Biggest Turn-Off

[hyperhammy]

I got inspired by this one girl I'm chatting with to make this thread, she is having some big issues and well, I was kind of using it as my advantage to be the "good guy"!

Manipulative women are a big turn off (And manipulative men are just annoying).

I know I'm being kind of a jerk, but at least I'm there for her while she's having a bad time... Come on!

Intent counts as much as action: sometimes even more.

Frankly, its disgusting.

Okay, that's where we disagree.
In my opinion, actions are more important than the original intent.

 

[Timmehexas]

'macho' guys. Srsly? There is nothing more of a turn off to me. I like a guy who's more feminine and gentle. It makes me feel safe. Macho guys can be nice but I still feel intimidated and frightened by them.

Agreed although feminine isn't a huge turn on for me but I like gentle, I like hugs. Hugs are nice.

 

[hyperhammy]

'macho' guys. Srsly? There is nothing more of a turn off to me. I like a guy who's more feminine and gentle. It makes me feel safe. Macho guys can be nice but I still feel intimidated and frightened by them.

Agreed although feminine isn't a huge turn on for me but I like gentle, I like hugs. Hugs are nice.

Hugs ARE nice.

 

[Lucifron]

'macho' guys. Srsly? There is nothing more of a turn off to me. I like a guy who's more feminine and gentle. It makes me feel safe. Macho guys can be nice but I still feel intimidated and frightened by them.

Must... resist... making... macho... joke...

Think... of... the... children...

ungh...

 

[Betancore]

People who don't want the responsibility of making a decision. Which is kind of funny, since I'm dating...well I'm not sure if we're dating, actually, but I'm going out with a guy who's kind of non-committal about everything. And people who are too nice, and pretty much let you walk over them.

It's great if you're a kind and respectful person, but it's not so great when you have absolutely no opinions. On the other hand, I also dislike guys who walk around expecting women to fall in love with them. And guys who can't take a joke.

 

[aseelt]

Body odour is a big no no.
Also smoking.

I'm picky about my smells!

 

[Dark Knifer]

Girls who tend to ***** about their friends turn me off, as do sluts and those who do not understand issues outside what is happening in their immediate life.

 

[Hwoof]

People who don't want the responsibility of making a decision.

This. I suppose i could go further and say people who need someone to make decisions for them. Too bad people aren't always going to be around to make their every decision in life, and at some stage they're going to have to face the fact that life is full of them.

And on a side note, Extremely large breasts or ass.

Sure I'd prefer them in a good size, but in the big scheme of things, that's just a personal preference, and not a big deal. Dolly parton sized female protuberances? Now that's just vomit inducing.

Edit:

those who do not understand issues outside what is happening in their immediate life.

This also. Then again, it makes me seem like an elitist...

 

[ethaninja]

That. My ex was a frikken NUTBAG. Clingy, needy and depressing *****. When I was joining up for the Air Force she kept talking to me about how I was going to die and shit. Great way to ruin an experience of a lifetime!

 

[Frequen-Z]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

 

[hyperhammy]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

I guess it can be...
I have nothing against smokers, mostly because they are more laid back than non smokers.

 

[Frequen-Z]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

I guess it can be...
I have nothing against smokers, mostly because they are more laid back than non smokers.

Yeah I hate how dogmatic non-smokers can be. Never see them ranting on about how people should smoke.

 

[Betancore]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

From a distance, sure. But then I think about how quickly they'll age. And how bad it smells. But hey, not all smokers are unattractive - look at James Dean.

 

[hyperhammy]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

I guess it can be...
I have nothing against smokers, mostly because they are more laid back than non smokers.

Yeah I hate how dogmatic non-smokers can be. Never see them ranting on about how people should smoke.

Yeah! Same thing with non drinkers.
I was throwing a party since my parents were out of town.
We busted out the booze and started drinking.
There was one guy the refused to drink and I was like "You don't have to drink, it's cool!".
Everyone agreed with me. 30 min later he started bitching at us.

 

[captaincabbage]

guys that are full of themselves and think too much about every bs us girls do.... really annoying to justify everything.

Resisting. . . Urge. . . To he-***** man-slap . . . Bitchy girls.

OT: What was stated above a thousand times over. A girl (or guy) could be the hottest thing on the planet, but if they're a bitchy fucktard who whines about everything, then they can fuck off as far as I'm concerned.
Either that, or really rough stuff. I'm into a little bit of biting and stuff, but my girlfriend tried to spank me once and I was all like "Woah there, bi-atch." (well, not really, but you catch my drift)

 

[Nexus4]

Girls who insist you do all the work because your a guy.

 

[Mordwyl]

'macho' guys. Srsly? There is nothing more of a turn off to me. I like a guy who's more feminine and gentle. It makes me feel safe. Macho guys can be nice but I still feel intimidated and frightened by them.

Sucks for the guys that look masculine then, right?

Not quite the turn-off, but being shallow was never a plus in my books. Not that I'm ugly or anything but people assume the worst seeing a guy with a rough demeanor, with the worst offender being patronised as if I was some kind of moron. There's two things one is not allowed to breach: the family and the intellect.