Coloured men don't cheat - *UPDATED* 29/10/11
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Riskay would beg to differ. But really, trying to falsify this generalization is as much a waste of time as it is to falsify any other blatantly baseless and opinionated generalization.
This exacly what ran througj my mind. I actually think this offended me some... Until i rememberd that white and black technically not colors... But still .Febel said:
OT: so what OP? She can chose who she dates no? Is there a rule that she must be attracted to white people? I'm black and have never , dated , slept with , kissed or even held hands with a black girl. I don find them attractive , that's all , i'm not going to date them just because we are both black. Is there a reason you don't want her dating a 'colored 'man?( i cant believed, just said colored ). I think OP might be racist without realising it.
Well of this has a wiff of racism about it , i guess gay men are sexist ... Quick someone call the femenists!Scrustle said:
Wow you have a racist sister. I could argue evolution but it's a lot easier to call her a stupid racist *****, just because you'll fuck Achmed doesn't mean your not racist.
I'd even accept the more shallow (but true) 'I like the skin color of "exotic" people better' than her argument.
I'd even accept the more shallow (but true) 'I like the skin color of "exotic" people better' than her argument.
Thats just silly. Everyone Cheats. Positive racism is still racism. Why don't people ever think about individuals as individuals?
I think he is just trying to say that anyone can cheat. His sister didn't say just she was attracted to black men, she said white men couldn't be trusted and black men could. If she would just admit that she finds darker skin more attractive I don't think we would have an issue, but she said that darker that darker skin makes you an inherently more moral person, and that is a problem.krazykidd said:
I have a blog I can direct you to...in fact I think this was covered in one of the topics...lemme get it.....I can't think of the exact date of the post but I know it was covered...... but here's the blog link written from a black(oh I'm sorry "coloured") man. http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/blog its more geared towards women but i'll be damned if other men can't learn a thing or two from it
Basically though, all men cheat regardless of colour. I dated a guy who's family was from......oh shit i don't remember I know it was either the Saudi Arabia area or like the very North Eastern tip of Africa(Egypt, Libya etc) and he cheated on me with multiple women, I get propositioned by men of all colours with girlfriends or wives no matter what I wear and they're up front about the fact that they are in a relationship and looking to cheat. Now, I just don't date so I don't get cheated on
Basically though, all men cheat regardless of colour. I dated a guy who's family was from......oh shit i don't remember I know it was either the Saudi Arabia area or like the very North Eastern tip of Africa(Egypt, Libya etc) and he cheated on me with multiple women, I get propositioned by men of all colours with girlfriends or wives no matter what I wear and they're up front about the fact that they are in a relationship and looking to cheat. Now, I just don't date so I don't get cheated on
What bullshit. Males are programmed to copulate with as many receptive females as they can (and the non-receptive ones too, but the law gets appropriately heavy-handed when that happens) and while that programming can most certainly be broken and rewritten, it's not a guaranteed thing.
Actually, consider the tendency towards cheating is a direct result of levels of testosterone - y'know, the manly hormone. Factoring societal pressure in, and that black men typically have higher levels of testosterone compared to white men, but all that means is that compared to a white guy, a black guy is more likely to try to cheat.
Actually, consider the tendency towards cheating is a direct result of levels of testosterone - y'know, the manly hormone. Factoring societal pressure in, and that black men typically have higher levels of testosterone compared to white men, but all that means is that compared to a white guy, a black guy is more likely to try to cheat.
One thing I would like to note though guys, is that black guys are the secondary choice for her, it's all about the (uhhhh, what's the "politically correct" term for guys from countries where the primary language is Arabic and so forth? Quick before somebody else shouts at me :< ) guys for her.
Yeah, I was kind of absent the day they announced it was no longer acceptable which I guess only shows how long it was since I last prodded the political correctness quagmire with the pointy end of a ten foot pole.lisadagz said:We got that, I think so many people only called you up on it because you then used it a couple of more times at the end of your post in your own words. I guess you were trying to use it ironically but it just wasn't clear enough is all.Amplify said:
Truthfully, I have never seen a black person in an actual relationship with a girl for a period longer than mere weeks, though I have little experience to go off of.
My high school was in a town that is 99% white, and my own home town is some 99.5% white. There was, during all 4 years of high school and EVERY SINGLE year of elementary and middle school, with 1500 kids in my high school, not a single Muslim kid, nor a single (practicing) Indian or fundamentalist Jew. None. Well over half were Catholic-raised and almost all of the rest non-denominational Christian.
In any event, it'd be idiotic to think that people of other races cheat less by virtue of being a different race. In fact, I would imagine that infidelity is rather uncorrelated with the main factors that correlate with race (the top being social status). Poor or rich, doesn't matter, they're all filled with cheating pricks and whores.
My high school was in a town that is 99% white, and my own home town is some 99.5% white. There was, during all 4 years of high school and EVERY SINGLE year of elementary and middle school, with 1500 kids in my high school, not a single Muslim kid, nor a single (practicing) Indian or fundamentalist Jew. None. Well over half were Catholic-raised and almost all of the rest non-denominational Christian.
In any event, it'd be idiotic to think that people of other races cheat less by virtue of being a different race. In fact, I would imagine that infidelity is rather uncorrelated with the main factors that correlate with race (the top being social status). Poor or rich, doesn't matter, they're all filled with cheating pricks and whores.
Probably the best post in the thread so far and more or less exactly what I intend to do as soon as I get the next chance to ask her about it.MagnetoHydroDynamics said:
Another good point and I'd probably be inclined to do just that if not for a rather complicated backstory that I wouldn't be doing justice at all to try and explain fully here. I touched upon it in my last long post but the short version is that her daughters / my two nieces were basically stuck in Algeria until fairly recently as the law there grants that control only to the father. My family in general is trying as best they can to avoid them getting into arranged marriages and effectively never seeing them again.Firia said:
My mother has made the argument that if she (my sister) were to get married to an Englishman or similar and she took custody of the girls with her then they would be able to stay in England and live their lives freely as they wanted to, however my sister has never really been one to take common sense or anything similar into a debate. As the only one of the family she listens to at all I'm fairly uniquely placed and have the chance to possibly sway her into getting them to stay in the UK on a permanent basis so they're free to choose their own lives.
That's the jist of it and as much as I'd be willing to say on the matter, it's a complex situation at best. The problem with letting her learn things the hard way is that it may well be too late by then, prevention is quite often better than cure.
It's an incredibly dumb view to have, even disregarding race issue. Caucasians are just one ethnicity in the entire world, and what is called "colored" is basically everyone who isn't white, and contrary to popular belief in the US and I guess in other Anglo-countries white isn't the default, nor the majority. So really, saying that colored men don't cheat is an incredibly bold statement to make, talk about putting all your eggs in one basket . . .
