Common misconceptions: "Objectified"

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Fair warning: This thread contains complex and difficult discussion about mature topics. If you believe yourself too immature to consider them, I recommend you leave before reading.

So I'm a feminist. As part of being a feminist I hear the word "Objectified" bandied around an awful lot. To do with porn, clothes, behaviour, hell even words. There seems to be an awful lot of stuff that objectifies people, especially women, but I've yet to find any blogs which actually address what the term itself means. Feminists are taught "Objectification is bad!" but not what it is.

There are two primary schools of thought about this. The mainstream one is that it turns the person into an object, a thing. Divides them up and makes them the focus of endless amounts of imagery to titillate and arouse the viewer. In this context it is generally viewed as dehumanising and degrading because of the association with inanimate things.

The second, and in my opinion the more accurate one, is that it is a grammatical reference. As no-one studies grammar these days unless they're an English major, few people pick this up. In the time that the word was first used grammar was widely taught. In sentence structure there are two types of nouns, subjects and objects. The subject does things to the object. The boy licked the dog. Boy is the subject, dog the object. Now in imagery, particularly erotic or pornographic imagery, this comes across through perspective. If you're looking at one person almost exclusively, then that person becomes the object, looked at by the subject.

I've heard the argument that men are objectified by pornography. While I can see the validity of this under he first definition, that they are dehumanised to be nameless providers of a body part, under the second definition they are subjectified.

Now onto the difficult discussion bit. I don't think that objectification and subjectification are inherently negative things. I think that when they are used to dehumanise then they are, but that is a use rather than something intrinsic to their nature. I also think that the most damaging part of current pornography, and all other images where something is made to be 'attractive', is their nigh-exclusivity to the subjectification of men, and objectification of women or people in female roles. This perpetuates the patriarchal[footnote]The patriarchy is not "ruled by men" but "ruled by patriarchs", namely the collection of middle-aged males who control the vast majority of power in the world. This is damaging to people of all genders because it perpetuates gender roles within cultures, yadda yadda.[/footnote] myth that men chase, women are chased. Men look, women are looked upon.

If the distribution was more even I'd be a happy feminist. I find it intensely confusing that women should be splayed everywhere as the "Fair sex", implying that men are what, too unattractive to advertise? Too unattractive to be desired? Fuck that. Hell, it doesn't even gel with another hegemonic perception that bisexual women are really straight and bisexual men are really gay. How can men be SO IRRESISTIBLE if they're so unappealing?

The point of this thread is to help clear up that grammatical understanding and to inspire conversation about it, do forgive me for the tangents.
 

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I'm of the same opinion as you here. Women are the only people being sold and advertised. Rarely is a man being advertised in the same way. If he is, he is accompanied by at least one woman in some way.

It reminds me of a Seinfeld episode where Elaine refers to the female body as a work of art while the male body is just disgusting. Why can't men be advertised more? Why do we need an overly-attractive woman to accompany the male everywhere? There are plenty of men that I find attractive out there, and I'm a straight male.
 

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Under either definition, if I'm following you, then the woman is "objectified" in the sense that she can not has no say in the portrayal or use of her body.
As for the notion that men chase, women are chased: Oh man look at any movie or tv show. Every male character leers after and comments on women in ways that would be creepy or straight-up illegal in real life (e.g. peeping tom), guys who don't are "fags," and women who "make the first move" or are demanding in sex (like that band geek girl in American Pie) are "dykes." It's just screwed up.
 

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Two words for this thread for the OP to consider: gay porn.

I'll do a longer response in a few hours.
 

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Scout Kubin said:
Under either definition, if I'm following you, then the woman is "objectified" in the sense that she can not has no say in the portrayal or use of her body.
I can't say I agree with this either. I think that a lot of female porn actors do it because they're exhibitionists. I can understand that. I can understand that they choose to do this. As such, my primary objection with porn is it's lack of variety of audience and role.

BonsaiK said:
Two words for this thread for the OP to consider: gay porn.

I'll do a longer response in a few hours.
Ever watched any? I have. The same gender roles are played out in a different manner. The person on the 'bottom'[footnote]Stereotyped roles, obviously.[/footnote] (being penetrated, giving head, etc) plays the female role, the submissive role, makes all the noise and is focused on. The person on 'top' (penetrating, getting head), is stoic, silent, and it's their pleasure that is focused on.
 

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The boy's dog. Boy is the subject, dog the object.
Nope. At least, not how I learnt subjects and objects when I studied Latin. In this example, there is no subject and no object really, since there is no verb. A better example would be: "the boy hit the dog" or "the boy pat the dog". While your example suggests a verb of ownership or possession of the dog by the boy, this does not count grammatically as a verb.

On topic: I too, get very confused and anxious about how to deal with the word 'objectified'. It just seems like such a loaded, negative word when I feel like it probably shouldn't. Dehumanise is better, you're right, when one wants to talk about how women (and maybe some men) are debased and devalued in these contexts. After all, there should be anything wrong with being objectified, or objectification in general. It's when that objectification leads to a dehumanisation that I start to worry.
 

