While I've only really been reading up to this point, I felt the need to post in agreement with you Canadish, at least when it comes to the Fanboy issue. This thread has definitely been entertaining and there are definitely flaws to the argument on both sides, as neither has entirely definitive proof of their claims.
Though while this is true, I personally believe there definitely could be something fishy going on with this DLC. One of those reasons being that while I'm not really a fan of his, I definitely agree with TotalBiscuit when it comes to his ideas about what Collector Edition content should be. I've never really liked the practice, but I am mostly fine with physical collector editions. It's when it moved digital and started including decent chunks of content, (Such as in this case, a full character over simply a skin or some armor.) that's when it becomes a problem for me.
My other major issue is the price, almost all Bioware DLC has been ten dollars and in many cases, for as little as an hour or so of content. That may not seem like much, but it will when you think about the fact that by using simple math, you can deduce that ten dollars is a sixth of the price of a full game. Are you getting a sixth of the content in any full Bioware game when you purchase ANY ten dollar Bioware DLC? Certainly not.
This also brings me to one of the arguments many of you have had against "Zeel." Which is the rumor that this DLC is just the ability to use the Prothean character as a party member and not his whole existence. I have to ask any of you, if this is true and that's all it is, is that really worth a sixth of the price and equal to a sixth of the content of the full game? I definitely don't think so.
There's also another issue that bugs me quite personally, which is that all those ten dollar charges can be used for so many amazing games that all have far more value in terms of content and length. I can easily name any number of incredible games on Xbox Live's Arcade that are the same ten dollar price. This bugs me personally because I know quite a few people who will without question buy every Bioware DLC released, but wont try a single Arcade or "Cheap" title I suggest. There are also a number of full retail games that I definitely feel are near entirely ignored in favor of Bioware games and their DLC. While reading through this thread I was constantly reminded of one in Daystar Clarion's avatar, Okami, an amazing game and one of my favorite PS2 titles. One of the very few games in this current generation I can say I've purchased multiple times and it was pretty much nearly ignored when it was originally released.
Point being, while I do really enjoy the Mass Effect series, I think Bioware fanboyism has completely run wild. As much as I enjoy Bioware games, and I do, I don't think they deserve the craze they receive. I generally see them as games with well written characters, very well put together universes, pretty basic over-all stories and very average game play. The whole package makes a good experience, but nothing about them screams for the attention they receive.
In my experience no one Fanboys like a Bioware fanboy and if you can't at least acknowledge that there is at least a distinct possibility of greed driven foul play from EA/Bioware in this situation, then there really is no point to try and convince you otherwise, as you are, as far as I'm concerned, a Fanboy/girl. It's one thing to say there's no concrete evidence, it's another to entirely dismiss the possibility with EA/Bioware's track record.
I will be buying Mass Effect 3, but not the DLC, (Nothing new for me. All of my Bioware games are "clean" saves, minus DA:O as Awakening is the only DLC I've purchased and will probably continue to be the only one, as it's the only one I felt even came close to being sold at it's value.) but this may also be my last Bioware game. I was one of the people who had a serious problem with the mess that was Dragon Age 2, mostly because of bugs. I could not get a proper completion of that game until probably half a year after it came out. This is of course not also considering some of the horrible design decisions like the repetitive dungeons, but that's just more to the point. As a fan, I've been very disappointed with Bioware in recent years and I used to see them as an inspirational part of this industry. The things they've done since joining up with EA have only furthered that and after Dragon Age 2, I told myself Mass Effect 3 would be their last chance to get more cash out of me, unless it ended up being an AMAZING, FINISHED and acceptably buggy product.
So yes, before this gets much longer, I will be buying Mass Effect 3, but not the DLC and I would suggest to anyone else bugged by these actions, to simply do the same. It wont kill you to not have the DLC and you can still speak with you money as it's the sales of the separate DLC that they are definitely going to be mostly concerned with and watching the most at this point.