Could You Date A Transexual?

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

basically this, i'll be your best damn friend for life, but believe me, i've tried not being a ignorant prick but i nearly throw up in my mouth thinking about something such as this occurring between me and a transsexual person, and it's just one of those "whatever floats your boat" things i think.

but hey, if that pleases whoever, by all means, have at it, more for you, so to speak.

That's beyond a reasonable reaction. I have no desire to have sex with another man, but the thought of the act doesn't drive me to any particularly strong feelings, let alone physical reactions.

when you say "beyond a reasonable reaction", i'm assuming you don't approve of what i said, which is fine, i know that makes me come across as a shallow prick, but i can't help the fact it makes me sick to my stomach of the thought of me getting hot and heavy with someone who used to have a dick.

Like i said, i have absolutely no problem and don't think any less of you if you do it with your respective partner(s), more than happy for them.

if that wasn't your intent or you have something else to add, then please continue.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

Serious question actually I may as well ask here since many people seem to be rather knowledgeable with this

Male to female transsexuals in particular I wish to ask about. Is the vagina created possible of self lubrication? The only time I've done ANY research on this was a long time ago and it was so hard to get any information so was just curious if they have a way of allowing it now?

Depends on the surgery..typically no, but there's a another surgery, that as i understand it isn't done as much, where they take a portion of the colon (cleaned and such- although I would hope I wouldn't have to say that) and due to whatever lubricant creating thingies are there naturally..yes self lubricating in the second example.

I am not so knowledgeable because I want the first type of GRS... inversion or whatever.

Sorry I don't have time to look up all the technical stuff..have to run.

 

[Vareoth]

Serious question actually I may as well ask here since many people seem to be rather knowledgeable with this

Male to female transsexuals in particular I wish to ask about. Is the vagina created possible of self lubrication? The only time I've done ANY research on this was a long time ago and it was so hard to get any information so was just curious if they have a way of allowing it now?

There is a method of operation called: sigmoid colon-vaginoplasty technique. They basically take a segment from the sigmoid colon and use this as a supplement for the vaginal vault. This results in a self lubricating vagina.

 

[Moderated]

No. Either it looks like a dude, or it has a penis. Neither are attractive.

 

[Ryan Minns]

Generally depends on the skill of the surgeon.
But yes, they can self lubricate.
However some may not lubricate enough, and an external lube may be needed.

There is a method of operation called: sigmoid colon-vaginoplasty technique. They basically take a segment from the sigmoid colon and use this as a supplement for the vaginal vault. This results in a self lubricating vagina.

Depends on the surgery..typically no, but there's a another surgery, that as i understand it isn't done as much, where they take a portion of the colon (cleaned and such- although I would hope I wouldn't have to say that) and due to whatever lubricant creating thingies are there naturally..yes self lubricating in the second example.

I am not so knowledgeable because I want the first type of GRS... inversion or whatever.

Sorry I don't have time to look up all the technical stuff..have to run.

Thank you all for the information. It all sounds rather amazing what can be done now.

 

[godofallu]

Hell no

Fine in order to avoid a low content post i'll add more. A transexual isn't really a different sex post op. It isn't possible to just swap sexes.

What if you can't tell the difference? If that doesn't matter then why is the notion that they for all intents and purposes are aesthetically not the same gender anymore?

I can't really understand what you are trying to get at here. Are you trying to say that if there was a job so well done that there would be no way to tell the difference between a born man/woman and a surgically created man/woman even using all of your senses and intelligence, what would be my opinion then (like that would ever happen)? My opinion is that people who cut themselves, especially to this extent, have a tremendously large amount of emotional problems and baggage. Getting involved with someone like that would not be something I would do.

 

[Rawne1980]

but there's a another surgery, that as i understand it isn't done as much, where they take a portion of the colon (cleaned and such- although I would hope I wouldn't have to say that) and due to whatever lubricant creating thingies are there naturally..yes self lubricating in the second example.

See I thought I knew quite a bit about Transgender....

Yes flower, sometimes I read (well, I look at the pictures).

