WeepingAngels said:
You could choose not to attach 'haters' to the gamers side...
I know that a lot of the people who are against Anita's videos are against them because they are bad videos that don't offer anything helpful to anyone (Yet somehow obtained large amounts of support from people who wouldn't even admit to the objectively bad things about them)... But when people try to make sides (Gamers vs. SJW's, non-SJW-gamers vs. SJW-Gamers, whatever), it just hurts everyone.
Please, and this applies to absolutely everyone, don't make 'sides' or groups like this. Don't lump in large amounts of people who are all extremely different into some arbitrary categories. It just makes everyone look childish & doesn't actually ever accomplish anything positive.
If you want to point out the flaws in something like a Fem. Frequency video, then please don't start saying "On behalf of all gamers I'm saying Anita is a meany head!" And the same applies to everything. It doesn't help anyone, and it only makes the people who actually are against you to be even more bigoted towards you or anyone slightly similar to you. While it seems easier to just lump in everyone you think you like into a group, and everyone you don't like into a group, all this will do is cause harm in the long run.
Overall, be yourself. Not a label, or as a sole spokesperson for an imaginary group, but you yourself. If you think that Anita's videos are the bees knees, then say why you like them from your own perspective, not because you are a Progressive?, Feminist?, Culture Geek?. If you think Anita's videos suck, then say why they suck from your own perspective, not because you are a Rationalist?, Skeptic?, Gamer? or whatever. And this obviously applies to much more in life than pointless internet videos & games arguments.