Chivalry
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Arashiofordo3 said:
Somehow I think these points are related...chif-ii said:
Also:
Have you ever heard of the House of Lords?
And what about Sir Terry Pratchett?
There are lords and knights, just not the lords and knights of old.
Its just a nice thing to do, I like being nice to people its nice being nice..
Besides I always to try to be nice to everyone not just girls although I'm probably nicer to girls than men..
I think some people don't like it because its seen as 'scoring points' and thats all its for but I live in middle class England, Chivalry is not dead here and equality will not kill it..
Besides I always to try to be nice to everyone not just girls although I'm probably nicer to girls than men..
I think some people don't like it because its seen as 'scoring points' and thats all its for but I live in middle class England, Chivalry is not dead here and equality will not kill it..
How can I be uninformed? There are nice people, there are polite people, then there are people that call themselves chivalrous and people who complain all women hate nice guys - the latter two of which people do constantly on this forum, and from what I've seen there's a fairly large cross over between the two groups.Mr. Doe said:
And like I've highlighted, be polite to everyone, or don't try to be a dick to everyone. Chivalry doesn't come into it, especially the ridiculous bloody examples listed in the OP.
"standing up when talking to a lady, taking off your hat when in an elevator with a lady"
We're not in the first half of the 20th century any more, this shit is prehistoric.
And the last sentence was in part a joke, but I am bored to tears of people my age on here trying to act like they're 65.
Why are you guys getting so angry over this? I'm not the kind of guy to complain, as you put, "people who complain all women hate nice guys". Stay civil, it's the internet! Everyone is here to have a good time! If you don't agree you can say so, but don't get all pissy. U mad?Woodsey said:
I've been called/labeled chivalrous throughout my life. It was the way I was raised, period. This doesn't mean that I view women as the "weaker sex". I treat all people equally and with respect until they prove to me that they don't deserve it.
I have been called out on this by both men and women. Guys call me old fashioned (among other things) and some ladies have shown disgust, suspicion, etc. at me for some of my "Chivalric" attitude and practices. An example; Once I opened the door for a young lady and she cussed me out for being "sexist". In response, when we ran into the next set of doors I didn't hold the door open for her. She cussed me out again...double standard much.
Anyways...
As for chivalry being dead. As long as their are a few people out their who still hold on to even some fragments of it then it lives.
I have been called out on this by both men and women. Guys call me old fashioned (among other things) and some ladies have shown disgust, suspicion, etc. at me for some of my "Chivalric" attitude and practices. An example; Once I opened the door for a young lady and she cussed me out for being "sexist". In response, when we ran into the next set of doors I didn't hold the door open for her. She cussed me out again...double standard much.
Anyways...
As for chivalry being dead. As long as their are a few people out their who still hold on to even some fragments of it then it lives.
Chivalry was a romanticized and idealized depiction of medieval knighthood by Renaissance authors who didn't know what they were talking about. Kind of like when people talk about the "good old days" while glossing over or ignoring all the bad things about them.
While it was better than treating women like livestock, treating them like delicate flowers is still a form of patronizing objectification.
Chivalry included courtly love, also known as stalking a woman who wasn't your wife (but probably someone else's), writing poems for her and charging guys on horseback for her, because of the belief that the obligation of marriage made true love impossible.
I'd rather be respectful and polite than chivalrous.
But I'll let Methos have the last word (@ 4:00):
"Who the hell are you?"
"A man who was born long before the age of chivalry."
While it was better than treating women like livestock, treating them like delicate flowers is still a form of patronizing objectification.
Chivalry included courtly love, also known as stalking a woman who wasn't your wife (but probably someone else's), writing poems for her and charging guys on horseback for her, because of the belief that the obligation of marriage made true love impossible.
I'd rather be respectful and polite than chivalrous.
But I'll let Methos have the last word (@ 4:00):
"Who the hell are you?"
"A man who was born long before the age of chivalry."
In a perfect world it would have been replaced by Equality but sdly it has not, because the world is still male orientated.
The most you can aim for is being a nice person
The most you can aim for is being a nice person
I still do it. It's how I was raised. Sad that more and more people are seeing it as an insult. Ya just can't win...
The concept might be outdated but that doens't mean people should abandon all form of common courtesy.