WWWLUCIFERCOM said:
Because apparently it?s ok to discriminate against people who smoke and drink etc.
People say smokers "know" its bad for them. But i dont believe this is true. At all. Lemme tell you a story.
My grandfather I believe had cancer from being a pretty hefty chain smoker. He survived fortunately (died before i was born though when it came back so what can you do) but I think the experience kinda haunted my dad. His father never got to see his only son. He almost (and then did) lose his dad. I know my grandfather was pretty anti smoking after suffering the pain of cancer. Its similar to the whole "christians need to stop badgering me". They honestly believe your immortal soul is on the line. And unlike their kinda wafty claims my grandfather knew the personal agony, and by extension my dad knows the horrible loss smoking can cause.
Sure some people are horrible assholes desperate to preach at you and feel superior. But some people know that smokers may realise the pain on paper but not know the pain in reality. Its easy to agree to be punched in the face for money by signing a signature, the actual punch is a different matter. You can know a punch will hurt, you can know cancer sucks, but until youve gone through it its only hypothetical pain. Its not really real to you. Its some imaginary future pain. It is for everyone.
I wont preach anti smoking whatever at people but I understand that from some people it comes from a place of very personal pain and loss. From their perspective, to not use their own suffering to try and stop others experiencing it would be immoral.
I imagine when I finish my medical studies and I treat, and eventually lose, my first smoking related cancer patient ill become more anti smoking whether i like it or not. When I have to explain to their family that they died from their smoking habit and see that pain first hand I imagine it will be hard to remain passive like i am now. I imagine it will be exactly the same for drugs, alcohol and obesity. I dont think anyone could experience that and still not feel uncomfortable when they see a friend smoke or whatever after being so close to the death it causes.
I dont agree with people hounding smokers. But i understand that for SOME of them, perhaps its a very small minority, it comes from a place of genuine care and remorse rather than stupid teenage elitism. When i feel genuine concern I feel for the anti smoking crowd. Sometimes I see people who just love lording their lifestyle over others. And thats not cool.