Julianking93 said:
frodakai said:
A few people have mentioned that it might mean to be predestining an event, but to my knowledge thats not what dreams are. They dont predict the future.
It's not at all common for dreams to repeat themselves. At least not to our knowledge, you might be aware that we only remember dreams when we wake during them, so is there a familiar point in the dream where you find yourself waking up?
From my studies, and as I understand it, dreams like this come from 2 places. The first is a sense of psychological pain that forces you to relive something in a metaphoric form, but from how you talk about it, this is not how it sounds.
The second is challenge or revelation, in my belief from God, that sparks a journey of trying to understand what it means, and upon reaching that understanding it can birth new meaning and conviction in your life.
Dreams are also dreams, and can be hazy. I may have an interpretation, but are you sure its you reassuring her? It couldnt be the other way around, i.e. her reassuring you things will be ok??
No. That's one of the most notible things about this dream is that I can clearly hear and see everything happening and I'm positive I'm telling her it will be okay and she's crying with her face buried in my chest.
Dream psychology is a very funny thing, steeped in its own culturally relevant mythos, so it's hard to tell without a background profile and some imagination. I'm more of a researcher in such things than an interpreter, but I find that people who have recurring dreams, however dramatic, are usually indulging in some fantasy or tragedy. For my friend with post-traumatic stress, his repeated dream is of a hospital room full of dead bodies covered in bloody bandages, going back to his time as a war medic. His brain is still clearly trying to cope with the things he has seen. My other friend has this fantasy of dying next to his sleeping girlfriend after making love to her quietly, a way he admits he would like to die.
I believe that your dream, considering your age and cultural background, is a combination of fantasy and tragedy. You want a beautiful girl to long for you as you have longed for her, but you can't seem to grasp a young woman in your current social group who fits the profile. You have concocted a dream girl who fits all your desires and made her pine for you. In the end, it is just the culmination of desire, non-existant, and she falls apart.
Welcome to adolescent angst, a short time in your life filled with ennui and a subtle understanding that there is something wrong with the world and you're not quite sure what. You should out grow it in a few years, probably when you are starting college/ your time in the full-time work force. ^_~
