California Teen Leaves School, Moves in With Former Teacher

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An angry California mother is alleging abuse now that her 18-year-old daughter is living with her former high school teacher, who left his wife and children to move into an apartment with the young woman.

James Hooker, 41, quit his job after going public with his love for Jordan Powers, who stopped attending classes at her Modesto high school and left home to be with her former business teacher.

The girl?s mother is skeptical of the couple?s claims that nothing sexual happened between them, and exactly when the relationship became physical has become the center of a police investigation.

?She looked up to him,? mom Tammie Powers said. ?[He was in the] position of an educator, [and you] don?t abuse your student. Period. She?s still in high school. She still lives at home. She has a curfew. ? That?s not OK.?

The couple maintains that their feelings for each other blossomed slowly by spending time together during and after school, and then via phone calls and text messages. The two first met when Jordan was a high school freshman at James Enochs High School, but they say they only developed romantic feelings after she turned 18 in September.

?[He's] my best friend. I mean, he?s more than just a lover,? Jordan Powers said of Hooker, who has a daughter a year younger than her and attended the same high school.

Hooker said that while Jordan Powers was a student in his business class, he didn?t think twice about her. ?She was just a student,? he said. ?There was no attraction. There was nothing that was out of the ordinary, as opposed to any other student. We were very much a teacher-student role.?

Tammie Powers is unconvinced. As soon as she discovered a long log of text message exchanges, she went straight to the police. She waged her own war on Facebook, posting a letter that went viral telling everyone that classmates took photos of her daughter sitting on Hooker?s lap when she was still his student.

She says that she also discovered 8,000 text messages between the two, along with late-night phone calls and email exchanges that took place when she was still a minor.

?That?s pursuit, in my opinion, with some type of intent,? she told ABC News 10 in California.

But none of the late-night calls or endless texts were a red flag of inappropriateness to him, and says that people looking for proof of an unacceptable relationship before Jordan was 18 are just inquisitive about their connection, Hooker said.

?I think that they?re just digging for something that wasn?t there. I mean, of course, they?re going to be curious,? Hooker added. ?But I know for a fact that there was nothing.?

Although Jordan has stopped attending classes, she is now doing independent study through the school and plans to walk at her graduation.

Hooker confirmed that he is under investigation by the Modesto Police Department, but is confident he will be completely cleared of any allegations of inappropriate behavior. He said that he understands that people don?t understand their relationship.

?I think the stigma of the teacher-student relationship just makes it messy, makes it really hard for people to get through to the point that we really do like each other, he said. ?We really do want to have a future together.?

http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/headlines/2012/03/california-teen-leaves-school-moves-in-with-former-teacher/



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What do you think of this guy. Sounds really sketchy and inappropriate to me that the relationship just all of a sudden just happened at 18 and even if it did its still really kinda wrong, 41 divorce with kids, young attractive 18 year old girl and movin in together hmmmmm....... I think Im gonna have to side with the mom on this one.
 

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Sketchy to be sure. But if there's no substantive evidence of abuse, there's not much to be said. She's an adult and no matter how gross it is, it's no business of mine who she loves or sleeps with.
 

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*Shrug* As Senordesol said, she's an adult and old enough to make her own decisions now. It seems the mother is more butt-hurt over her daughter leaving her house rather than actually having a legitimate complaint. It might not be very professional of the teacher but he quit his job when he announced it so no problem there.
 

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The guys last name is Hooker? Wow, thats gotta suck.

As for her, well, she's 18 so it's her life. Don't know if someone can be charged for dating a minor after they've turned 18 though so the mom may or may not be S.O.L.
 

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As a training teacher...this is fucked!

I am constantly told that this is completely taboo (rightfully so) and I will be VERY surprised if that teacher manages to keep his job.

As for the relationship, they are both adults so they have the freedom. If I was principal though I would fire that teacher for sure (can principals do that in the USA?)
 

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It's not right. You think at 18 you magically become wiser and forget all the ways that other people affected your thinking, or even brainwashed you when you were a minor? NO.

If she met him after she was 18 then fair enough. BUT THAT'S NOT THE CASE.

Also as someone who was once 18 let me just that 18 year olds are complete fucking idiots. And 99% of them have no business making these kind of decisions for themselves.
 

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Mortai Gravesend said:
Well she's not his student anymore, presumably for their ability to have that relationship.
It's implied that they were 'too close' when she was at school. The teacher is meant to be professional. The saying 'dont mix business with pleasure' comes to mind.
 

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A little unusual, but seems fine to me. She's 18, she can make her own decisions.

Maybe she'll regret it later and split up with him, but you could say that of pretty much any relationship.

Doesn't seem like the mother has grounds for complaint unless she was prevented from having free will through some kind of coercion.

People today tend to think of 18 as some kind of magic age at which kids can make their own decisions, but humans have been getting married, having kids, and starting families at the ages of 14-17 for thousands of years. Typically by the age of 15, you've already started deciding things for yourself and your own life that may go contrary to your parents' decisions. Can't protect kids forever. You can't protect them from themselves.
 

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I'm on the popular opinion here. She's 18, she's old enough to make decisions and so she must live with the consequences. Maybe they'll live happily together for many years? Maybe they'll break up in five months and she'll come crawling back to her mother. Who knows, I don't see much wrong in this.
 

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He has a daughter almost the same age as this girl he may've statutorily raped, and he's abandoning his daughter (and wife) to go live with this girl?

That's just fucked up.

Dimitriov said:
Also as someone who was once 18 let me just that 18 year olds are complete fucking idiots. And 99% of them have no business making these kind of decisions for themselves.
QFT.

Be surprised if this lasts a year before she realizes she was wrong. But I dunno, maybe I'm the asshole--maybe it is true love. I generally try not to judge these relationships with vast differences in age, but she's just a kid. A 25-year-old dating a 60-year-old, that's fine with me. Unorthodox, maybe, but the 25-year-old is at least old enough to be able to make their own decisions. An 18-year-old is, as you said, stupid (and naive.)

It always cracks me up that people can only legally drink at 21, and yet they're considered adults at just 18. Did anyone, at 18, really feel that much different? I sure as shit didn't.
 

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Pretty much the thing that intrigued me the most about this story is that his last name is 'Hooker'.
 

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Qitz said:
The guys last name is Hooker? Wow, thats gotta suck.
And the girls last name is Powers. If they marry they should definitely go for a double barreled name:

"I now pronounce you Mr. and Mrs. Hooker-Powers"
 

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BathorysGraveland said:
I'm on the popular opinion here. She's 18, she's old enough to make decisions and so she must live with the consequences. Maybe they'll live happily together for many years? Maybe they'll break up in five months and she'll come crawling back to her mother. Who knows, I don't see much wrong in this.
I dunno I think with her being that young it just seems off to me. I don't think he should be arrested and beaten up but I think both her and him are making a mistake. Still that's life, love makes you crazy and all...
 

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Wow, I mean wow. I think it's a complete bullshit decision, and while it's understandable from her (eighteen year olds make stupid emotionally based decisions all the time) he's really suspect. Leaving his wife and child to be with her? Can you say midlife crisis? How much in common could this guy an an eighteen year old fresh out of highschool possibly have? Hell, I'm 28 and I don't feel like I'd be comfortable dating a college freshmen any more. Two different worlds, man. Two different worlds.