dieing 15 year old boy want's weird last request

[General Ken8]

Good for him, he was brave enough to admit that he wanted that as his last request

 

[Sparcrypt]

Thats a dumb last request.

There is soo much more to life than sex.

God you're an idiot... the point here is that he doesn't GET to have any of that experience... he's dying, life over at 15. Who are you, or anyone, to tell him what he wants to experience out of life before he dies?

And I can completely understand it.. when I was 15, sex was pretty damn high on my list of interests. Over a decade later, yeah there is a lot more to life then sex, and sex with meaningless partners doesn't interest me like it once did... but he's not going to be around long enough to learn that is it? It's not something you really teach.

You don't deserve a hat if that makes you proud.
Disregard things I say when they sound cruel, it's just that kid was cheated into thinking that life's true fulfilment was sex.

No that kid was cheated out of 60+ years of life to learn what lifes true fulfilment really is.

Do you people even listen to yourselves? I challenge you to walk into a dying kids room and say "hey, that sex thing? In 10 years you'd realise that it's not what you really wanted so don't worry about it OK? Yeah yeah I know you're dead in a month, but trust me, if you DID live, you'd thank me!"

He doesnt have time to form meaningful and lasting relationships with anyone - what he can do is at least experiance what is pretty much the most physical fun you can have with two people.. and for someone whos spent more time in a hospital then anyone should have to who are you to tell him it wasn't meaningful?

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Honestly some people need some perepective.

 

[dietpeachsnapple]

Short easy answer:

If I had a terminally ill friend...

And I wanted to grant their last wish...

I would have NOOOOOOOOOO problem with sneaking out of the hospital to get them some action before they died.

This doesn't make me a good friend, this just makes me a loyal human being. If I am ready to swear loyalty to someone [thus friend, in my definition], then I damn well better be ready to pull the line. I understand the hospitals position. Too many eyes, too many ears, and too many blabbing mouths to try and pull it off. I commend the friends who stepped up and did this for their friend, though I am sure he would have preferred it been someone he felt he was close to.

 

[bruMackBBQ_89]

sounds abnormal but then again for someones last request it aint going to be sumthing to ignore were all human inside and out. truth of the matter im glad he got wat he wanted.

 

[Stalk3rchief]

If it was his last dieing wish, than yes he deserved it. If I was on my death bed and made a request which was denied, it would ruin what little time on Earth I had left. If the kid died happy, what the hell is there to even argue about?

 

[Dogstile]

may as well give him his last wish, it doesn't hurt anyone, he's 15, so its the most important thing to him right now.

The prostitute should be in jail for statutory rape.

what? rape? for something /he/ wanted?

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

If the kid was dying, like really, what's the problem?

 

[Ninja_X]

Seeing as how my earlier comment put so much negative feedback in my "quoted" box, I think I'll respond to the more valid arguments.

God you're an idiot... the point here is that he doesn't GET to have any of that experience... he's dying, life over at 15. Who are you, or anyone, to tell him what he wants to experience out of life before he dies?

And I can completely understand it.. when I was 15, sex was pretty damn high on my list of interests. Over a decade later, yeah there is a lot more to life then sex, and sex with meaningless partners doesn't interest me like it once did... but he's not going to be around long enough to learn that is it? It's not something you really teach.

Really? Name calling? Well we can't consider this a mature comeback but it raises a valid point more or less.

I never said he couldn't do it, didn't even say it was necessarily wrong. I said it was a dumb thing to waste a last request on. Don't get on your high horse because I think its stupid. He can do any stupid thing he wants, I'm not stopping him.

Also, I see allot of you saying "when I was that age sex was the first thing on my mind!" which is funny because I knew that sexual intercourse without an emotional connection was a useless and shallow experience when I was 13. I guess some people are just slower to mature.

I love all the over analysing and holier than thou moralists here, great you dissaprove of what happened but you know what your opinion counts for squat it happened he probably died more fulfiled and good for the kid, good way to go. As the old saying goes "opinions are like arseholes everyone has one and they're all full of shit".

I LOVED this post. Absolutely true we all have our opinions and its good to see someone respect that. Even if they are all shit. My argument is crap, your argument is crap, but we all have different opinions that should be respected.

I think that if there was an afterlife, having to say that the last thing you did was sleep with a prostitute isn't the kind of thing I would be proud of. In my opinion, this was a stupid last request.

Meh, sex isn't all in life. I mean, its fun and everything, but who the fuck wants to lose it to a prostitute. They creep me out.

Agreed.

