I've never experienced a fair fight when invaded, not once. When I beat the shit out of you and/or backstab you while you just stand there making the dick gesture and not taking any damage at all...you can fuck right off.
When I'm hollow for 99% of the game and the MOMENT I go human to kindle a fire I'm invaded by yet another asshole preventing me from doing so it is annoying. When the invasion ends one way or another, and I get invaded instantly by the SAME ************ before I can kindle the fire, and this happens 3 times before I say fuck it and stop playing...there is a problem.
Lucky I PREFER playing offline because I don't like any hints, don't like being carried by other players, and HATE invasions.
If they changed it so that invaders/white phantoms can't hurt your npcs, kill your lizards or just be dicks in general then I wouldn't mind. If they reduced the frequency of invasions to like 1 every 30 min instead of 30 seconds I'd probably be fine with it.
As it is I always play offline the first time, get everything I need living npcs around to get, then when I have all the stuff I want I play online to see how ridiculous the hackers have become. Of course even without hacking people still find ways to cheat by exploiting various things.
Dragon head glitch, duping, moveset swapping, running firestorm, toggle casting for extra casts/insta casts, that "run up and face away from them like a jackass so they can't block your WoG spam" whatever you call it. There are probably 60 more dick moves that are accepted by the "pros" because of the "nothing is done to fix them so why not?" mentality.
I DO have respect for people that can pull off mid parry ring swaps. That is badass.
I've seen vids of legitimate, exciting, and skill based pvp. Lies every one of them. If you get invaded and the two of you don't just fish for chainstabs while teleporting randomly all over the place from latency issues, then idk what game YOU are playing.
The changes to DS2, when I saw that vid yesterday I kept thinking "why would anyone want to be a white phantom now?"
I guess we will see.
I actually liked the npc invasions in DS. Especially the one in Ariamis. That guy was a hardcore pyro lol.