Creepy Compliments

[derelict]

"your husband is a lucky man" is creepy. Is the guy saying that hoping to be "lucky" too?

This is quite a common and normal compliment that could mean anything about your looks, actions, or demeanor. If you think this is creepy, you probably need to have a good serious look at the boundaries and prejudices you're putting up for other people, or rather other men.

 

[LJJ]

I was having lunch with a couple of co-workers, small-talking a random story and out of nowhere one of them blurts out: "I think you'll become really rich."

Uhmmmm, okay? How nice.

 

[InsanityBaronOfAtrocity]

This was during sex.

"woah your legs are so smooth! It's like being a lesbian again"

I'm male.

 

[Kif]

I can't see this one getting beaten. A quote from my mother "Those trousers make your package look huge"... .. . .. ...

Oh and last week after some fooling around with my girlfriend she exhaustively said "I feel like I should say thank you" which was funny.

Both of which are ego boosting, but still unusual enough to throw me.

Oh I almost forgot too, I have been told now by 2 different dentists in my life that my teeth are exceptional. I'm British! Take that stereotypes. I Thought the first dentist who said it was coming on to me in some way, but it was validated by a second dentist later in life.

I don't think I've ever given any creepy compliments... but then some of you seem to have a vague notion of creepy me and my girlfriend say 'you smell nice' all the time.

 

[Lenny Magic]

Can't really think of one, so here is one that is a compliment and one which is just creepy.

Not really creepy just confusing: "Your English is very good, how long have you been learning?" Err, well how about my whole life?

I didn't really hear what they were saying since I had my earphones in, but 2 people in my class were just staring at me for well over 4 minutes. When I paused my music to ask them what they were saying I was told "Don't worry we are just taking about people we hate..."

 

[LT_Razgriz]

A really creepy old hick from Fuckennowhereville PA once said to my friends and i that we are a very handsome group of young men and would we like to go back to he's house and fuck he's wife while he watched...

 

[Tucker154]

"You have really nice teeth. They are like the moon and the stars. Can I have them?"
-A random crazy homeless man on the bus.

"You two make a really cute couple."
-A stranger referring to my sister and me. I couldn't sit next to her for the next week.

that reminds me of what happened to me and my sis once.me,her and my dad went to a resturant one day and my dad went to the restroom once we entered.Then a waytress came up to us and asked us if we wanted a table for two.I was completely dumbfounded by this and very creeped out,but still to this day find it to be one of funniest things that happened to me mainly because I literaly loled when it happened. I feel bad for the waitress though.

OT:"I hate you"

When she told me this I acualy felt good about it for some reason.I think its because she was annoying and I saw that as an indication that she was going to leave me alone.

 

[RanD00M]

I've never really gotten any compliments.And out of those few compliments that I have gotten,none of them were creepy.

 

[Duruznik]

"Your hair is so... SOFT!"

This was said by about 4 different people. Boys and Girls. They were standing around me in the middle of the school corridor, petting my head in awe.

 

[xmbts]

"You know, some men find pregnant women attractive..."
That one was unsettling.

 

[Furious Styles]

"Nice nipples"

I think he was joking, but you don't want to hear that from your PE teacher (or anyone for that matter)

 

[Snowden's Secret]

I was told "I could imagine you as a werewolf." once. At least, I think it was a compliment.

 

[neon flame]

I think this one depends on the context, but people tell me, surprisingly often, that they wish they had my hair. This wouldn't be too bad, except only women say it to me, and I'm a guy. A guy with a beard at that. One girl elaborated and said that she thought any girl would look great with MY hair. Maybe I'm just overthinkg this, but isn't that a backwards of saying I would look great as a girl? Because that's pretty creepy.

EDIT: I've remembered another one. After a friend of my had a brief but pretty offensive rant about how ugly ginger people are (I live in the UK), they turned to me and said "Don't worry, you're not that ginger anyway." Come to think of it, the ugly gingers stereotype only seems to apply to men, which might be why everyone seems to want to put my hair on a girl. I still don't feel any better though :/

 

[RagingScottsman]

An ex of mine told me once that I "have really nice balls". And no, we weren't together at the time either.

 

[child of lileth]

Anytime someone compliments me on my ass, it always has to be in the most creepy way possible. I hate it.
That, or the time an old lady at a nursing home told me I have nice shoulders. It's just random and weird to hear, especially from some old lady that's like suddenly there out of nowhere, and clinging onto my arm. :<

 

[Julianking93]

"You have the hottest ass!"

Perhaps they thought I was a girl. I do have a very feminine figure and look about me

"You would make such a cute girl!"

Goddamn it, I'm a guy! But thank you anyway!

(to my mother) "Your daughter is so cute!"

....************.

 

[Vinylsiding]

There was a drunk homeless japanese man that frequented one of the streets just off base when I was stationed in Okinawa. He wore crazy hats that he made himself from found objects, and rode a bike with junk strapped to it in odd configurations. He used to yell, "Hey, fuck you! You number one guy!" He literally said that to every airman that passed by.