After reading a thread here about qualities you find attractive in other people, what are the things that really turn you off? Mine - arrogance. How about yours? (Apologies if this thread has came up before.)
Biggest turn off?
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Racists, fat arses (I mean the drunkard, overly excessive eater types), chavs, thugs, religious freaks and idiots. I mentioned this all in that other thread.
Selfishness. Really gets me when people are all take, take, take and are incredibly inconsiderate as a result of their self-absorption.
Being unwilling to try something new. I'm a pretty open-minded person, and I generally give every new opportunity a hearty yes. I like to try and get into my boy's activities alongside him, and it annoys me when my boy won't do the same. Everything else is negotiable, but if I want to go on an adventure and you want to sit on the couch, it's not going to work.
Edit edit edit edit: Militant atheism turns me off more than militant religion, actually. I am more likely to be friendly with someone who sees me as a good person with sinful habits than someone who considers me an idiot for entertaining the possibility of an afterlife.
Edit edit edit edit: Militant atheism turns me off more than militant religion, actually. I am more likely to be friendly with someone who sees me as a good person with sinful habits than someone who considers me an idiot for entertaining the possibility of an afterlife.
Indeed. Totally agree. Another thing I'll never be able to excuse or oversee is complainers. Don't get me wrong, complaining about your leg breaking is understandable/acceptable, but complaining about small insignifcant things like 'being bored' really irratates me. If you're bored do something about it!wewontdie11 said:
im a jesus freak, get over it
lets see, people who stereotype, people who judge based on appearence, ethnicity, age, gender and last but not least the french (just kidding I love you guys)
lets see, people who stereotype, people who judge based on appearence, ethnicity, age, gender and last but not least the french (just kidding I love you guys)
fatness plain and simple. sounds a bit shallow maybe don't really care. in my opinion fat people just look grotesque, it also suggests a low willpower and a poor Self-efficacy
EDIT reading through religion is also a major turn off, coming from my own deeply scientific views and the fact that you cannot debate with them about it do to fideism.
EDIT reading through religion is also a major turn off, coming from my own deeply scientific views and the fact that you cannot debate with them about it do to fideism.
sortof what he said.zirnitra said:
I cannot overlook fat and lack of intelligence.
People who have views deeply founded in religion is very difficult to argue with, I tend to just avoid them seeing how I love to discuss everything (including the paranormal, which is kinda impossible with someone religious)
Women who curse excessively. If you can't find a more interesting way to express your feelings, then I don't think I want to know you.
Yep, instant turn-off. bedcause as soon as a girl starts chatting about Jesus and salvation and whatnot, I know its a lost cause; we just arent going to agree. on anything. ever