Corbe Retort said:
The Almighty Aardvark said:
Part of me wants to come up with a clever response, but the other part of me wants to answer you by asking another question.
*I'm mostly responding to The Almighty Aardvark, but hopefully this will answer both of you.
Who does it help when someone calls something, that clearly isn't sexist, sexist?
Even if you haven't seen Frozen the thing she's calling out is that the lead character is looking for love.
If you met a woman in real life who told you she really wanted a boyfriend or a husband, you would not tell her her pursuit was diminishing the independence of her entire gender. You just wouldn't because you aren't insane.
A couple things that knowing the premise of Frozen would help with
Anna, the main character that Mayim Bialik is complaining about, has never been outside.
So she's extremely sheltered and naive and only has 1 day to fulfill all her naive fantasies.
she even sings a song about it
This is relevant because Anna is a girl with a unique circumstance and in absolutely no way is she a symbolic surrogate for all woman kind.
If Frozen had any real sexist themes would be if the
good guys of the story thought Anna had to get married in order to be a proper woman despite her wishes, because it doesn't matter what she thinks.
As it stands Anna wants to get married because she spend her formative years alone in a sheltered environment and believes that fairytale romance is a real thing.
Or the
good guys of the story would think Elsa (The heir to the throne) is not fit to rule the kingdom because she's a woman.
as it stands the
bad guys think Elsa is not fit to rule the kingdom because she has magic and that makes her a monster.
So calling Frozen sexist is nothing short of a decoration of your own personal insanity.
And stories like the two I just mentioned up there wouldn't happen unless the writer/director thought they were good enough to make a sexist character deep and rounded enough to carry a movie. because people understand that sexism is bad, even the people who are flagrantly sexist understand that most people hate them for it.
If a legitimately sexist film came out everyone would be able to tell, not just the crazy ones.