Smoking is a deal breaker. Smokers taste bad. A girl with man-hands is also a big turnoff. And I know this is shallow and I apologize in advance to the ladies of the board, but small boobies are also a No-Go. What can I say, I likes da boobies.
Dating Deal Breakers: Your #1 Turnoff
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If the person is immature and can't hold an intelligent conversation with me it tends to bug me...a lot. If I try to have a serious conversation I hate if they start laughing or brush it off like it means nothing as well.
On another note I find piercings severely unattractive but I like tattoos, as long as they aren't over the top or just plain awful tats. I also dislike if the person drinks a lot or even to the point where I would consider them an alcoholic, my ex was like this needing to go to the bar every weekend, sometimes more then once a week. To go along with that is smoking and/or drug use. Smoking is ok but as long as they don't smoke too much. I don't mind if they smoke 1-2 a day per say, but if they smoke somewhere up to say a pack or more a day, there's something wrong there. Drug use is just a definite no. While I myself on the extremely rare occasion will smoke some weed to relax I don't make a habit of it.
On another note I find piercings severely unattractive but I like tattoos, as long as they aren't over the top or just plain awful tats. I also dislike if the person drinks a lot or even to the point where I would consider them an alcoholic, my ex was like this needing to go to the bar every weekend, sometimes more then once a week. To go along with that is smoking and/or drug use. Smoking is ok but as long as they don't smoke too much. I don't mind if they smoke 1-2 a day per say, but if they smoke somewhere up to say a pack or more a day, there's something wrong there. Drug use is just a definite no. While I myself on the extremely rare occasion will smoke some weed to relax I don't make a habit of it.
I find dumb chicks to be useful...if I'm feeling particularly malicious it never hurts to have a booty call around. Wouldn't get serious with one though.Cutlesnap post=18.69153.651835 said:
As for tattoos, different strokes for different folks. Some people like them, I'm not one of those people.
lol@booty call.
smoking.. I don't personally think Second Hand Smoke is nearly as dangerous as the left wing wackos would have you believe. I don't smoke, myself, and hence, I don't care for the taste of it in a kiss. But second hand smoke killing me is not on my
I'd still say it's a deal breaker though, but not automatically
smoking.. I don't personally think Second Hand Smoke is nearly as dangerous as the left wing wackos would have you believe. I don't smoke, myself, and hence, I don't care for the taste of it in a kiss. But second hand smoke killing me is not on my
I'd still say it's a deal breaker though, but not automatically
If she's not what I'm attracted to. If she's not slim like me, smart like me, and fun like me, she's not :with: me.
To judge someone on appearance when it comes to a relationship as in dating, is no more wrong than to say "men are all about sex" and "women are all materialistic"
A relationship is no more than a job application, and if you don't fit the job, you just :don't: you can't be faulted for that. Its pitiful and pretentious to claim that judging someone for not being what your attracted to is wrong. When dealing with a corporate or political system? Yes, its wrong to discriminate. But when dealing with who you want to spend your life with and who you want in bed?
If you think its wrong to discriminate based on :anything: your a pretentious fool. We can only like what we like. We can only be turned off by what we are turned off by. Sure you might miss some hidden gems, but that's YOUR decision.
on the other hand, it probably hurts to want someone and have them spurn you just because of one quality, "in or outside" of your control. C'est la vie, c'est trop depressive, et si si mal... mais c'est la vie.
To judge someone on appearance when it comes to a relationship as in dating, is no more wrong than to say "men are all about sex" and "women are all materialistic"
A relationship is no more than a job application, and if you don't fit the job, you just :don't: you can't be faulted for that. Its pitiful and pretentious to claim that judging someone for not being what your attracted to is wrong. When dealing with a corporate or political system? Yes, its wrong to discriminate. But when dealing with who you want to spend your life with and who you want in bed?
If you think its wrong to discriminate based on :anything: your a pretentious fool. We can only like what we like. We can only be turned off by what we are turned off by. Sure you might miss some hidden gems, but that's YOUR decision.
on the other hand, it probably hurts to want someone and have them spurn you just because of one quality, "in or outside" of your control. C'est la vie, c'est trop depressive, et si si mal... mais c'est la vie.
Altorin post=18.69153.654118 said:
Whether or not second hand smoke will kill you, it still smells nasty and is impossible to get out of clothing or furniture. You can smoke away from me, but that still won't change the fact that you stink.
What turns me off? Excessive tattoos, piercings, girls with hairstyles like mohawks. Basically, my friend Kimmy. She's a terrific person, but I'm not attracted to her in the least.
There are good reasons to get a tatoo. A friend of mine got one in memoriam to her best friend who was killed in a car crash. I got one after I finished my chemotherapy to remind myself that I am capable of surviving anything life throws at me. I think it is small minded of you to assume people only get tatoos because they are narcissistic. Their tatoos could be just for them. But, maybe you're right. Maybe God won't like what I did to my body. But I'm fine with that since I'm not too happy with what he did to it either.SimuLord post=18.69153.651421 said:
Nothing much, I've been called shallow though, and the polar oppisite "You'd screw anything that walked upright wouldn't you?"
How is that in anyway bad?Caimekaze post=18.69153.651573 said:
There seems to be a lot of shallow and obnoxious people here.
Im assuming most of you are trying to reasure yourselves and others that the reason you never get any dates is because no-one is perfect enough for you, and for those of you that do get dates and are still like this then you're just dicks.
If she quiffs.That is fucking nasty,or if she spits,smell,if she wont look me in the eye,is to submissive,wont think for herself,if shes hairy,and if she's better than me at cs:s lol.
Too submissive? Dude, send her my way. I love girls like that.X3heartless post=18.69153.654387 said:
As far as air escaping from places air ought not to escape from, I could tell you a story about an old girlfriend but it would be at least a yellow card if I did.