Could you be attracted to a bisexual?

[aegix drakan_v1legacy]

No issues what-so-ever.

So what if your GF is also into chicks? I see nothing wrong with that. Why the hell WOULD someone have a problem with that?

 

[Xisin]

I think males are more likely to respond positively on this because of the "two girls are hot" mentality. I don't believe girls think that way (i.e. "two guys would be hot") they are more of a monogamous bunch.

The only way I could imagine it making someone uncomfortable is if it makes you feel as if you alone cant fully satisfy your partner. Once again, that's not a problem for guys. Guys think thier girlfriend being with another girl is hot. A girl probably wouldn't think her boyfriend with another guy was hot, she would probably be angry at him for cheating on her.

I find the thought of my husband with another guy to be incredibly hot. Cheating is an entirely different thing. With cheating there would be lying and sneaking around which would be a break of trust. As long as I know about if before hand, why even stop with just one extra guy?

I don't care what sexuality my partner is. If they are with me, they obviously like girls well enough.

 

[Seydaman]

*Checks self* Seems fine to me, wouldn't matter.

 

[Seydaman]

absolutely..being bi (or pan) myself, if you are in a committed monogamous relationship, it should matter who your partner USED to sleep with.

You're pan?! No way!

....I couldn't resist.

 

[Subscriptism]

Considering I'm a straight male then if anything it's more attractive. Unsure how it goes for straight women though.

 

[AngloDoom]

I've had a couple of bisexual girlfriends and I never had a problem with it before I realised that I too was bisexual.

Maybe I'm bias, but I don't really know what the big problem would be, for men at least. A lot of women I know are repulsed by the idea of two men kissing because they believe it diminishes their manliness, so I suppose there may be some women who are uncomfortable with the idea for that reason.

While a lot of men I know think having a bisexual girlfriend is the holy grail because OMG THREESOMES!

 

[Weatherking]

So let me ask something here, I'm very attracted to girls, moderately attracted to men, VERY attracted to pre-op transpeople(because best of both worlds or something? Haven't really thought about the reason why those are my preferences.). That would be considered pan-sexual, right?
I've identified as a bisexual since 17 or something but more recently Iv'e found that I fantasize about being in a relationship with a transperson instead of how it was when I was younger wanting to be with a girl, oh and the only semi-close to serious relationship I ever was in was with a bisexual dude a year or so ago. I'm a 21 year old super socially anxious(which is why I fantasize instead of pursue relationships ) dude for context, whatever I mean by that.

 

[MortisLegio]

Um...sure. So long as she isn't cheating on me I don't see what the deal is.

 

[EeveeElectro]

-snip-

I shouldn't have read that on the bus. I burst out laughing and everyone looked scared of me, pahahaha! Now I have lots of new fancy words for anal. *proud face*
I understand how some men can be put off by the thought of another mans willy in their bum. What bugged me is that he added he doesn't see the attraction to men in general, after proclaiming he was absolutely bisexual. Very hypocritical of him...

A friend of mine in school did that to an extent. They claimed to be bisexual as a way of getting us used to the idea that he liked guys, and then later came out as gay. He said a female bisexual friend of his advised him to do so, as it would make people more comfortable.

Not that it did, none of us cared in the slightest.

Stupid Escapist for not telling me I had a quote...

My mum knew a fella who lied about being straight for 15 years! He had a wife and two children... If I were a gay man I wouldn't imagine going near a vagina. I couldn't lie like that. This was in a different time though so I suppose he felt pressured to have a wife and kids.

 

[Sehnsucht Engel]

I wouldn't hold it against her, but it's not an attractive trait, as such, for me. It's her sexuality, but I've never been attracted to a male myself, nor had any interest beyond friendship in them, so I can't say I would find it attractive, but I wouldn't be revolted either.

 

[TallanKhan]

It wouldn't be any kind of issue for me. I dated a bisexual girl for a while, things didn't work out but her sexuality wasn't a factor in that.

 

[axlryder]

I couldn't care less. I really don't see how it would matter. Though, to be fair, I'm not so attracted to men that I'd call myself "bisexual" (if only because I don't want to announce that I'm "in" to both genders when there's not much chance I'd actually date a guy), but I've definitely felt some inklings of romantic attraction towards men before, so I guess I can empathize a bit?

 

[Aramis Night]

I think the reason why people are a little leary of bi's not being monogamous is that its harder to catch them cheating with their same gender. If it was your bi gf and she was staying at some other guy's place for an evening, most guys would see that as a giant red flag that something might be going on. On the other hand, if your bi gf was staying the night at one of her female friends houses. You might consider it in the back of your head for a moment that she might be cheating on you, but its alot harder to prove or call her out for it.

I'm sure a lot of Bi women are aware of this and take advantage of that. It's enough to drive most men paranoid so we try not to think about it. Most people are opportunists. Bisexual's are no exception. Some are faithful, most are not. Been the guy in that scenario more times than i can remember. It's actually a relief to be with a straight girl for a change. Every other relationship i've ever had was with a bi girl.

 

[Cheesepower5]

If I was attracted to someone, it would not be deterred whether they were bisexual, homosexual, heterosexual, asexual or pansexual. Granted, any of these different things would change how I interact with them. For example, knowing a girl is homosexual would put out of my head the idea of trying to start a relationship. They wouldn't want it and that's okay.

 

[Risingblade]

Naw I just couldn't trust men or women around them.

 

[Xanadu84]

Ha! Yeah, I have no problem with discovering that one thing I have in common with a girl is an attraction to girls.

Actually, Id say I have the opposite problem: I feel mildly bad about bisexuality being a slight turn on. I know that that's a horribly piggish part of my brain speaking but hey, there it is.

 

[Shock and Awe]

Yeah, I've done it and it really wasn't much of an issue either way.

 

[Segafriday]

short answer, im a straight guy and im dating a bisexual girl. it doesn?t bother me in the least.