Proto Taco said:
elvor0 said:
So most pre op transexuals are also transvestites but not all transvestites are transexuals.
'Transsexuals' are not 'sexual'. 'Transsexuals' have a brain of gender A in a body of gender B. That means that the trans person's body is incapable of maintaining their brain. This leads to depression, reduced mental faculties, and stunted maturity in trans individuals. HRT helps with the reduced mental faculties, maturity and takes the edge off the depression. Many trans individuals, however, will pursue social gender assimilation to help further alleviate the depression and loneliness brought on by being forced to socialize as and with the wrong demographic.
Transvestites dress in flamboyant, campy stylizations of cultural genders for performance and/or sexual purposes.
'Transsexuals' and transvestites are NOT the same thing, not even a little.
Your comment is disrespectful and offensive, stop it.
Did you even read my post other than that small, out of context bit you quoted? My opening words were "I'm guessing it's because a transvestite is different from a transexual" in regards to why the T means Transexual, but not Transvestite.
Your post is disrespectful and offensive to me, because you didn't bother to read my point properly before jumping on me.
I'll stick it here:
elvor0 said:
NuclearKangaroo said:
the T in "LGBTQ" doesnt involve trasvestite as well as transexual people?
I'm guessing it's because a transvestite is different from a transexual(pre or post op) in that a transvestite wears the opposite gender clothes because they like them as clothes, transexual people wear them because they want to /be/ the opposite sex. The prior has no doubts or sexual "oddities", for want of a better word, because that sounds like I think there's something wrong with non straight people.
So most pre op transexuals are also transvestites but not all transvestites are transexuals.
I know Transvestites are not the same as Transexuals, that was the whole point of my post, where I was making a presumption at why Transvestites are not included LGBT, but Transexuls are. They can however, cross over.
Of course someone can be both a Transvestite and a Transexual. The word transvestite means someone who wears clothes of the opposite sex. It /is/ the case that some pre-op Transexuals wear clothes of the opposite sex, because they are (for example) still /physically/ a man wearing womens clothing until they are post op and become...a woman wearing womens clothing. That doesn't discount how they feel mentally, but pre op the whole concept is that they feel like a Woman in a Mans body, or vice versa.
I did not mean sexual as in "they want to feel sexy in those clothes". I meant it as in they want to be the opposite physical sex, which is what I said, in my original post. "they want to /be/ the opposite sex". Which is of course, the very definition of a Transexual.
Also, not all transvestites do it for performance or sexual purposes, or in flamboyant clothing. Some just like to wear perfectly normal womens clothing because they like them as clothes, or they find them more comfortable. Your statement isn't fair to transvestites, especially not for someone wrongly having a go at me for lumping people together in a catagory. There's a guy on these very forums, who, while is way too cool to be offended at your hypocritical generalization, wears womens clothes, not because he's some flamboyant sexual deviant, but because he likes them as clothes.
Now, regardless of if you're transexual yourself, just a keyboard warrior, or both, I am /not/ apologizing for my original post. Because I didn't say anything distrespectful or offensive, I was making a point to differenciate Transvestites and Transexuals, while stating that there is some overlap between the two, which is true. I have nothing but the utmost respect for all members of the LGBT and Transvestites. But in future, read what someone has said before you start having a go at them for something they didn't say.
Frankly, I have no idea how you could be offended at the statement that some pre op transexuals wear clothes of the opposite gender and are thus transvestites. Are you just looking to annoy yourself on purpose? I'm going with keyboard warrior, because I can't believe that a transexual, for all their trials and hardships, would choose /that/ harmless statement to get worked up about.