But that, I did not know. Learn something new every day. At this rate i'll have enough knowledge to form coherent thoughts.

 

[TKretts3]

I wouldn't even date a guy with a lot of piercings or tattoos, let alone someone who did that to their body. I could just never shake the feeling that it's fake, that they're not a naturally born guy. And just the fact that someone would choose to do that to their body would say something about their character that's just a massive turn off to me. Which isn't to say that I don't support trans rights, or think that the surgery shouldn't be allowed. It's their choice what they do with their bodies, and it's my choice how I choose to react to that.

 

[krazykidd]

Nope . Never . Ever . And if i date a person who i thought was born a woman to find out they weren't i'd probably go to jail for murder .

You know what , i think i'm going to ask ever girl i meet if they were born a girl. I'm scared now .

Nope . Never . Ever . And if i date a person who i thought was born a woman to find out they weren't i'd probably go to jail for murder .

You know what , i think i'm going to ask ever girl i meet if they were born a girl. I'm scared now .

HA HA HA HA.

Oh, you. You loveable sociopath. You would murder someone because you found out they were trans? You're a bigot and a fucking horrible person to boot. Seriously, when did it become okay to talk about murdering trans people?

Seriously, go look up murders statistic of trans people or hear about the horrible fucking things our fellow human beings have done to us just because of their fucking irrational prejudices. Or think how lucky you are that you will never have to worry about being brutally murdered, or refused service at a hospital, or left to die by fucking heartless paramedics that laughed at a dying trans woman. Then maybe you'll be a little less likely to joke about murdering us.

I'll just quote myself with a response i put for another poster who was by the way transgender ( from what i understood) and WAY more mature than you , because i don't feel like wasting my time writting you.

Nope . Never . Ever . And if i date a person who i thought was born a woman to find out they weren't i'd probably go to jail for murder .

You know what , i think i'm going to ask ever girl i meet if they were born a girl. I'm scared now .

well that escalated quickly.
"Gasp, you didn't tell me you were born a certain way. Gonna have to kill you now."

Doesn't that seem like...I dunno...a bit ridiculous? Maybe somewhat psychotic? Being trans is rather a personal thing, as a tgirl myself I told my lovers before I slept with them my gender status, but I sure as hell didn't tell them when I started dating: it's not something i'd share on a first or second date. Not until i'm ready to move to the next step.

Well i have no intention of kissing/sleeping with/doing anything romantic with men. If anyone is into that i don't have a problem with that . But tricking ( yes it is a trick ) me into doing it would be terrible and would probably send me into a blind rage. I don't hit women , but a transgender is just a man/ woman than wanted to be the opposite sex . So in my mind they would be a man . It would be quite a traumatic experience for a person that ISN'T into that sort of thing, don't you think?

Also because YOU tell lovers before sleeping with them doesn't mean eveyone does . And THAT's what is scary , and a bit sickening .

That's being said i have nothing against you or any transgendered person , it's just that i'm not into that in any way form or manner . And i'm only being honest . If people want to quote me left and right to tell me i am horrible person so be it .

 

[manic_depressive13]

I once answered this question saying no, but now that I'm less of a jerk I think I'd be willing to try, regardless if they're MTF or FTM. Are FTM transsexuals able to enjoy sex? As long as they're able to enjoy it in some form or another, I'd be okay with that, but I would feel awful if I were in a relationship where I couldn't uh.... pleasure the other person. Don't really care what parts they might have either. I'd be open to a relationship with whoever provided I like their personality.

 

[tycho0042]

I won't say 100% no chance. (s)he would have to appeal to me in some way. I doubt I'd go out of my way to find one.

 

[Abomination]

Nope . Never . Ever . And if i date a person who i thought was born a woman to find out they weren't i'd probably go to jail for murder .

You know what , i think i'm going to ask ever girl i meet if they were born a girl. I'm scared now .

Nope . Never . Ever . And if i date a person who i thought was born a woman to find out they weren't i'd probably go to jail for murder .

You know what , i think i'm going to ask ever girl i meet if they were born a girl. I'm scared now .

