker, I've met plenty of professionals that had issues similar to what the OP has, the main thing is just whether or not he can refrain from spewing his opinions all over his vulnerable clients. Social work is not sociology or anthropology, you are there to be an advocate for the client in most cases, not to study them or argue macro social principles with them, which means you have to accept what they tell you to a certain extent, if a client to is saying things you don't like you don't get to start challenging them just because you want to get defensive. There are options of course depending on what type of social work we are talking about, but generally, you need to be able to control your tongue around clients to a certain extent.
The main issue is how much power you have over them, depending on your position, you can easily sabotage pretty much any government assistance program they try to apply for, ruin their chances in court, break up their family by force of law, or even sabotage therapy similar to the power a therapist has over someone. You aren't there to debate their politics and getting defensive and frustrated in front of a client is a good way to lose their trust fast.
Clients are going to dismiss your view point, they are going to call you every nasty personal name or slur in the book, they will threaten you or try to manipulate you, and they will most definitely lie through their teeth to you. If OP believes that there is some point where someone's rhetoric may create genuinely racist thoughts in him, then he will likely burn out fast in the social work field as the clients will turn him into a bitter racist judgemental wreck, completely unable to put up even the pretenses of being unbiased or fair, I've seen that happen to multiple coworkers, and they usually end up leaving the field or sticking around and making both them and their client's lives miserable.
Now, if OP can keep that frustration and defensiveness to expressing his opinions to coworkers, academics, or other professionals, then he's probably mostly fine, everybody has their hangups, political biases, or just plain biased towards or against certain social theories, and macro level policy decisions are a good place for that kind of debate. While I don't agree with some of his conclusions, the field is still diverse enough to support a debate on the topic, just don't dump that shit on your clients.
More on topic: if your experiences with one or a couple of teacher biases are genuinely making you question your career, you might be better served doing more research into what you want to do with a social work degree, because almost all social work positions I've been in have not required me to use any sort of social theory that I don't agree with. If you think agreeing 100% with every social theory and test question you get in class is going to come into play in a social work job, you'll be sorely mistaken, honestly I've forgotten a lot of that stuff after graduation, most social workers tend to mix and match a lot of different parts of theories and methods that they like rather than adhering to everything they learned in school and add it to the much more valuable and career specific knowledge you learn on the job.
You know how much I've ever used Racial identity theory since I graduated, or worried about becoming a non-racist euro-American? Not once, my QA staff isn't there to check if I'm using a proper racial awareness model, they just make sure I'm filling out all my paperwork correctly. Anything beyond that is entirely up to me how much I use over the course of dealing with clients.
If I were you I'd worry more about whether or not you think you can handle the burn out inherent in this profession, because if you're serious that a bunch of generically progressive social theories you disagree with is making you actually question whether to drop your degree you likely spent considerable time and money on, then you might need to take a long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself how the hell your going to deal with much more emotionally charged situations with clients. Your clients will chew you up and spit you out if this amateur level crap is what makes you question your career.