 

[Stalk3rchief]

There are a few things. Like what if he used his death to call upon charitable actions for his fellow man? Or focused the attention off of himself and said, "Look, I'm really screwed up, but I know I'm going to die. There's children in sex trafficking rings that could probably only wish to die. Really, I'm much better of than they are. Why are we willing to spend so much money on a few cancer patients when there's exponentially more children used as indecent slaves around the world? I'm not saying I don't appreciate the care and sympathy, I'm just saying that there's people out there who need care and sympathy more than I do."

Having said that, I'm not saying what he requested was bad (I probably would do something similar), but my point is there's other things he could have done that would be better... and none of them involve space shuttles.

When I'm about to die, filipino kids are the last thing on my mind. Not to mention that nobody would probably hear that except for his doctors/nurses/family members.

But okay yes, that would be a more altruistic aproach but would it have been better ? It would not make a single difference in the world and he would not have had a dieing wish either. Besides, an escort is not cheap doesn't cost THAT much.

3. Maybe not to you, but I'm going to go ahead and hold them in utter contempt and think of them as unpeople.

Why?

I just want say that I never said the kid couldn't have a dying wish. And yes, things could get better. What most people don't understand is that the news is VERY easy to get into... all you have to do is call them the kid could have gotten a hold of them and said this stuff in an interview. Further, I know people personally who used their afflictions to further causes, whether personal or multi-national.

I believe in a single person's ability to change the world. Having said that, I don't find his request wrong or "worse". I just think that, if he only focused on that aim, he missed out on the chance to truly live.

You sir, are an idiot.
Do you REALLY think someone in a high position would say "Well fuck, even though I knew about all of this, now that this dieing kid wants a change too, I can finally do something about it!"
=D
Your a moron. His dieing wish would have gone ungranted, no, unnoticed, and he would have died all the same. Whether the news or the president or anyone got a hold of that request would be irrelevant and it would be improbable that anything would come of it anyways.

 

[barryween]

Aw, poor kid, that's not a weird request.
I would do the same thing, dieing without knowing "one of life's greatest pleasures" is horrible.
I'm glad he was able to do that.
If I were dying, I would KILL for the "touch of a woman" after being hospitalized like that for a LONG time.

 

[Parallel Streaks]

Weird request? What would a teenager with raging hormones ask for, a chance to meet Micky Mouse, or a chance to get his end away? If he wants to get his end away WITH Mickey Mouse it'd be reasonable, he's dieing after all.

Really I think a weird request from this boy would BE to go to Disneyland, a 15 year old should not want that.

I'm not saying that sex is all there is to life as some males would, but it IS a fundamental experience in life, something that no one should miss out on unless they make a conscious decision not to.

 

[Ninja_X]

Meh, sex isn't all in life. I mean, its fun and everything, but who the fuck wants to lose it to a prostitute. They creep me out.

Well sex is everything when concerning biological life. There is no way to argue against that without looking retarded.

As for social living its not necessarily everything. But considering the huge effect it has in basically every facet of life (even down to what fast food place folks will eat at) it certainly gets under appreciated.

K I'm gonna argue against you without sounding retarded here.

Sex has NO biological impact on a human beings ability to live a full lifespan. It isn't necessary to keep living.

Its only function in continuing the species (from a purely biological standpoint) and I very much doubt this kid was trying to have children.

I will agree with the second part of your post though, sex influences us as a culture.

 

[world_of_dragons]

All I can is... I hope he enjoyed it

 

[hippo24]

The first list isn't exactly possible for someone who has months to live is it? You don't think he wanted to do that with his life? Do you think he wanted to be cheated the way he was and decide whether or not to die a virgin as a sexually mature human being?

Well I'd hardly consider loosing ones virginity to a whore, as an act of "Sexual maturity".

My point was, that for all the "atta boys" and seals of approval he was getting. The boy's final request pales in comparison to many things in life.

I was illustrating that loosing your virginity to a jaded prostitute that you've never seen before that day and has "done" it with countless guys, pales in comparison to the higher pleasures in life. Many people fail to realize that this kid missed the mark.

Its reasonable to say that he could have done something meaningful, and left this world with more than just his own self-interest. From asking for a way to thank his parents, who obviously had to work hard just to keep him alive. To donating his money to a cause that fights whats killing him. He could have even asked for something that might save another's life, like offering up any functioning organs (he obviously was healthy enough for sex so something must be salvageable).

