Could you be attracted to a bisexual?

[TheNewGuy]

I suppose the question is pretty self-explanatory but I guess I can expand a bit.

Would you get in a relationship with someone you knew to be bisexual? Or if you were in a relationship with someone and they told you they were bisexual how would you react?

So, could you be romantically attracted to someone who's bisexual? Do you find it to be an attractive trait, or an unattractive one, or maybe neutral?

I'm curious because I'm a bisexual guy and I was wondering what other people might think of that so I thought I would see what everybody here thought.

 

[username sucks]

Yes. I don't see why it would matter if someone found out that thier partner is bisexual, as long as they aren't cheating or anything.

I might be biased because I'm bisexual too, but thats how I see it. If someone isn't willing to accept that someone is bisexual, they aren't the kind of person I would want to be aquainted with in any sense.

 

[JimB]

I can't imagine why it would be a problem to anyone except the homophobic. I can imagine why it would be an attractive trait, but for me it's pretty much meaningless since I don't do orgies and I can't picture a girlfriend and I bonding over how much we like to look at boobies.

 

[Zhukov]

Generic straight male reporting. (Also white, just for the privilege bonus.)

I would have no problem shacking up with a chick who was bisexual. Noooo problem at all.

Not sure why anyone would. Maybe if they had a head full of God and sin or something I guess.

 

[DoPo]

No, I don't find bisexuals repulsive at all. However, I do not find the male ones attractive. Sorry, I'm sexist like that - I like girls only. As for the attractiveness of the "bisexual" trait as a whole - I am rather neutral about it.

 

[Dr. Pepper Unlimited]

Sure? I mean, I don't really see why it would matter at all. *shrugs*

As far as the trait, neutral. If they are, great, if they aren't, doesn't change anything.

 

[ellieallegro]

I'm bi as well so it would be a positive trait for me.

 

[Kolby Jack]

Well, since I'm into girls, and two girls doing it is hot, I'd be down with that. Granted, I probably wouldn't be cool if she actually acted on it because that would be cheating, even if it's sexy cheating. A threesome, while awesome, seems unlikely to pass. Besides, even if she's bisexual she could still want monogamy (as would I), so it wouldn't really change anything except we could talk about how attractive girls on TV are without it being weird.

 

[R.Nevermore]

I suppose the question is pretty self-explanatory but I guess I can expand a bit.

Would you get in a relationship with someone you knew to be bisexual? Or if you were in a relationship with someone and they told you they were bisexual how would you react?

So, could you be romantically attracted to someone who's bisexual? Do you find it to be an attractive trait, or an unattractive one, or maybe neutral?

I'm curious because I'm a bisexual guy and I was wondering what other people might think of that so I thought I would see what everybody here thought.

Hi, you must be new here. Everybody here is aggressively liberal towards that stuff.

OT:my girlfriend is bisexual and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact it's nice, being able to share our gawks...

 

[manic_depressive13]

I wouldn't care at all if the person I was dating was bisexual.

I have a friend who is gay and he told me that he wouldn't want to date a bisexual because, since their dating pool is larger, they would be more likely to cheat. Or something. Anyway, we had an argument about that and I think I convinced him of the absurdity of such a belief by the end.

 

[game-lover]

Of course. I mean, it doesn't affect their physicality that makes me want to jump their bones.

But he's still got to be monogamous with me.

It would be worse if he tried to claim he wasn't bisexual though and cheated with a guy. Because I'd be all of the mindset that I didn't sign up to be involved with a guy who liked other guys.

So he'd best be up front with me. Not saying I'd auto forgive me if he did cheat but still.

 

[Johnny Novgorod]

I guess. I would have to meet a bisexual to know and I can't very well go asking around ARE YOU GAY, can I?

 

[DoPo]

I wouldn't care at all if the person I was dating was bisexual.

I have a friend who is gay and he told me that he wouldn't want to date a bisexual because, since their dating pool is larger, they would be more likely to cheat. Or something. Anyway, we had an argument about that and I think I convinced him of the absurdity of such a belief by the end.

That is indeed one of the stupidest things I've heard. It's like saying you want to date people who are only into blonds (or whatever your hair colour is) - same reasoning applies, after all - larger pool and all.

 

[Eleuthera]

I don't see how or why that would be a problem. My roommate's girlfriend is Bi, they seem to be doing fine...

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Generic straight male reporting. (Also white, just for the privilege bonus.)

"here is your honorary white card, it allows you access anywhere and you get free mints at the door"

*hands card and trust fund*

"may the odds forever be in your favor"


OT:

straight white male, also reporting for duty. I wouldn't give too much of a shit to be honest, hell it could be quite awesome, we could discuss/oogle over who's bones we'd like to frisk more (celebrities and all that).

as long as it was a monogamous relationship, i'm not into the whole competing/cheating thing, tis nasty.

 

[Angelowl]

I'm looking for other bisexuals in particular. Being an androgynous transgirl my chances are better there. Also the odds seems to be in favor of them being more flexibile in bed. With the girls considering getting strap-on and the guys not being too shy about there butts. More fun all around. ^^

Regarding them getting attracted to others. Am I interested in this third person? Sweet, threesome! Otherwise, I don't mind sharing as long as my partner acts responsibly.

 

[Queen Michael]

I dated a bisexual girl once. 'Nuff said.
Okay, so she said that she was pansexual, but trust me, she wasn't. She just liked the label. She doesn't even call herself pansexual anymore.

 

[Maxtro]

I would only have a problem if they didn't let me join in.

 

[CrimsonBlaze]

I would say yes.

So long as they are attracted to me and are interested in pursuing a relationship, why should it matter if they are attracted to the same sex?

 

[DevilWithaHalo]

Hmm... not sure I've dated anyone that wasn't...

...wait, give me a minute here...

...maybe... no...

...wow...

...either I've had some very strange 'luck', or I bring that side out in people.