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Hoppetussa

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1. No, but I did get kind of sad in Gears of War 2 when they found Maria.

2. Yes, if you can cry about movies, you can cry about games.
 

Ambarato

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1. End of FF8 I almost did. Then I kept watching it over and over until I actually did. I don't know why so don't bother asking.

2. Yes it's perfectly reasonable. If you can cry while watching a 3+ hour film (Titanic) you can cry while playing a 60+ hour game (final fantasies).
 

GunnerGraye

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1) Almost, at the part in Fallout 3 when your dad dies like right after you finally get to meet him.
2) Sure, why not.
 

Twaddlefish

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Episode 2 was very moving at the end.

With the advances in technology to create more realistic environments and more advanced ways of plot exposition, I think it won't be too long until games are credited as a valid form of art.
 

Jursa

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1. No
2. We have tear glands for a reason... if man wasn't supposed to cry, he wouldn't have them. It's again the idiotic "people hate what they don't understand", I doubt a single one of the people who laughed at that audience know what Final Fantasy is at all, they see it in their minds as anything idiots see Japan as...(censored)

I also feel sorry for the guy who was dragged there and if I were him I'd stuff a chili pepper down her throat. I mean women who play video games see it as something normal and great. What I find really strange is that after achieving what they have been striving for, for years to make men actually more emotional, we can get laughed at and poked at.
 

Ago Iterum

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xitel said:
I almost cried at Shadow of the Colossus, and no, I don't think it's wrong. If people cry at movies, and over books, then it's perfectly FINE to cry over a game.
So did I!

What a game.

But other than that, nothing's even brought me close. I do think it's okay though, because like you say, it's a story, like film or TV.
 

GunnerGraye

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johnx61 said:
In summation, I have generally learned to stop talking about it as this only earns me a lot of ire from whatever community I'm posting on. However, I think there's a lot more maturity here. So I'm taking a chance that someone will actually have the benevolence to give a rat's ass.
Ah, that's rough, man. I sympathize with ya. And I think people are generally nice here from what I've seen so far...so I wouldn't think anyone would be much of a dick.
 

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ErictheRed1989 said:
Is this the video you are talking about?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdIZuu6IaQo

almost cried during Ace Combat 5, Chopper was my boy
Just watched that video.... kinda makes me want to cull the flock of women that inhabit our world... That was some of the dumbest stuff i've ever heard. Does no one think that you can play games for the same reason you read a book and watch movies? Just because they bring you joy and make you happy?
Not knocking the guys that were emotionally moved, that's fine, and i'm glad you found a game that could do that for you. How about this guys girlfriend pick up a controller and try playing with him? If she doesn't like it, then he doesn't have to go with her when she gets her nails done....

That segment was rediculous. I'd heard Tyra had a show at some point. but i thought it was America's Next Top Model...
 

Hookman

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Tenmar said:
You have got to give us the link to this youtube video of that episode. I really have to see how old this is and what they really said.
Its already on here. Someone else has posted a link.
 

I3uster

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I cried over the death of Rick Biessman in ELite Force 1

Man i was six years old, and it was my first FPS...
 

Ploppy

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Hmm. Excellent topic, although i'm appalled at the lack of understanding of games, I can't say i'd expect less from Tyra Banks.

Now, to answer your questions, I can't say a game has ever brought me to tears, but i've certainly been emotionally effected by moments in games. In Fallout 3, for example,
I helped to Ghouls get into Tenpenny Tower peacefully, after 'persuading' some of the more bigoted residences that they no longer had a place there. Convinced i'd done the right thing, I moved on.

However, when I retuned a couple of weeks later, I found all the non-ghoul residence conspicuously missing. After a brief search, I found them, or what was left of them. After confronting Roy, I got genuinely pissed off that they'd used my gesture of peace to get into the tower and then slaughtered the residence. So, I pulled out my shotgun and got some revenge, Punisher style.
Man, did my Karma points go down.

The point is, I got genuinely angry at the betrayal of the character, even if it was just a game. And in Mass Effect, having to make that choice, not once, but twice, didn't make me cry, but I was certainly effected by the choice.

Or in Far Cry two, it wasn't a part of the narrative that got to me, but when one of my buddies, who came and rescued me from certain death one too many times, lay dying in my hands, and I could do nothing but pump more morphine into them, and my mind fleetingly wondered if it wouldn't just be more merciful, judging by her anguished cries, to pull out my pistol...

As for the second point, I'd agree with what seems to be the general consensus, that it's definitely OK to cry at, or to otherwise become emotionally involved in games, just as it is with films, TV, music, books, or any other media outlet. In fact, i'd argue it's more acceptable with games, simply because they have by their nature a much greater level of immersion. I wasn't idly watching the the choice made by some one else in Far Cry 2, I made the decision, the consequences for it were on my head, it wasn't some alien character debating on if there was enough morphine for a dying buddy, or if the pistol was a kinder option, it was me. In every other comparable media, anything that happens, be it a joyous event, tragic disaster, difficult decision, etcetera, happens to someone else, i'm just watching. In game, or at least, well written, immersive games, it happens to me.

Unfortunately, whilst game has made progress towards the territory of mainstream society in the last few years, gaming as a whole is still not understood by many, who assume it to be just for kids, or somehow incapable of effecting people as films or books can. Hopefully though, as games gain more mainstream acceptance, horrific displays of ignorance on the subject, such as that apparently displayed by Tyra Banks, will be much less common.
 

eatenbyagrue

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1) Yes, to the (I know it's a bit cliche) opera scene in FFVI, and again in Persona 3, when I got the absolute final ending.

2) Why not? Like the OP said, we do it all the time with books and movies, and videogames are (my opinion) better at eliciting emotion, given how involved you are, and there's always this sense of "I could've saved him/her if I was stronger/faster/better/etc."
 

chefassassin2

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I personally have never cried at a game. I've had those moments wher part of me chokes up a little bit though.

Also, I think hell yea it's ok to cry at a videogame. People can watch a movie, which takes two hours passivly watching, and become emotionally attached to it to the point they just bawl at some point. If you spend days, or weeks becoming attached to something you partly control, like a videogame, of course it's ok. You become attached to parts of a game, it's human nature. It's a visceral experience intended to provoke reaction.
 

TheMushroomClub

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I've never played a game that is sad enough to cry over it, I'm a casual gamer (GO AHEAD, FLAME ME) so no game I play really has a sad part.