Bi-sexuality.
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Well i consided myself bi at first and i don't think i was greedy, but then i made the jump to just full out male whore so yea....
I cannot grasp the concept of Bisexuals being greedy at all.
It's not like they all choose to have both boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time, or can't commit to a monogamous relationship or because they are twice as likely to become attracted to someone they have twice the sex drive.
As for "growing out of being Bi" I'd be inclined to believe that those people were merely bi-curious or experimenting as opposed to truly being sexually attracted to both sexes.
It's not like they all choose to have both boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time, or can't commit to a monogamous relationship or because they are twice as likely to become attracted to someone they have twice the sex drive.
As for "growing out of being Bi" I'd be inclined to believe that those people were merely bi-curious or experimenting as opposed to truly being sexually attracted to both sexes.
Wait, how does "growing out of" being bisexual make them greedy?
Eh, I don't really think much about the sexualities of anyone. Isn't really a point of interest to me, since I'm nonsexual.
No problems with them because of how they are, so long as they, or anyone else, has no problem with how I am.
Eh, I don't really think much about the sexualities of anyone. Isn't really a point of interest to me, since I'm nonsexual.
No problems with them because of how they are, so long as they, or anyone else, has no problem with how I am.
I don't understand the concept. If you like red, but also like green, are you not equally greedy?
Applying greed to a concept that does not involve consumption is pointless at best, and bigotry at worst.
Applying greed to a concept that does not involve consumption is pointless at best, and bigotry at worst.
This.Talal Provides said:
Also, there are different kinds of attraction. I say I'm bi, because I genuinely am attracted to both sexes - even more so to women, they physically appeal to me a lot more than men do. But I have a boyfriend, and I love him, and there are of course physical parts of him that I truly am attracted to(his eyes, his rather broad shoulders, his hair... sorry what was I saying?) of course.
You know, after talking with my gay friends and saying I was bi, several of them treated me with open disdain. I always wondered why, and they just said because "I don't like bi's".Rasputin1 said:
Now I get it. That leads me to ask...
What the HELL is wrong with you?!
So what if I'm bi? It's not like I chose to find males sexy, yet, at the same time, females sexy. This is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. It's insane.
How can you honestly believe that? Is something wrong with you?
What's so hard to understand about "Guys can like girls. Guys can like guys. Also, they could even like BOTH!"?
My housemate is bi-sexual. Last year she was dating a guy. Now she's dating a girl.
I don't see why sexuality is seen as so binary by so many people. It's a spectrum, not one OR the other. A lot of people are bi-curious, which isn't the same. It's an uncertainty, that (usually) turns into a lean one way or the other. I can't say for sure, but I imagine most bi-curious people stay at least a little bit bi-curious. Bisexuality is a distinct, recognised sexuality, where people of both sexes are attractive.
My ex-girlfriend was bi - before dating me, she had a boyfriend... [small]although in this case, I'm willing to accept it was just greed.[/small]
I don't see why sexuality is seen as so binary by so many people. It's a spectrum, not one OR the other. A lot of people are bi-curious, which isn't the same. It's an uncertainty, that (usually) turns into a lean one way or the other. I can't say for sure, but I imagine most bi-curious people stay at least a little bit bi-curious. Bisexuality is a distinct, recognised sexuality, where people of both sexes are attractive.
My ex-girlfriend was bi - before dating me, she had a boyfriend... [small]although in this case, I'm willing to accept it was just greed.[/small]
With my Christian views, I tend to see bi-sexuality as a form of lust. This gets me into some pretty bad arguments that I usually end up walking away from before I rip the other person apart.
My problem with bi-sexuality is almost entirely about sex, though. I believe that it is possible, actually, I believe it's important to love people from both sexes. Not in a sexual kind of love, though. More of a "Man hath no greater love than this: that he lay down his life for his friends," kind. The mixing of the two types of love is what puts me off.
If anyone has any arguments or supplements for my views, I'd love to hear them.
My problem with bi-sexuality is almost entirely about sex, though. I believe that it is possible, actually, I believe it's important to love people from both sexes. Not in a sexual kind of love, though. More of a "Man hath no greater love than this: that he lay down his life for his friends," kind. The mixing of the two types of love is what puts me off.
If anyone has any arguments or supplements for my views, I'd love to hear them.
Greedy? That's silly. Imagine, say, that A likes chocolate and B likes fruit. They both have one piece of their respective preference. Then imagine that C likes both, but has one piece of whatever they feel like at the time. Next time, they have a piece of the other thing. All three are eating the same quantity, but C is eating an equal amount of both foods, rather than exclusively consuming one type. Does that make C greedy? No. If C scoffed as much of both as they could get, then yes, they'd be greedy. The same could be said of A if they ate a whole box of chocolate. As it is, C just has a wider preference for food, but still eats in moderation. If C stopped eating fruit and adpoted A's eating habits, no change in the level of consumption would've taken place, so accusing C of greed is unfounded, and rather odd.
I guess bisexuality has a few problems when it comes to acceptance because these days loads of girls seem to claim being bi just to turn on guys. I've had... some dealings with those. It wasn't pretty, and lead me to be a little wary of girls who claim to be bi.
Other than that, yeah sure I believe people can be bi. Why not? I can see the appeal in both sexes even if I'm not bi myself. And it's not like they can fall for just anyone. They still have likes and dislikes in people, gender just isn't among those.
Other than that, yeah sure I believe people can be bi. Why not? I can see the appeal in both sexes even if I'm not bi myself. And it's not like they can fall for just anyone. They still have likes and dislikes in people, gender just isn't among those.
They're not greedy, my gf is bi-sexual but she'll never actually pursue a relationship with another female because she just doesn't like females in relationships I guess. Only an attraction thing I guess. She's been bi since she can remember, she never chose to be bi and she's definitely not open to the world about it.
I'm straight but I don't see what people have against bis, no one should be forced to make a descision on who they should fall for or sexually prefer, why is it of anyones business anyway? Why does anyone's opinion on a bi person matter? Like as if the life they lead is anything to go by.
A straight is a straight, a bi is a bi and a gay is a gay, done, life sorted. Those who have an issue with it obviously have personal issues, fullstop.
A straight is a straight, a bi is a bi and a gay is a gay, done, life sorted. Those who have an issue with it obviously have personal issues, fullstop.
I'm wondering if the stereotype that bi people are more likely to cheat is true.
Anyone wanna confirm/deny this?
Anyone wanna confirm/deny this?
I don't have any trouble with bisexuals. I myself am pansexual (it means that I am able to love and date anyone and everyone, from your typical males and females, to TS', to...just about everyone), and I was bisexual before that. I believe that everyone is at least a bit bi. Some people just haven't realized it.
... Greedy?
Erm, anyway. I would consider myself bi, though I really just don't care about sexuality. If I find someone attractive, then so be it, that just happens to be both males and females. So yeah!
And... Greedy?
Erm, anyway. I would consider myself bi, though I really just don't care about sexuality. If I find someone attractive, then so be it, that just happens to be both males and females. So yeah!
And... Greedy?
This is probably true. I love your avatar by the way.Talal Provides said:
More on topic: bisexuals are not "greedy". If anything, they are "liberated". I wish I could just suck it up and get intimate with a lady every once in a while; it might be fun. As it is, I stick with the fellas, and I don't get all that much sex at all.