canadamus_prime said:
Discussing things in a calm and collective manner on an Internet forum? You must be mad!
Heh, I thought the exact same thing when I saw Therumancer's post on my inbox.
But on to the topic. As I don't really wanna quote all that, I'll address it here.
I've heard of the invisible knapsack theory. I have to disagree that it applies to what I was saying. My main point is that yes, racism does exist, and not in such small, insurmountable numbers. Just because it isn't in your face doesn't mean much. I also see too many people getting judged -or should I say, prejudged- off the bat because of their race. You see a woman, and you instantly think she isn't capable of the same duty as a man, and thats ignoring jobs based on physical labor. I do not think the issue is of cultural barriers.
I have to agree that said cultural barriers exist, for the exact reasons that you stated. Admittedly, there is no set lifestyle in America that you must conform too, that is the beauty of America. You can come here from India and not expect to loss you Indian values. You can move from China and not have to lose your Chinese customs. In theory (emphasis on that word, "theory") you can come as an immigrant, and not have to change yourself to be considered an American (you just can't be President). However, you cannot come here expecting things to run the way it was in your home country. You may be able to beat women in the country of Ihatewomannia, but oncer you come here, that women beating is over. Some people cannot adjust to the rules and the way others live, and expect the rules to conform to how they once lived.
That said, I do not think we are debating an issue of cultural barriers, as we can both agree it exist. Your first sentence in your post described the definition of racism/sexism. That also applies to how things going on now. For example, this post that I have quoted
Therumancer said:
Racism and sexism also provide a conveinent tool for people to blame their own failings on. If your a minority you can blame "whitey" in a nebulous sense without having to actually make much in the way of specific accusations. For a woman they can blame sexism and how it's all the men keeping them down. It's easier than to face the reality of one's limitations, or the hard work of having to fit in with society.
You quoted minorites and women for blaming whites and men, respectivley, for not being able to deal with their problems. You blamed those two groups, specifically. I'm not calling you a racist or anything of the sort, but those two groups were singled out. There are plenty of whites who blame minorities for things not going their way. There are plenty of men who blame women in the office for every problem, not owning up to the fact that they may be a problem. For example, some people may say crap like "guy A got the job over me (guy B) because of affirmative action!" (I should point out that I do not support affirmative action, but this is neither the time nor the place). It isn't possible that guy A got the job over guy B...because he earned it? Things like that do exist, and it applies to everyone, from a black woman blaming a white guy to a white guy blaming an indian man.
This was fun, but I don't really wanna bog this thread with such heavy debate over things that doesn't entirely have to do with the thread. As in, I don't really wanna derail a thread, so I'll agree to disagree here. Unless the thread really gets derailed to the point that we can discuss this with no prob.