Why would I mind? Being called names is not gonna start affecting me NOW of all times.SonicWaffle said:A whaaaa?DJ_DEnM said:This thread has now become a Haze-Star thread.
So you don't mind if other people judge you for liking a children's cartoon, you'll still be wearing your badges with pride?DJ_DEnM said:OT: Nope, not in the slightest.
And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
If that's some sort of meme, I missed it. I'm bad at the internet.Shadowstar38 said:That was a picture of Foghorn Leghorn
I doubt that, unless they're really, really small badges...Chrono212 said:Nope.
I wear as many self-referential t-shirts, badges and hats as my body is physically able to handle.
WHICH IS OVER 9000!
My tribe versus your tribe. I'll do my damnest to convince myself that my tribe is better than your tribe.SonicWaffle said:That's exactly the point. Geekiness is becoming mainstream - why are we singling out certain hobbies and claiming they are somehow worse than others?
because for some reason it moved here from off-topic where I tried to post of. The mysterious Gods Of The Internet apparently judged thusly. Though, it being at least partially about Warhammer 40K, that's gaming...DJ_DEnM said:Also, why is this in Gaming Discussion?
What's interesting to me is that it isn't the brand or the narrative universe that appears to be the bone of contention, just the context. A friend laughed when I mentioned playing Warhammer, but the same friend didn't raise an eyebrow a few months back when I said I'd played the demo for Space Marine. It appears that if you're holding a controller then dabbling in that universe is fine, but woe betide you if you're playing the exact same scenario with little plastic models.Scorched_Cascade said:I've been discussing how good the Horus Heresy books, a series I'm a fan of, are and how they've even gotten some critical acclaim and made bestseller lists. I talk about them with others and people read the chat and say things like "that sounds really interesting, what are you talking about?" mention the words "Warhammer" or "40k" and you get "Oh, nevermind then, forget I asked".
I dunno - like I said, I think it's the models and the tabeltop setting more than the universe.Scorched_Cascade said:It's puzzling. Even people into the sci-fi ish genre who would probably really like it wont go near it because of the reputation of the extended universe it belongs to.
I felt like throwing an attention-grabbing title in there, and hoping that at least some Escapists would bother to read the OP without resorting to shouting ;-)Scorched_Cascade said:Interesting topic potential but I think the title is going to make it go south fairly quickly. If it does go bad or just stagnate I suggest remaking it with a less...divisive title
Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
So you're saying that now that geek culture is verging on mainstream, we're fated to break apart and start sub-dividing into smaller and smaller subcultures with all the attendant wars that implies?Vegosiux said:My tribe versus your tribe. I'll do my damnest to convince myself that my tribe is better than your tribe.
You have a point there, but my question isn't so much about why people hate than it is about why people hate these specific things. What makes one geeky pursuit any lamer than all the others?Vegosiux said:People don't hate on bronies (bacon lovers, gays, hippies) in order to make them feel bad, but in order to feel good about themselves. It's a self-validation thing.
Would you wander about with your dick out? Not trolling, serious question - if you really don't care what others think then why does it matter if they see your junk?TimeLord said:Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
I have absolutely no idea what it is you're referring toDJ_DEnM said:This thread has now become a Haze-Star thread.
OT: Nope, not in the slightest.
Pretty much, yeah. While geekdom was niche, it had no problems with staying within its monkeysphere. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar%27s_number] As it closes in on mainstream and gets larger, the "geekdom attributes" get diluted and blurred.SonicWaffle said:So you're saying that now that geek culture is verging on mainstream, we're fated to break apart and start sub-dividing into smaller and smaller subcultures with all the attendant wars that implies?
Well, popularity or unpopularity, mostly, I think. Also the "guilty pleasure" effect may kick in, sometimes it's "I shouldn't like this, but I secretly do, so I better publicly hate on others who do so I maintain my personal integrity".SonicWaffle said:You have a point there, but my question isn't so much about why people hate than it is about why people hate these specific things. What makes one geeky pursuit any lamer than all the others?
