Dealing with suicide.

[TheRundownRabbit]

dealing with death is a serious subject.
I know plenty of peole who had to deal with their friend commiting suicide.....venting doesnt help (well it may for some). the best thing to do is move on but not to forget your friend

 

[Cucumber]

You say you want to break down but cannot afford it? If it was up to me, I'd think the best thing for myself is to just break down and not care about anything else, untill I'm ready to continue.

I once was in the same situation, but I stepped into a state of disassosiation. Everything just felt unreal, as if nothing truly existed and everything was of no matter. I felt like I was passively watching 'me' instead of being 'me'.

But it's always tragic to hear stuff like this. I could give you a "it's going to be alright", but you might've heard that one waay to much already. You're the one that knows yourself best, and if you still can't find an answer, then that's what friends/family/professional help is there for.

Good luck with it,

 

[Dimbo_Sama]

even just talking about it here helps.

I have a few mates who I always talk to or they talk to me when we're feeling like shit. and even if we can't do anything for each other it's still good to just talk about it.

 

[LongLiveourMachine]

two words... Fight Club

you don't talk about fight club

 

[PrimoThePro]

Make a blog to vent it out. Or tweet about it. I mean, it's basically like making a thread on a gaming forum.

i agree with this man right here.
let it out online, definetly blog.

 

[Communist partisan]

Do like me I don't care what happend to the persons I know 2009 2 persons in my family died and I really liked them and I was really sad for like one day but I didin't care a lot I yust stand tall and ram everything that trys to get me down and I've been like that since I was five. so yust stand tall and strong

 

[TheSeventhLoneWolf]

Real men cry, mate. Let it out.

 

[Satin6T]

two words... Fight Club

you don't talk about fight club

psh i didn't talk about it
i just stated it

you talked about not talking about it though!

 

[theironbat46]

Go to your room, and cry. Do it every week. Talk to the counselor. You probably won't get over it, but you will feel better.

 

[RanD00M]

Just cry your eyes out.It will make you feel better in the end.

And I hope that you have nothing but happy memories of your friend.

 

[Simili]

Time heals all as they say. It's good you're talking about it.
My grandfather died almost a year ago and it still doesn't quite feel real. But, whereas thinking about him at the time made me sad, thinking about him now makes me happy. you forget the bad stuff eventually, and remember the nice bits. times you laughed and talked and joked together.
But yes cry about it and talk to friends about it. especially if they were his friends too.

 

[Daveman]

You should talk to friends and have a communal cry about it where you all lose your dignity.

Good luck getting through.

Also, go watch a comedy film to cheer yourself up a bit, do this straight after crying. Or start a fire, it's built into us to find fire and warmth comforting and it makes us feel safe.

SUMMARY: Have a bonfire with your friends and weep. Then go watch Monty Python and the Holy Grail, officially the best comedy movie ever.

 

[LongLiveourMachine]

two words... Fight Club

you don't talk about fight club

psh i didn't talk about it
i just stated it

you talked about not talking about it though!

alright fine, just no more talking about it,
don't make me get Mr.Durdan

 

[SnipErlite]

Sorry for your loss - but if you can, talk about it. Even if it's not to a counsellor or whatever, talk to someone

 

[Nemu]

Condolences. Remember to allow yourself to grieve - whatever emotions you are feeling right now are normal and you're allowed to have them. That's the only advice I can offer.

This.

Gone thru that myself, plus lost my father a couple of years ago. Everyone grieves differently, don't let anyone tell you wot you should do or how to feel. You'll know how to grieve and then heal after some time.

 

[TheNamlessGuy]

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[sidereal_day]

When my friend committed suicide I ended up drinking a lot and popping a lot of pills for about three months.

I wouldn't recommend doing that. Sorry about your loss man

 

[busterkeatonrules]

Just cry, have a little break-down. No-matter what you say, you can afford it. Even if it's just for a couple of hours, go find a place where you can be on your own, even if it takes up the time you would have (normally) slept it. Punch some walls, scream you lungs out, cry until your blind, and blame the world on shit you're feeling.

If you don't let it up, you'll have a worse breakdown at a time that is out of your control. It's pretty much like putting off a hospital appointment in that respect; leaving longer isn't going to make what's ailing you go away, it'll just come back at a time that is out of your hands.

What you need now, after such a grievous loss, is to take control of something - even if it's just when to break down.

I'm sorry for your loss, and if you need to talk at all then feel free to send me a Personal Message too. Now go off and cry, you idiot, and get it out!

This. AngloDoom speaks words of wisdom.

 

[Jman1236]

I'm am sorry about your loss.

The only advice I can give you is that grief is normal when you lose someone that your close too, let it all out. Take time off work and give yourself all the time you need, see a consular if you strongly feel you need one. I've lost my grandmother to an infection, I know how it feels.