Biggest Turn-Off

[Still Life]

Arrogant/self-centric/stupid/shallow/manipulative/overly-dependent bitches make me wilt.

Intelligent/charming/compassionate/passionate/independent women are my interest.

 

[aLivingPheonix]

Lots of things... Stupidity. I don't like un-intelligent people. Also, being overweight. I don't mind, but it just kind of turns me off.

Manipulation, too. I hate manipulative people.

And bitchy-ness.

And... Arrogance. I HATE arrogant people.

And big boobs. I don't like BIG boobs. They're... kinda gross, in my opinion. I like them smaller.

EDIT: And women who try to change me. I freaking hate that.

 

[SimuLord]

In order:

- Drug or alcohol problems.
- Kids. I want my own. I don't want to raise someone else's.
- Garish/excessive tattoos. A small one or two is one thing; a sleeve and tramp stamp and the word "slut" across her tits is a different matter.
- Cigarettes. I can live with a smoker if she has no other major flaws.
- A sexual history that's longer than my own (and I've been around the block a few times). Double especially if she talks about her ex-boyfriends (or worse, her ex-one-night-stands) like she's clearly still thinking about them.

 

[sirkai007]

No joke, if a girl likes Country music, I have a hard time with that. That or if she has an obviously low I/Q or she is obese.

 

[sirkai007]

...Oh, also there's this one girl I know who would totally be hot as hell, but in EVERY damn photo she takes, she has to make a really stupid face. Not silly cute, just stupid looking. If she's in a photo with any other girl, the other one becomes instantly more attractive

Is it the "Duck Face"?

 

[Nechti_Visara]

True, absolute stupidity. Or, at least what I perceive to be such. I'm kind of a know-it-all, so this could be an unfortunately wide range of things.

Also, armpit hair. I know it's normal for guys, but it totally grosses me out.

 

[ultrachicken]

Girls who expect chivalry. Or gossip too much. Or expects me to know everything. Or expects me to do all the work. Or who constantly insults herself. Or lets people walk all over her.

 

[Nieroshai]

Things my girlfriend does that turns me off:
She's the one who wants to hurry and cut to the chase, and I'm the one who likes to take my time and enjoy the moment. Very impatient person she is.
When she's feeling down I'm the first one there to comfort and listen. When I'm down, she gets annoyed at me for being depressed and leaves the room.

 

[PaulyWalnuts]

...Oh, also there's this one girl I know who would totally be hot as hell, but in EVERY damn photo she takes, she has to make a really stupid face. Not silly cute, just stupid looking. If she's in a photo with any other girl, the other one becomes instantly more attractive

Is it the "Duck Face"?

Duck face + eyes crossed in different directions + and her head cocked so her hair falls weird

I don't even think I could make this up, and to get a reference I seriously went to the first photo of her on facebook (she does it that often). I think she's trying to funny or "unique" but she just looks like she got hit in the head a few times

 

[Dags90]

Not particularly keen on very fem or scene[footnote]I mean the gay slang, not the kind who wear skinny jeans.[/footnote] guys.

 

[superbatranger]

I'm going to be completely original and say smoking. Whenever I see a girl smoking, I think to myself, "No."

Sadly, almost everyone around here smokes.

 

[Yureina]

Agreed with the OP. If a person's negativity is all-consuming to the point that it seems like everything that they ever say is depressing or negative, that is a major turn-off. Not just a romantic one either. Act like that around me and I won't even want to see your face or hear your words anymore. My life is stressful enough without adding other people's gloom.

 

[Macgyvercas]

Smoking. I personally have nothing against it, but it turns me off from people in general. I do respect good smokers (who are conscious that other people don't want to inhale SHS and the like) but in general I find something that kills you and people around you to be a turnoff.

This. I don't care how attractive they are, or how much we have in common, smoking is an instakill of any and all intimate relationship prospects.

Another one is the inability to carry on an intelligent conversation without mentioning anything that would be seen in the tabloids.

 

[rokkolpo]

You have a WHAAAAT!?

 

[sipe]

When they draw attention to them self and seem insecure.

 

[Mr.Pandah]

Smoking.

Women who can't laugh at the immature/off-color joke here and there. I'm not asking you to find Louis C.K. hysterical, but god damn, lighten up if the comic makes a raunchy joke here and there.

 

[destiaer]

I got inspired by this one girl I'm chatting with to make this thread, she is having some big issues and well, I was kind of using it as my advantage to be the "good guy"!

Manipulative women are a big turn off (And manipulative men are just annoying).

I know I'm being kind of a jerk, but at least I'm there for her while she's having a bad time... Come on!

AGREE!! Chivalry ain't dead boys, just unconcious...

 

[Julianking93]

Smokers.

That's it.

 

[NaturalCauses]

Guys with bad acne. I find myself staring at it.. and gradually becoming more grossed with each passing second.

So take care of your skin, guys!