Biek said:
You know whats funny? When im in a bar or other social event. I look around at all the people who smoke and think of how lonely people like you must be.
Vicious group mockery of anyone in my social circle who starts smoking ensures they stop, when it's not seen as cool people don't tend to do it. We don't see many smokers in bars in the UK (it's illegal), they're all stood outside in the cold hanging about the door (being the anti-social loners you speak of, ironically). That attack just doesn't wash here.
@chefassassin2 : Mock/Belittle is just a matter of disrespect mostly. They disrespect my liking for clean air to breathe, I disrespect their habit. I don't pee in your pool, you don't fill my air with smoke. Reciprocal altruism and all that.
@oddresin : I don't even need to say anything to you because you directly compared alcoholics to smokers, then tried to rationalize your problem. That's kind of boring though so I'll just say that cars (at present) need to pump out crap to move, you don't need to pump dirty air to work, if you do indeed work.
I mean, I generally don't mind as long as you don't blow it in my face, but that's just because social convention says it's wrong to do that but okay in most other circumanstances. The OP was on about public perception to fags, I'm just saying, in general, "I only tell people who I care about to stop, and I think anyone who does it is innately scum, but I won't treat you any differently for it".