And in your opinion, why is MLP looked down upon more than other things which the culture at large has labelled as nerdy?Sniper Team 4 said:I really don't think you're going to find any Brony willing to admit that they're ashamed, especially on the internet and this site. Because Bronies aren't supposed to feel ashamed. Goes against their image. I'm sure there are some out there who do though. Not because they feel bad about watching the cartoon, but because the way other people treat them. The teasing and laughing is easy to shrug off. It's the glaring looks, the disgusted breaths, the behind-your-back comments that get under your skin and make you ashamed.
No, that would be stupid because I'd get arrested. Also I said "I do what I want because I enjoy it". I would not enjoy that. I never said I'd do anything. I said I wouldn't care what others think about what I do. I'm not going to think "Oh maybe I shouldn't listen to this music in case my friends think I'm weird". I'll listen to whatever I want and if my friends don't like it then that's their problem not mine. I don't see the point in limiting what you do in life just because someone disagree or thinks you're a little crazy.SonicWaffle said:Would you wander about with your dick out? Not trolling, serious question - if you really don't care what others think then why does it matter if they see your junk?TimeLord said:Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
Let's say you have friends over at your house, where you (probably, I haven't done huge amounts of research) can't get nicked for being naked. You decide to whip off your keks and bare it all to the world. Would you consider, even for a second, how these friends might judge you or would you just go ahead and do it?TimeLord said:No, that would be stupid because I'd get arrested.SonicWaffle said:Would you wander about with your dick out? Not trolling, serious question - if you really don't care what others think then why does it matter if they see your junk?TimeLord said:Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
Well of course it's going to be within certain socially defined parameters. But the examples I used in my first post were all gaming or geek examples. Which is exactly my point. I'm not ashamed to admit and show that I'm a geek, to my friends or complete strangers. Because I don't care if they disapprove because I enjoy being a geek.SonicWaffle said:Let's say you have friends over at your house, where you (probably, I haven't done huge amounts of research) can't get nicked for being naked. You decide to whip off your keks and bare it all to the world. Would you consider, even for a second, how these friends might judge you or would you just go ahead and do it?TimeLord said:No, that would be stupid because I'd get arrested.SonicWaffle said:Would you wander about with your dick out? Not trolling, serious question - if you really don't care what others think then why does it matter if they see your junk?TimeLord said:Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
This, to me, is the crux of the "I do what I want and I don't care what people think" issue - it always seems to be within certain mental boundaries which, once crossed, the person stating that they don't care dismisses by saying "well of course not that, don't be stupid". It's more of an "I do what I want, within certain socially defined parameters", and in this case my question is what parameters have defined that MLP is something to be kept quiet and what exactly has made it so.
Yes, but the point here is that even within "I'm a geek", we appear to be stratifying and saying "Yeah, I'm a geek, but that guy is more of geek, because what he likes is pathetic"TimeLord said:Well of course it's going to be within certain socially defined parameters. But the examples I used in my first post were all gaming or geek examples. Which is exactly my point. I'm not ashamed to admit and show that I'm a geek, to my friends or complete strangers. Because I don't care if they disapprove because I enjoy being a geek.SonicWaffle said:Let's say you have friends over at your house, where you (probably, I haven't done huge amounts of research) can't get nicked for being naked. You decide to whip off your keks and bare it all to the world. Would you consider, even for a second, how these friends might judge you or would you just go ahead and do it?TimeLord said:No, that would be stupid because I'd get arrested.SonicWaffle said:Would you wander about with your dick out? Not trolling, serious question - if you really don't care what others think then why does it matter if they see your junk?TimeLord said:Well... no. If I cared what other people think I wouldn't go walking round my local city wearing my Doctor Who trenchcoat and an 8-bit tie. I wouldn't sit in a McDonalds playing Pokemon on my 3DS. I wouldn't have gone to America for an Internet gaming expo.SonicWaffle said:And other people's opinions don't matter to you at all?TimeLord said:No.
The same way I'm not ashamed of gaming or liking bacon in the presence of vegetarians. I do what I want because I enjoy it.
This, to me, is the crux of the "I do what I want and I don't care what people think" issue - it always seems to be within certain mental boundaries which, once crossed, the person stating that they don't care dismisses by saying "well of course not that, don't be stupid". It's more of an "I do what I want, within certain socially defined parameters", and in this case my question is what parameters have defined that MLP is something to be kept quiet and what exactly has made it so.