Can someone please show me when in history did honesty tend to include being a dick?
First off, to the 'they fucking suck' part of it, the man obviously has troubles with english. And I'm not going to say hold his hand because he's a sensitive little flower. however, there are MANY things that don't translate well between languages. Even if you think it's ok to say a word like that when describing a group of people's actions (quick fun game, substitute 'Japanese game designers' with a group that you affiliate with and see if the word 'suck' is as innocent as you think! Fun for all!), the description of the word that the Japanese fellow might have received for 'suck' might be harsher than we think. I'd even bet money on it, because that man's face fell really quickly.
Also, while someone is helping me understand when did honesty include being a dick, can someone tell me why being honest also tends to mean 'saying something I agree with'
And who gets to decide when the need for thick skin is just too much and sometimes you get to throw everyone under the bus because I'm a special little flower and I deserve respect while I don't have to show any for others.
This is personally how I go about things. I give respect where respect is given. All I've ever seen Fish do was laud his accomplishments, and how great he is. Great. He's a douche to me. Beer called Blow and him out for being 'Tosspot' Hipsters for not wanting to respond to media hype about the One's reversal. Great. Beer is a douche to me.
My point is this. You can't go on behaving how you want and say you're being honest, but expect everyone to treat you like you want to be treated. Your honesty might be rude to others. You'll say deal, it's honesty. What if people are honest that you're a fucking asshat? Do you run off and take your ball? Apparently you do, and you have fans supporting you.
Vigormortis said:
So what if Fish is a "massive tit"? Does him making a comment really warrant months of endless vitriol and excessively cruel insults from thousands of gamers on the internet? And hell, not even just the gamers but asshole gaming "journalists" like Marcus Beer. Is it really a fair retort for people to basically be going on a witch hunt, screaming for blood?
And that hissy fit? That came on the back of months of continuous and incredibly cruel personal attacks. Frankly, I'm amazed it took this long to break the man.
I think people need to calm the fuck down. If you don't like the man, then do the mature thing and just ignore him. Harassing, brow-beating, and threatening him on a daily basis just makes gamers behavior look far worse than Fishs.
I'll be honest, yes. Yes if he is a massive tit, he deserves whatever he gets.
I don't use twitter. There's a reason for that. Because I consider my opinions to be valid but only worth sharing when I find someone that I feel I can be open to. If they disagree with that opinion, there's a chance I could be butthurt. I'm human. It happens. but I'd like to discuss and see where the difference of opinion stems from.
I also present my self in the best way to actually communicate information. If you come off aggressive, people will get defensive. That's human nature. No one listens when they are defensive. If I feel like my opinions are worth speaking, they are worth taking the five seconds to figure out how to express it in a manner where people will respond to my ideas, and not how I came off.
If I did use twitter, and I called out people 'honestly' using insults, names, and diatribes to make my point, I should be very well prepared for people to have opinions and responses mirroring my tone. I shouldn't be confused and go 'Oh, wait up. Why are you being like that? I was just using honesty'.
There is a difference saying 'The game market that I've seen lately hasn't really given anything for me to go on' and 'It fucking sucks'. One tells me how you feel and gives me insight on what you mean in the first sentence. The other is sensationalistic and offers nothing but glibness.
I do not understand why people try to run to the defense of people who are crass and rude when they are expressing themselves and use the 'Honesty' shield. It's a weird get out of jail free card that you can be counterculture and rude and not have to suffer any repercussions.
I do not have access to all of what Fish has said all his life. The media blurbs I do ingest, they seem to paint Fish in the dickish-honesty fad that's sweeping all nations. I frankly do not see where one person is being blunt (Fish) and one person is attacking (Beer). They are both speaking their mind, they are both calling names and whining... So where do you find the victim in this?