bluepilot said:
Ah, look at Iceland-this is a small land but with very good equality-because if you are a woman and you get pregnant, you have the possibility to work at home, many jobs offer a kindergarten for the children and many woman which work in bureaus take their children with them. here n Germany where you have this "good-mother has their child until its 3-ythos" there are too few kindergartens and daycare centres and women which give their children to daycare centres are considered a bad mother. (on the other hand women which stay at home get similar resentments but or society tends to this:you gave birth so you HAVE to be GOOD at caring-which is bullshit, a man can also take care for a child and i think my partner is better with children than me.)
a teacher of mine and my gynaecologist worked until they had to stop because of maternity protection--well, my gynaecologist worked in her 9th month and stayed only 4 month out of business-she had her child at her doctors office.
my teacher worked 6 month after birth because she got a good daycare centre. this practice was more common in eastern Germany and well, its sad that the western part sticked to this "good-mother stays home"stuff (I don't say that its wrong to stay home but i know a handful of women which wanted to work but didn't get a job-because society, chefs and families pressured them into staying home. I want choice. I don't know whether i want children but if I want, I wont stay home, I´d be bored to death(as antisocial as I am) I think)
so i think-t is possible. More kindergartens, more daycare and a society that encourages women to work IF THEY WANT (not force)Chefs which accept part-time from men and women and aren't be annoyed if a many says, he cant work after hours because he has to drive his child home from school-or he has to work from home because his child is sick and his partner works (because now, this is expected mostly for the mother but not for the father)
And, obviously, better payment for all so that man or women which want to stay home and focus on their children can stay home. it is possible but I think the Mother-myth prevents this a lot and i cannot stand anybody which think their opinion or dogma on childcare has to be the ultimate and only one.
postscriptum:
@ the statistical argument of bill gates and his buddies: well, in statistics there are instruments to prevent that few very high or very low points -outliers distort the results.
so if you have a N of 100 and and you have 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,and 0 and the if you count you have mostly 5,6,7 but two 1 and one 9 you can try and test whether these are outliers or not.
This should prevent a distorted result and i bet my ass that a good statistic is made with the right tools.
You could part the group in regards to income, so that very high and very low income has their own parameter or such.. duh, i hate math.^^
(there is a nice ---for dummies book about statistics^^)