Still Life said:
RhombusHatesYou said:
Still Life said:
very few of us Aboriginal people will accept it when it is used
Sort of makes it a give away on whether it's an acceptable term, doesn't it?
It's generally regarded as offensive, but I don't deny that some communities/families have adopted it as a passive form of resistance to racism. Between more intimate relationships and within Aboriginal circles it is used, but in a broad, general sense, the term is found to be rather offensive/disrespectful. Though, there are other, more 'colorful' terms being employed.
Well, yes, I meant in general terms. How it's used/received amongst smaller groups is, of course, a different story and we could probably overload the forum server trying to cover them all.
Hell, just in my family, I have 3 different cases regarding the word 'Abo':
I would never use it when conversing with my Uncle because he'd consider it disrespectful. He's old school Stolen Generation and Mission educated (same Mission as Gerry Hand and that mob). Only got to keep cultural connection because his Grandmother would sneak the kids out at night on weekends and teach them. His father was killed by spearing as the result of an interclan feud (my uncle's mother was from the rival clan). I tell him every time he brings up his childhood experiences he should write a book but he always just shakes his head and says he's not a writer... but yeah, the reason he'd consider the word disrespectful is because he's heard it all and words by themselves just don't offend him but he'd take it's use as a sign of having no respect for him.
I wouldn't use it in conversation with one of my cousins because he'd consider it offensive (yet we call each other all sorts of other names as a laugh). My cousin basically grew up middle class 'white' and was in his late teens before he got interested in his own culture, with all the zeal usually displayed by recent converts to any 'cause' (not exactly the right word but I can't think of something more appropriate). He isn't as hypersensitive to any signs of racism as he used to be (he's mellowed with age) but he's still got his Take No Shit From Anyone attitude when he encounters it.
With my nephews who're of Aboriginal descent, they couldn't give a fuck what I called them... but then again, that's probably because only older aboriginals can peg them as having any Aboriginal ancestry so it's not like they've really had to deal with the negatives.
Of course, it's not a word I use unless I'm taking the piss... If I want to provoke someone by using racist words I use much stronger ones to leave no ambiguity as to my intentions - it's the polite thing to do, after all. Other than that, I use the terms 'Indigenous Australian', 'Aboriginal' or, in informal settings, 'blackfella'.
Still Life said:
I have plenty of bones to pick with certain Aboriginal 'leaders'. Believe me when I say that there is a lot of frustration towards the greed and politicking of a few Aboriginal people who have made things harder on the rest of us.
I dunno how it is these days but nepotism used to be the biggest problem. All the money, influence and power in any given region would end up concentrated in the hands of a few prominent families, often all from the same clan. All that sort of bullshit played into the Federal govt's hands and gave Howard an excuse to break up ATSIC.