Using fame to feed your ego would be a bad situation for you - or anybody. The problem with people who do that is that it's fine if they're flavour of the month, but if things go sour and they've vested all their emotional eggs in the adulation of strangers, when that's taken away they experience a fairly extreme and frightening downward spiral. And let's face it, almost no celebrities receive universal acclaim, they almost all get hated at one point or another in their career, it just comes with the territory. Imagine bringing out an album and everyone in the media hates it. Imagine going on a stage and nobody wants to hear anything you play except the one song you got famous for ten years ago. Imagine going on The Escapist and reading a hate-thread about yourself and how the songs you spent the last year working on are "manufactured garbage". The celebrities who are strong enough to cope with that are the ones who aren't using fame as something to feed their secretly fragile sense of self. It's fine to have an ego, we all have one, but just don't use the reactions of others to fuel it - your sense of self should come from within, not from what some collective of strangers thinks. That way, when those strangers suddenly decide for whatever reason that you're a dickhead, you can just go "oh well - that's their opinion" rather than have a nervous breakdown over it.Ham_authority95 said:Thanks for the well-written response.BonsaiK said:Fame is many things but it's not a leisure activity - it's hilariously ironic to me that it seems to attract chiefly lazy people who are attracted to it because the 9 to 5 lifestyle seems like too much work...
From were I am now, for 15 year-old, I'm still busy as fuck, with School from 8-4, then music lessons, then rehearsals with bands, then pep band games, then any gigs, then girlfriend, then eating, then fucking around on the internet(this can all be switched around depending on my schedule). Now that I imagine that I suddenly became a great songwriter/performer and you saw people on The Escapists bitching about how I'm ruining music, because of your posts my current situation would be ultimately be preferable.
I'd also say that having aspirations of being famous depends on how egotistical a person is, as well. I'm pretty egotistical myself(you can tell that from how many times I just used "I"), and until your above posts, I thought that being famous would be pretty cool because it would feed my ego, in addition to the other shit.
Now it doesn't seem like hot shit at all, considering that the guy you called couldn't even escape from people while taking a shit.