fordneagles said:
A friend of mine and I had this discussion recently. I suggested in casual conversation that breeding licenses should be imposed on people. My friend argued that doing that would take away a persons right to choose, in part I agree, and I totally understand where they are coming from. However, I made the following point:
In almost everything important in your life, you have to obtain some kind of permission to do it. If you want to drive, you have to get a driving license. If you want to vote, you have to enrol (or in some cases, you are made to enrol and then get fined if you don't vote). If you want to drink and/or smoke, you have to be of an appropriate age in your country. If you want to travel to another country, you have to get a passport. And yet the *MOST* important thing you could do in your life, bringing a tiny, vulnerable human being into this world, is something anyone is allowed to do regardless of whether they are capable of caring for that child or not. Instead we wait until the parent has proved they are NOT capable of caring for the child before taking it away and in most cases after the child has been traumatized/abused/disabled/etc.
So what do you think, Escapists? Should we have to prove we would be fit parents before we bring a child into the world? Or not?
P.S. This is essentially a hypothetical question. It's not really something you can police, but if it were possible, would you support it?
You could easily police it. Some rare cases might slip through the cracks, but a very high percentage of the people who have children do so at a hospital. If they didn't have a licence, instead of sending the child home with them automatically, contact social services.
I think it should be done. I've seen way too many cases where people completely incapable or even unwilling to care for a child have had one anyway. Usually through their own stupidity.
EDIT: As for restricting rights, you wouldn't be doing so if the license was easily obtainable, within a 7-8 month period, you would just be providing an easy method for adoption, and also protecting the child's right not to be abused or neglected ect.