Xprimentyl said:
The best tip:
If you are like me, then you have to realize that
dying and losing souls/humanity is no big deal. Seriously, this game becomes infinitely more stressful and not fun when you worry that you might lose your 15000 souls and 10 humanity.
You need to learn to let go, because it doesn't matter at all.
Next best tip:
Play slow.
Get a 100% physical block shield (easy to come by). Have it up at all times in new areas. Always fight enemies slow. Block, attack ONCE!, continue blocking, until you learn the attack patterns. The spear hollows are very passive, and you can easily walk up and kick (forward+R1) then kill them.
If you get stuck, just consult a wiki. There is no shame in that, because it doesn't matter. Also just google questions, like when you need to farm large titanite shards, or when you want to look up a weapon, etc. This will greatly increase your enjoyment. Like did you know that you can easily kill the taurus demon by climbing the ladder beside the fog gate and plunge attack him until he dies?? Knowledge is power.
I played through the first time with a rather heavy armour, claymore (then man serpent great sword) strength build.
Now that I learned the ins and outs by going slow and observing, and killing my desire to never lose souls/humanity, I have started a fun dual wield build. Currently just two handing my uchigatana, but I have Quelaags Furysword off hand, and I just beat Super Ornstein for his spear (which has too high strength for my dex build, god damnit). Originally wanted a parry sword, spear main hand build which I will transition to at some time, maybe.
Anyway, another good tip:
Don't worry about choosing the wrong weapon. You get a lot of materials for weapon upgrades as you go (and they are easy to farm), except for the final upgrade which is usually a one time per playthrough item. So experiment with a bunch of weapons, find one with a moveset you like, then upgrade it. And you are golden.
Also:
Choose the kind of character you want to make and stick with it. So pick either strength, or dex, or int, or faith to bring up to 40, then put the rest into vitality (endurance up to 40 as well).
But seriously, don't worry about dying and losing souls. It killed my desire to play until I realized that it didn't effect my character at all in the long run. It is much more fun now, I can just attempt to fight shit, and then I laugh when I fail because it is usually for stupid reasons like being greedy with attacks, or getting clipped through walls and stuff. Or trying something risky and getting caught. So much more fun now that I don't care.
Man, I just realized this game is basically meditation in game form. Focusing on the present, learning to acknowledge your weakness, becoming calm and relaxed in the face of adversity. That's why the character sits and meditates in front of the fires. It is all about trying to find your true self, and living in the moment. Learning to let go. Possessions do not matter, only who you are (in this case, your demon slaying skills).
Woah.