Could You Date A Transexual?

[Rawne1980]

Nice? ok ....

In regards to your answer... I love you.

A man can live in hope Tragedy.

One day you will look down upon my beaten, broken form and take pity on me ..... maybe even buy me a beer ..... and a curry (or is the curry pushing it too far?)

Although I could probably skip the curry if you keep the leather dom outfit on ;P

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

Nice? ok ....

In regards to your answer... I love you.

A man can live in hope Tragedy.

One day you will look down upon my beaten, broken form and take pity on me ..... maybe even buy me a beer ..... and a curry (or is the curry pushing it too far?)

Although I could probably skip the curry if you keep the leather dom outfit on ;P

LMAO!! Of course i'd buy you a beer Curry may indeed be pushing it though lol

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

i have said this once and will say it again. i love females doesnt matter if they have or had a penis.

wonderfully simple and a beautiful approach!

/net hugs

 

[Rawne1980]

LMAO!! Of course i'd buy you a beer Curry may indeed be pushing it though lol

Okay so beer, skip the curry and then straight to dessert (ooooh innuendo).

Ahhh, you do bring a smile to my face B.

And make the blood rush to my head (oooh, innuendo number 2).

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

LMAO!! Of course i'd buy you a beer Curry may indeed be pushing it though lol

Okay so beer, skip the curry and then straight to dessert (ooooh innuendo).

Ahhh, you do bring a smile to my face B.

And make the blood rush to my head (oooh, innuendo number 2).

LMAO it's entirely too early for your silliness..lol

 

[Rawne1980]

LMAO it's entirely too early for your silliness..lol

It's 5pm nearly .... i'm ignoring the time difference on purpose .... I know you're behind me (oooh innuendo 3).

I've been serious enough today. I can't do it anymore.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

LMAO it's entirely too early for your silliness..lol

It's 5pm nearly .... i'm ignoring the time difference on purpose .... I know you're behind me (oooh innuendo 3).

I've been serious enough today. I can't do it anymore.

That's ok i love the sarcastic humor... you make it fun coming here (innuendo 4)

 

[Rawne1980]

That's ok i love the sarcastic humor... you make it fun coming here (innuendo 4)

rofl.

One day B, we'll have to go deeper into this talk and [g]get to the bottom[/b] of all the serious issues that every Tom and Dick raise up about dating.

If we could just plug the hole in peoples knowledge then we could screw all nightmares about this away.

(Innuendo's 5, 6,7,8 and 9).

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

That's ok i love the sarcastic humor... you make it fun coming here (innuendo 4)

rofl.

One day B, we'll have to go deeper into this talk and [g]get to the bottom[/b] of all the serious issues that every Tom and Dick raise up about dating.

If we could just plug the hole in peoples knowledge then we could screw all nightmares about this away.

(Innuendo's 5, 6,7,8 and 9).

ok i surrender! as i said it's too early to be clever (for me) lol

 

[AmzRigh]

If I find a person attractive, I would consider dating them. I find feminine features attractive.

Now, brutal honesty, I haven't seen that many MtoF transsexuals who didn't look a little mannish. Of course, I've seen born-females who look a little mannish, too. Not particularly attracted to either one. (Morgan Webb is kinda my standard for this -- her strong jaw is about the extent of masculine features I can tolerate and still find attractive. If you look manlier than Morgan Webb, then I'm sorry, but I'm probably not gonna be interested.)

But I have seen transsexuals who look 100% feminine, and I'm not ashamed to admit I found them attractive. Heck, the prettiest one I've seen was pre-op, but post-HRT, and honestly, I would not hesitate. In other words, if I like the way you look with your pants on, what's in your pants isn't going to make much difference to me. (Unless it's obscenely hairy, but that's an entirely different sort of hang-up.)

 

[electric_warrior]

Not unless I knew form the beginning and grew to love her in the light of that knowledge.

Even then, I'd still find it icky.

There's nothing wrong with it, but I'd find it difficult.