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latenightapplepie said:
Labyrinth said:
The boy's dog. Boy is the subject, dog the object.
Nope. At least, not how I learnt subjects and objects when I studied Latin. In this example, there is no subject and no object really, since there is no verb. A better example would be: "the boy hit the dog" or "the boy pat the dog". While your example suggests a verb of ownership or possession of the dog by the boy, this does not count grammatically as a verb.
Ah, I'll edit that.
 

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Now onto the difficult discussion bit. I don't think that objectification and subjectification are inherently negative things. I think that when they are used to dehumanise then they are, but that is a use rather than something intrinsic to their nature. I also think that the most damaging part of current pornography, and all other images where something is made to be 'attractive', is their nigh-exclusivity to the subjectification of men, and objectification of women or people in female roles. This perpetuates the patriarchal myth that men chase, women are chased. Men look, women are looked upon.

If the distribution was more even I'd be a happy feminist. I find it intensely confusing that women should be splayed everywhere as the "Fair sex", implying that men are what, too unattractive to advertise? Too unattractive to be desired? Fuck that. Hell, it doesn't even gel with another hegemonic perception that bisexual women are really straight and bisexual men are really gay. How can men be SO IRRESISTIBLE if they're so unappealing?
All leftovers from early farming cultures. As our technology advances and we can play more roles than simply "producer" and "breeder", gender roles become more and more obsolete. We're at the point where they should be completely obsolete, but unfortunately, there's a sort of inbred fundamentalism (pun intended) in every culture.
My only solution is to kill every member of the patriarchy. I've got the means, now who's willing to pay me and get me out safe afterwords?
...damn. The patriarchy still has all of the money. Guess that one's not happening.

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BonsaiK said:
Two words for this thread for the OP to consider: gay porn.

I'll do a longer response in a few hours.
Ever watched any? I have. The same gender roles are played out in a different manner. The person on the 'bottom' (being penetrated, giving head, etc) plays the female role, the submissive role, makes all the noise and is focused on. The person on 'top' (penetrating, getting head), is stoic, silent, and it's their pleasure that is focused on.
...I see it as more of a dom/sub thing than a male/female thing. There's plenty of stuff out there where a woman takes on the dominant role.
So I guess my two words are "Dominatrix porn".

But on the whole, I must say, you're right about distribution. Every bit of porn containing dominant female roles is thought of as "niche audience stuff". Personally, I can't stand the massively commercialized stuff anyway (sad thing is, my girlfriend actually prefers the stuff).
 

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So I'm a feminist.
Sorry to single this part out, but that term is so vague to me.

Why are you a feminist?

In your opinion, what is being a feminist about?

Sorry to be so inquisitive, but I'm curious as to what "type" of feminist you are. :)
 

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loc978 said:
So I guess my two words are "Dominatrix porn".
Ohhhh boy. Here we go.

"Dominatrix" porn does not change those roles. The most stereotypical imagery involved in it is a woman taking the 'male role' and being on 'top' while the submissive man is forced to cross dress and be feminised, playing the 'bottom' role, and being degraded by this. It's still male-role superiority, it just switches the genders of the person playing the 'male role'. Not only that, but it plays so neatly into the Virgin/Whore dichotomy of female roles it's sickening. She's the untouchable Queen, the Virgin (hey, with that role reversal she doesn't actually get her genitals touched) who is the Moral Gate to say yea or nay. If she was actually having sex, well she'd be submitting, wouldn't she? She'd be a dirty little whore just like the guy is when he's in the submissive, the tropically female, role.

Man those stereotypes piss me off.
 

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Labyrinth said:
loc978 said:
So I guess my two words are "Dominatrix porn".
Ohhhh boy. Here we go.

"Dominatrix" porn does not change those roles. The most stereotypical imagery involved in it is a woman taking the 'male role' and being on 'top' while the submissive man is forced to cross dress and be feminised, playing the 'bottom' role, and being degraded by this. It's still male-role superiority, it just switches the genders of the person playing the 'male role'. Not only that, but it plays so neatly into the Virgin/Whore dichotomy of female roles it's sickening. She's the untouchable Queen, the Virgin (hey, with that role reversal she doesn't actually get her genitals touched) who is the Moral Gate to say yea or nay. If she was actually having sex, well she'd be submitting, wouldn't she? She'd be a dirty little whore just like the guy is when he's in the submissive, the tropically female, role.

Man those stereotypes piss me off.
I'll bow to your superior knowledge of the subject. I've never seen anything like what you describe (pretty sure if I saw an opening porn sequence with a man in a dress, I'd just turn it off immediately)... but I think I've seen a grand total of two videos I'd consider dominatrix porn. Both of which featured a man in a suit being tied up and thoroughly ignored while the dom was pleasured by another woman.
Again, just niche stuff I imagine.
 

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Kortney said:
Sorry to single this part out, but that term is so vague to me.

Why are you a feminist?

In your opinion, what is being a feminist about?
I'm a feminist because I consider everyone, regardless of their gender and sexuality, a human being. I became a feminist because I saw so many fucked up things regarding gender and sexuality that I felt compelled to do something about it.