Its worse than the many kids who are younger than him who wish for WOW accounts and Micheal Jordan. At least those have some form of meaning because your able to do what you love with those that love you. It has more to it than just primal gratification.
Thrusting your hips against something until your brain says stop, is no different than taking a drug. Its not like the sex hes having has any meaning to it, that whore is not his lover, he has no real attachment. Its just sexual release.

He was given the choice to have his wishes honored, he could worked toward true happiness in his or another persons life.
He asked for meaningless sex.

All I'm trying to say is that, why I don't abhor this scenario, nor do I think it was wrong for them to honor his wish, I do however think that the boy was making a mistake in asking for something so shallow.

So instead of leaving behind a meaning or a gift, he left behind his self-worth and a news story about it.

 

[Ninja_X]

The first list isn't exactly possible for someone who has months to live is it? You don't think he wanted to do that with his life? Do you think he wanted to be cheated the way he was and decide whether or not to die a virgin as a sexually mature human being?

Well I'd hardly consider loosing ones virginity to a whore, as an act of "Sexual maturity".

My point was, that for all the "atta boys" and seals of approval he was getting. The boy's final request pales in comparison to many things in life.

I was illustrating that loosing your virginity to a jaded prostitute that you've never seen before that day and has "done" it with countless guys, pales in comparison to the higher pleasures in life. Many people fail to realize that this kid missed the mark.

Its reasonable to say that he could have done something meaningful, and left this world with more than just his own self-interest. From asking for a way to thank his parents, who obviously had to work hard just to keep him alive. To donating his money to the cause thats killing him. He could have even asked for something that might save another's life, like offering up any functioning organs (he obviously was healthy enough for sex so something must be salvageable).

Its worse than the many kids who are younger than him who wish for WOW accounts and Micheal Jordan. At least those have some form of meaning because your able to do what you love with those that love you. Thrusting your hips against something until your brain says stop, is no different than taking a drug. Its not like the sex hes having has any meaning to it, that whore is not his lover, he has no real attachment. Its just sexual release.

He was given the choice to have his wishes honored, and instead of working toward true happiness in his or another persons life.
He asked for meaningless sex.

All I'm trying to say is that, why I don't abhor this scenario, nor do I think it was wrong for them to honor his wish, I do however think that the boy was making a mistake.

So instead of leaving behind a meaning or a gift, he left behind his self-worth and a news story about it.

This post is so full of truth its amazing.

Thank you for posting this.

 

[SpyderNynja]

The kid is legendary. That's a fantastic last wish. 'Nuff said.

 

[Stalk3rchief]

The first list isn't exactly possible for someone who has months to live is it? You don't think he wanted to do that with his life? Do you think he wanted to be cheated the way he was and decide whether or not to die a virgin as a sexually mature human being?

Well I'd hardly consider loosing ones virginity to a whore, as an act of "Sexual maturity".

My point was, that for all the "atta boys" and seals of approval he was getting. The boy's final request pales in comparison to many things in life.

I was illustrating that loosing your virginity to a jaded prostitute that you've never seen before that day and has "done" it with countless guys, pales in comparison to the higher pleasures in life. Many people fail to realize that this kid missed the mark.

Its reasonable to say that he could have done something meaningful, and left this world with more than just his own self-interest. From asking for a way to thank his parents, who obviously had to work hard just to keep him alive. To donating his money to the cause thats killing him. He could have even asked for something that might save another's life, like offering up any functioning organs (he obviously was healthy enough for sex so something must be salvageable).

Its worse than the many kids who are younger than him who wish for WOW accounts and Micheal Jordan. At least those have some form of meaning because your able to do what you love with those that love you. Thrusting your hips against something until your brain says stop, is no different than taking a drug. Its not like the sex hes having has any meaning to it, that whore is not his lover, he has no real attachment. Its just sexual release.

He was given the choice to have his wishes honored, and instead of working toward true happiness in his or another persons life.
He asked for meaningless sex.

All I'm trying to say is that, why I don't abhor this scenario, nor do I think it was wrong for them to honor his wish, I do however think that the boy was making a mistake.

So instead of leaving behind a meaning or a gift, he left behind his self-worth and a news story about it.

The only thing he was cheated out of was long life. If he left anything behind it would have been forgotten or unnoticed. No one thought any less of him for what he did, all of his friends and family where fine with it. Hell, the doctors and nurses were even cheering for him to fulfill his wish.
So I'm wondering why the Hell some kid who has mere months to live should give a fuck what some moralfag in another country would care about him afer he'd died?
Idk about you, but when I die, I want to die happy. You can go ahead and leave behind some speech about charity and love and peace, but it won't happen.
At least his wish was realistic.
He did what he wanted and I'm glad for it.