Can I get some advice?
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Definately ask her out. She already knows how you feel, so theres zero chance of her freaking out. Worst case scenario is you just remain friends, and you know how she feels.
Another bit of advice I can give you, as she is only recently out of a relationship would be to take things slow, this does not include the asking though, go ask her somewhere nice! Go now! Ok maybe before the weekend will sufice
Definately ask though.
Another bit of advice I can give you, as she is only recently out of a relationship would be to take things slow, this does not include the asking though, go ask her somewhere nice! Go now! Ok maybe before the weekend will sufice
Definately ask though.
Well, thanks for the advice. And I believe what I'm searching for can be called an enduring, 'long-term happiness.'Kukul said:
And I do know that quote, something about an Oak tree and the wind blowing off the leaves and it now knowing exactly how strong it was.
take it from me when i was in high school i was friends with this girl and better yet she and my other 2 best friends were all friends with her to
well me and her started hanging out alone with eachother more and more until we got to where we both liked eachother i was afraid because we both knew that if we did start dating it would get serious because after being friends for 5 years we knew we get along wonderfuly but i was afraid of "but what happens if we dont work out and we arent friends anymore?" well we both kind of made little passes at eachother (including a night where we both were drunk and well you can figure the rest out by yourself) but still we never postively were going out and one day i got news that made my heart sink and my face go ghost white she was moving and well
i havent seen her since
she was the only fucking person to move away in highschool too not one other person left but i guess that serves me right
you need to go for it hell we could be married right now if i didnt fuck up but now im alone just having 1 night stands going to college trying to forget about her getting drunk but i guess my cynical "fuck god and fuck everyone else" look on life doesnt help very much either
dont believe someone when they say that its better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all because its bullshit if that never would have happened i would be happy instead of lonely and just trying to get by by getting drunk playing gears of war all night and picking up as many women as i can
well me and her started hanging out alone with eachother more and more until we got to where we both liked eachother i was afraid because we both knew that if we did start dating it would get serious because after being friends for 5 years we knew we get along wonderfuly but i was afraid of "but what happens if we dont work out and we arent friends anymore?" well we both kind of made little passes at eachother (including a night where we both were drunk and well you can figure the rest out by yourself) but still we never postively were going out and one day i got news that made my heart sink and my face go ghost white she was moving and well
i havent seen her since
she was the only fucking person to move away in highschool too not one other person left but i guess that serves me right
you need to go for it hell we could be married right now if i didnt fuck up but now im alone just having 1 night stands going to college trying to forget about her getting drunk but i guess my cynical "fuck god and fuck everyone else" look on life doesnt help very much either
dont believe someone when they say that its better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all because its bullshit if that never would have happened i would be happy instead of lonely and just trying to get by by getting drunk playing gears of war all night and picking up as many women as i can
Do it. Ask her out. I hope I'm not too late.
What's the worst that could happen?
Are you afraid she'll say no? or are you afraid she'll say yes?
Think of it this way:
If she says no, its back to friends. Its like you never asked. There's no harm in trying.
If she says yes, you can relax. Go home and be happy. You now have a date.
Just for goodness sake, ask. If you don't, you'll always wonder if it would have worked.
Not asking will hurt more than rejection ever will...
What's the worst that could happen?
Are you afraid she'll say no? or are you afraid she'll say yes?
Think of it this way:
If she says no, its back to friends. Its like you never asked. There's no harm in trying.
If she says yes, you can relax. Go home and be happy. You now have a date.
Just for goodness sake, ask. If you don't, you'll always wonder if it would have worked.
Not asking will hurt more than rejection ever will...
Ask her out. But before you do make some plans just in case. If she says yes then hoary for you. If not then run with your plans. Helps if the two are the same. Plan to see a movie and see if she wants to come along.
Good luck. Worst she can do is say no.
Good luck. Worst she can do is say no.
I'm probably not the best person to give advice, since I'm always in the 'friendzone' and I don't actually take my own advice (since I'm an idiot and a coward). But go for it. Talk to her, ask her out, and if she says yes then you win, and if she says no then try to stay friends. I did that a while ago, the girl said no, but we stayed friends (even though she then started dating one of my friends, that annoyed me but I got over it). That said, I'm too afraid to ask out someone else I like because I'm worried she'll say no, and I'm basically an idiot (as mentioned above...).
Screw whatever negative ramifications you think may result from her turning you down or whatever, just ask her. No pain no gain. Even if she does deny you, it's only that one little word, "No".
If I had a pound for every time I'd been turned down by a girl over the past 3 years I'd have exactly 7 pounds. Yes I am that much of a loser, but I'm glad I at least tried because two words a whole lot worse than "no" are "what if...".
If I had a pound for every time I'd been turned down by a girl over the past 3 years I'd have exactly 7 pounds. Yes I am that much of a loser, but I'm glad I at least tried because two words a whole lot worse than "no" are "what if...".