I think feminism is about normalising non-male genders. Simone de Beauvoir wrote a seminal feminist work called The Second Sex which used Hegel's Dialectic to model how women have historically been defined as the 'other' to the 'normal' of male. In modern times this extends to non-cis gendered people as well. This normalisation extends to workplaces and warzones, bedrooms, bathrooms and sporting ovals. It's a cultural and an economic necessity, and something that has so far to go yet, for all the distance we have come in the west. I feel I should add that it's a global issue as well.

Edit: Worth including this. I find most feminists agree with the second paragraphy, they just have wild arguments about the how, the why and the where.
 

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loc978 said:
I'll bow to your superior knowledge of the subject. I've never seen anything like what you describe (pretty sure if I saw an opening porn sequence with a man in a dress, I'd just turn it off immediately)... but I think I've seen a grand total of two videos I'd consider dominatrix porn. Both of which featured a man in a suit being tied up and thoroughly ignored while the dom was pleasured by another woman.
Again, just niche stuff I imagine.
I can't say I like that idea of submission any more than the other, to be honest. It still buys into the concept of a submissive man degrading himself by taking that role, in this case to the point where he is unworthy of her attention. Screw that.
 

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Labyrinth said:
Kortney said:
Sorry to single this part out, but that term is so vague to me.

Why are you a feminist?

In your opinion, what is being a feminist about?
I'm a feminist because I consider everyone, regardless of their gender and sexuality, a human being. I became a feminist because I saw so many fucked up things regarding gender and sexuality that I felt compelled to do something about it.
But how would that make you a "feminist"? It sounds like you campaign for equality across the board. Is it a case of a word changing to take on a far greater meaning?

Labyrinth said:
This normalisation extends to workplaces and warzones, bedrooms, bathrooms and sporting ovals. It's a cultural and an economic necessity, and something that has so far to go yet, for all the distance we have come in the west. I feel I should add that it's a global issue as well.
Have you any example of this normalisation? (In Western society, that is).
 

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I'm a feminist because I consider everyone, regardless of their gender and sexuality, a human being.
Beautifully said. Another thing that gets me is how feminists are always percieved as man-hating dykes who need to get laid.
 

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I just don't understand the world any more. The fact that people read into advertisements, porn, and whatnot, and see things of significance so much strikes me as somewhat odd, and either means I'm completely oblivious (Which I am damn fine with), that other people are reading *FAR* too much into things (I am also fine with this), or that people have too much time on their hands (Also unoffensive to me). When I look at pornography, I see something to (trying to be mature, but... fuck it) wank to. When I see an advertisement, I see "Oh look, that woman is driving an F-150. I can see why, it was the best-selling vehicle in the nation for 24 years." Or "Oh look, a black man screaming at me about deodorant. This is amusing." I don't see the hidden messages at all. It's probably because I'm ignorant... and again, I'm fine with that.
 

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Kortney said:
But how would that make you a "feminist"? It sounds like you campaign for equality. Is it a case of a word changing to take on a far greater meaning?

Have you any example of this normalisation? (In Western society, that is).
To the first, it's difficult to say. I would say that the word has always mean this, but the definition of 'non-male genders' has changed. Of course, it has also broadened to include 'people who identify as male but don't fit social norms'.

To the second, well the most obvious would be the right to vote, as a historical one anyway. As for modern campaigns, they tend towards the cultural rather than those based in law.

There was a study done in a business school in which a profile was given out to students. The original profile was of a Fortune 500 board member, and a female one. Half were given the original, half were given the same profile in which the gender of the person was switched to male. No other changes were made to the content. The second half thought (s)he was a really great person that they would love to work for. The first half thought she was rather harsh, and while successful, not necessarily someone they would want to work under. You see, men are celebrated for their success and expected to own it personally. Women are derided for theres, and expected to share it with others around them who they drew upon for success.
 

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You see, men are celebrated for their success and expected to own it personally. Women are derided for theres, and expected to share it with others around them who they drew upon for success.
Can you really make that assumption based off one study?

Even if that is correct - that is something, we can agree, that is a 'hangover' from the past and will change in time once new generations come through.
 

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Kortney said:
Can you really make that assumption based off one study?

Even if that is correct - that is something, we can agree, that is a 'hangover' from the past and will change in time once new generations come through.
That study was one example. There have been others, along with countless interviews to back up that assumption.

Hangover maybe, but the people generally interviewed for this are in uni, in their 20s for the most part. And underlying assumptions are some of the most difficult viruses to shift.
 

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I would say I agree with the argument for the most part. Especially the bit about object or subject. I see it like I see almost everything it simply is it exists without value until society assigns a value be it positive or negative. This argument is true of many words today and it is the society's norm that there are words that simply have a value given to them.

An excellent example of this is Biodiversity, it is simply a measure of the variety of the biological ecosystem. IT is only a measure not a value, but people today have given it an apparent value of it being inherently positive to have more. This value is then automatically assigned to that word and until society and culture change at large there is likely not going to be much change in how people perceive that word no matter what is grammatically correct.

This means that despite the fact that yes you realize this society will be very unlikely to as the cultural norm is different. It is very likely to change but don't expect to see it happen its a slow change that is very hard to watch.