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Quantana

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Hallo fellow escapist


ok i have a dilemma i just started at a new school, i'f made some friends( 2 girls and one guy) and everything went great.
and then one of my friend's (let's call her kim) told me she talked about me with one of her friends.

so i asked what they where talking about.
at first she didn't want to tell me. then after a little wile she said she would text me what they where talking about. (we where with some other friends)
so she texted me that she found me to be very cute. i "knew" for sure she was joking.
so i didn't pay to much attention to it.

then later that day she texted me she was talking about me with her friend again.
so i asked what where you talking about? and again:she texted me that she found me to be very cute. i was getting sick of the joke so i texted her what she was really talking about. and then she told me she was serious.
so i toled here whe where gonna talk about it tomorrow.

so i ask you for your advice what should i do?



p.s. i'm sorry for my horrible spelling\ grammar but i'm a bit confused right now, and my English is not that great.
 

Gxas

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Do you find her attractive? Appealing?

If so, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is that you lose her as a friend, but, in all honesty, she is initiating this so that would be on her head and not yours.

I say go for it. Why the hell not!?
 

Blue_vision

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Just go along with it. Talk to her, figure out what's going on. See if you think she's cute too. idk, it's not much to go on.
 

C95J

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if you like her too, then go for it! and good luck
 

Quantana

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Gxas said:
Do you find her attractive? Appealing?

If so, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is that you lose her as a friend, but, in all honesty, she is initiating this so that would be on her head and not yours.

I say go for it. Why the hell not!?
yeah she is hot however she's in my class too and if it doesn't work out i'll be stuck with an awkward situation for the next 4 years
 

Gxas

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Quantana said:
Gxas said:
Do you find her attractive? Appealing?

If so, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is that you lose her as a friend, but, in all honesty, she is initiating this so that would be on her head and not yours.

I say go for it. Why the hell not!?
yeah she is hot however she's in my class too and if it doesn't work out i'll be stuck with with awkward situation for the next 4 years
Seriously? That is absolutely no reason to not pursue her. If that's what you're worried about (and no offense in what comes next) then perhaps you aren't mature enough to pursue a relationship.

I've pursued, what now? Maybe, four of my closest friends. All have ended with them turning me down, and I am now closer than ever with them. Unless it turns out that you guys don't respect eachother (ie: cheating, beating, taking advantage of, etc.) nothing should be awkward about it.
 

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Quantana said:
Gxas said:
Do you find her attractive? Appealing?

If so, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is that you lose her as a friend, but, in all honesty, she is initiating this so that would be on her head and not yours.

I say go for it. Why the hell not!?
yeah she is hot however she's in my class too and if it doesn't work out i'll be stuck with with awkward situation for the next 4 years
I would still say go for it, lots of people stay friends with their ex's after they break-up, I reckon you could work something out if it did fail.
 

Skorpyo

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"Stick it in"

Cookies for the reference.

FO SRS: Brother, why are you so confused? She has taken an interest (You lucky fu...) and is sending out the signals loud and goddamn clear. If you so desire, go for it.
 

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JoJoDeathunter said:
Quantana said:
Gxas said:
Do you find her attractive? Appealing?

If so, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is that you lose her as a friend, but, in all honesty, she is initiating this so that would be on her head and not yours.

I say go for it. Why the hell not!?
yeah she is hot however she's in my class too and if it doesn't work out i'll be stuck with with awkward situation for the next 4 years

I would still say go for it, lots of people stay friends with their ex's after they break-up, I reckon you could work something out if it did fail.
This kinda thing happened to me a while back. I dated a friend and it was pretty good for while. Then we broke up and we've still been friends ever since. OP, the choice is essentially up to you; do you ask her out and have the chance that you might lose a friend, or just keep the relationship platonic?
 

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OP, this isn't really your blog, but it's fine.

Anyhow, if you like her you should go for it, it probably won't be too hard, and nothing bad ever happens at taking a shot at it.
 

LemonMelon

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When girls say a guy is cute they're usually not saying it to hear their own voice. :/
I can't stand it when guys think girls have other motives. No worries. She's taken a fancy to you.