Completely Lame Romance Advice Thread

[zhoominator]

Hey there, just wanted to hear your thoughts on this matter.

Right, there was this girl that I met a few months back, she seemed kinda nice and I liked her, so I plucked up the courage to ask her out (out of character for me). Turns out she had a boyfriend, so that was a no go, but she was straightforward and honest without being harsh so that was completely cool.

Anyway, a few weeks ago I meet someone else. She is funny, charming and really sweet (100 times lovelier than the other girl) so I was going to ask her out about a week ago, except I just then realised that she knew that other girl. In fact they live together in a flat. Now I didn't know that before but now I'm a bit conscious that it might come off as rather creepy to ask 2 girls out from the same flat within a few months.

So what do you think? Am I being silly or would asking her out be a bad idea?

Thanks, if you could read yet another relationship thread. I'm sowee...

 

[Avistew]

Just ask her out. There are coincidence like that. When you go to the flat and see the other girl you can be all "hey, small world, eh?" or something.
Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it. One of my friends liked a guy who worked at the game store, but then she ended up dating the other guy from there instead. It was a funny anecdote but that's all.

 

[SpartakRB]

I can think of literally nothing wrong with asking her out. Even if you knew they were flatmates, I don't think there would be a problem at all.

Go for it!

 

[deathlord552]

Being silly. Listen to your heart and do it!

 

[artanis_neravar]

Go for it, and if the flatmate asks about it wave your hand in front of her face and say "These aren't the droids you're looking for" then walk away.

But seriously go for it I can see nothing wrong with it

 

[Slash Dementia]

Ask her out. It's not as if you planned to ask someone from the same flat. And besides that, there's nothing wrong with doing so. You like her, she's nice and funny. Just go for it--it wouldn't hurt at all. If that doesn't work out, then you've got yourself a friend.

 

[Cousin_IT]

Ask her out. But, & this is a big but, make sure that you ask her out because you want to go out with her, not because it might give you an opportunity to be in the same room as the one who has a bf. If, now you know they live together, that is something you're considering, I'd walk away before you really embarrass yourself.

 

[Psymon138]

If it's been a few months it is quite reasonable that you've moved on and found someone else you like. Turns out they're room mates, it's a coincidence, nothing bad about it. If the other girl gets it into her head that you're still after her or something, just explain the situation honestly and move on with your life.

 

[Aurgelmir]

Hey there, just wanted to hear your thoughts on this matter.

Right, there was this girl that I met a few months back, she seemed kinda nice and I liked her, so I plucked up the courage to ask her out (out of character for me). Turns out she had a boyfriend, so that was a no go, but she was straightforward and honest without being harsh so that was completely cool.

Anyway, a few weeks ago I meet someone else. She is funny, charming and really sweet (100 times lovelier than the other girl) so I was going to ask her out about a week ago, except I just then realised that she knew that other girl. In fact they live together in a flat. Now I didn't know that before but now I'm a bit conscious that it might come off as rather creepy to ask 2 girls out from the same flat within a few months.

So what do you think? Am I being silly or would asking her out be a bad idea?

Thanks, if you could read yet another relationship thread. I'm sowee...

Just do it.

Girl one has no claim to you, so why should she matter? Doesn't matter where she lives.

 

[renegade7]

Just a freak coincidence. Go for it!