 

[BiscuitTrouser]

If more people could approach matters like this be it about gender, race, creed etc The world would be lot happier I feel - It's honest and isn't trying to hide behind a stonewall of intolerance and appears open to change (Much respect ^^) I also possibly worded all that wrong as my head is in rant mode xD

Thank you for your nice words, i feel more secure thinking about it knowing im not hurting anyones feelings :3 I just desire to be honest with myself and always scrutinize the way i think in terms of how it affects other people. I think thats what makes someone a real man or woman. This topic makes me feel sad because i feel hypocritical and mean to people for no real reason. Its funny how people think about it in terms of sex though. I did too. I thought "Would i bang a transexual if you put them in front of me and said go" and my answer was no. But id probably say no for a LOT of girls because to be honest i dont subscribe to basless sex with random people, i didnt frame the question in the right context for me. I think the most important question, what the OP was semi asking but what matters to me, is can i LOVE a transexual. Could i fall in love with a person who identified as trans. And i think i could, i cant see any reason why i couldnt. I know if i loved a trans person as much as i love my girlfriend now i wouldnt care. If my girlfriend said she was trans i wouldnt take any issue at all because i love her totally and in that context it couldnt matter less. When i frame it in terms of love it becomes easy. Its easy to frame in terms if just sex but as steven fry once said:

"The idea that really spins their melon and sickens their stomachs is that most terrible and terrifying of all human notions, love. Love in all eight tones and all five semitones of the world's full octave. Love as Agape, Eros and Philos; love as infatuation, obsession and lust; love as torture, euphoria, ecstasy and oblivion love as need, passion and desire."

I wonder if the OP said "Can you see yourself falling totally in love with a transexual, if you did would it be a deal breaker for you?" i imagine the question would get people to think a lot harder.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

I wonder if the OP said "Can you see yourself falling totally in love with a transexual, if you did would it be a deal breaker for you?" i imagine the question would get people to think a lot harder.

I think that has been discussed here before, and i think you would be shocked at the responses.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

Would I date a transexual?

That depends on whether they can tell me if the rag smells like chloroform or not.

 

[Rawne1980]

I wonder if the OP said "Can you see yourself falling totally in love with a transexual, if you did would it be a deal breaker for you?" i imagine the question would get people to think a lot harder.

I think that has been discussed here before, and i think you would be shocked at the responses.

Serious answer of the day number 2 (if I keep this up, people may think I have actual human thoughts instead of verging on Monkey).

Quoted you both to get the original question and back up B's "shocking response" retort.

If i'm willing to date a Trans Woman then i'm more than willing to fall in love with one.

I'm a tad bit too old now to be dating just for the hell of it and would hope to progress further than that if it ever did happen.

The idea of dating for no reason seems a bit daft to me. I'll grant you that i'm way out of touch with the dating scene and have no idea how to go about it now (my wife said that if we ever split up, the only woman i'd find is at the Bingo .... she likes calling me old .... even though she's older .... it's madness) but i'm pretty sure if I was dating a Trans Woman it would be for a more meaningful reason than a coffee and kiss.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

I wonder if the OP said "Can you see yourself falling totally in love with a transexual, if you did would it be a deal breaker for you?" i imagine the question would get people to think a lot harder.

I think that has been discussed here before, and i think you would be shocked at the responses.

Serious answer of the day number 2 (if I keep this up, people may think I have actual human thoughts instead of verging on Monkey).

Quoted you both to get the original question and back up B's "shocking response" retort.

If i'm willing to date a Trans Woman then i'm more than willing to fall in love with one.

I'm a tad bit too old now to be dating just for the hell of it and would hope to progress further than that if it ever did happen.

The idea of dating for no reason seems a bit daft to me. I'll grant you that i'm way out of touch with the dating scene and have no idea how to go about it now (my wife said that if we ever split up, the only woman i'd find is at the Bingo .... she likes calling me old .... even though she's older .... it's madness) but i'm pretty sure if I was dating a Trans Woman it would be for a more meaningful reason than a coffee and kiss.

I'm in that same boat but hanging my feet over the edge. (LONG story- needless to say, my wife is dating these days, and NOT me.) Anyway, At my age, it terrifies me to start dating again. Plus being pre-op makes things a little more challenging if a physical relationship was to evolve.

What's wrong with a coffee and kiss? that could be the start of a beautiful relationship (Tragedy).

Also if Rawne splits with his wife, i claim him!

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

So, I guess what I'm trying to say is that if I were to date someone then, yes, I do consider dating all guys. I really don't know how else to explain that other than it's just not my thing.

That's...Huh I don't think I've ever met anyone who considers every member of the desired sexes to be dating material.

I think I'm getting sick, so if I take that comment differently then forgive me.

But to be fair, I don't consider every single guy that I've ran into dating material because I do have standards.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

To me you are what your chromosomes say you are.

And how do you know what peoples' chromosones are saying?

Are you a Chromosone Whisperer?