Coming out as an atheist

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

Dont feel pressured that "If they find out, they'll shun me"

Just slowly come out and don't make a big song'n'dance about it like a friend of mine does (ALWAYS posts on FB about non existance of god etc) and Im sure they wont mind.

 

[lemiel14n3]

Don't worry about it man. As a people we've become much more tolerant of religious freedom. SO go ahead and tell the people you care for about your beliefs.

You probably shouldn't make a huge deal about this, don't make it a huge ceremony. if the topic of religion comes up, then mention that your're agnostic/atheist.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

In regards to your friends, well, if they really are your friends, they wont let personal belief get in the way of said friendship. As for your family, I'm at a loss, you can either come out when your 18, never tell them at all, or bite the bullet and do it now.

 

[zombiesinc]

What do you think I should do? Should I come out as soon as possible? Should I wait until I leave home to come out? Any advice is greatly appreciated, especially from anyone who has had to go through this before.

Stop participating in things that you no longer wish to, for starts. Beyond that, there's absolutely no rush to "come out" and express your own stance with religion. For one, this may be something you stop feeling in due time, for whatever reason, so rushing to come out may not be the best idea. Not to so say your lack of faith is a phase or anything, but even so, it is a possibility that should be considered. Also, there's no need to come out to anyone unless the conversation comes up or you wish to. If you're uncomfortable about expressing this to your family, you could wait until you're not living at home, which may help make the situation feel a little less frightening or stressful. If you're already feeling insecure, and people's negative reaction tend to increase that insecurity, then wait until you're confident enough regarding this to bring it up to others.

There's no time limit, so don't feel as if you need to "come out" unless you're comfortable doing so.

Edit: Also, The Fall of Ideals is by far my favourite album of All That Remains.

 

[TheSnarkKnight]

I don't suppose you've tried the whole "trial balloon question" thing, have you? Asked them for their views on it and stuff... It's probably the easiest way to check to see if they'd have a problem with it (unless you suck at subtlety), and is a stock means of easing your way out of any closet you're in.
Other than that advice, my advice would be the same as everyone else's here: don't feel pressured either way, try to strike a balance between feeling comfortable and free with yourself and not having to face drama, hostility, etc...