HA HA HA HA.

Oh, you. You loveable sociopath. You would murder someone because you found out they were trans? You're a bigot and a fucking horrible person to boot. Seriously, when did it become okay to talk about murdering trans people?

Seriously, go look up murders statistic of trans people or hear about the horrible fucking things our fellow human beings have done to us just because of their fucking irrational prejudices. Or think how lucky you are that you will never have to worry about being brutally murdered, or refused service at a hospital, or left to die by fucking heartless paramedics that laughed at a dying trans woman. Then maybe you'll be a little less likely to joke about murdering us.

I'll just quote myself with a response i put for another poster who was by the way transgender ( from what i understood) and WAY more mature than you , because i don't feel like wasting my time writting you.

While I do find what you posted about murder to be a bit (I hope) hyperbole I certainly understand the idea of an incredible sense of betrayal.

"I was born a man" translates differently depending on an individual's point of view. To me "I was born a man" translates to "I am a man who believes he is a female and has undergone extensive surgery and hormonal treatment to pass as a female".

Some people might consider that individual to be a female, and they would be right. I consider that individual to be a male, and I also am right. They are right that the individual is female to them and I am right that the individual is male to me.

 

[Yoshi4507]

Hey, an orifice is an orifice.

Just kidding. In all reality, no. To me they are the same gender no matter how much work was done to them.

 

[Little Duck]

If I like a person romantically I will ask them out. Whether or not they are a transexual is irrelevant.

 

[Darken12]

Well i have no intention of kissing/sleeping with/doing anything romantic with men. If anyone is into that i don't have a problem with that . But tricking ( yes it is a trick ) me into doing it would be terrible and would probably send me into a blind rage. I don't hit women , but a transgender is just a man/ woman than wanted to be the opposite sex . So in my mind they would be a man . It would be quite a traumatic experience for a person that ISN'T into that sort of thing, don't you think?

Also because YOU tell lovers before sleeping with them doesn't mean eveyone does . And THAT's what is scary , and a bit sickening .

That's being said i have nothing against you or any transgendered person , it's just that i'm not into that in any way form or manner . And i'm only being honest . If people want to quote me left and right to tell me i am horrible person so be it .

Trick. They're tricking you. Right. Because they're evil and sadistic and your pain is their sweet ambrosia of life.

It couldn't be that they don't tell people that they're trans right away because they're afraid of hate crimes (which are on the rise, by the way!). It can't possibly be because being attacked is a very real possibility for transgendered people and society is perfectly content in not doing anything about it and even justifying and defending violence against trans people.

No, it has to be about you.

While I would agree that informing their partners would be the polite thing to do (which I consider part of the broader category "things you might want to tell people before having sex with them, if you're into politeness"), this is a very sensitive subject for trans people and being trusted with such information is a privilege, not a basic right.

Some people might consider that individual to be a female, and they would be right. I consider that individual to be a male, and I also am right. They are right that the individual is female to them and I am right that the individual is male to me.

Personally, I completely disagree. I think that a person's gender is not public property. That is, I don't have a right to impose my conceptions of gender over someone else's own. I think it's perfectly fine to say "You are not the kind of woman I am attracted to" but saying "You are not a woman, period" is quite frankly overstepping one's boundaries.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

but there's a another surgery, that as i understand it isn't done as much, where they take a portion of the colon (cleaned and such- although I would hope I wouldn't have to say that) and due to whatever lubricant creating thingies are there naturally..yes self lubricating in the second example.

See I thought I knew quite a bit about Transgender....

Yes flower, sometimes I read (well, I look at the pictures).

But that, I did not know. Learn something new every day. At this rate i'll have enough knowledge to form coherent thoughts.

;P you're such a brat! i was literally standing at my keyboard typing that i was already late leaving

 

[Gamer_152]

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'd be fine with it.

 

[Rawne1980]

;P you're such a brat! i was literally standing at my keyboard typing that i was already late leaving

Brat?

Me?

I'm deeply hurt, there may be real tears....

Why are you so mean to me?