Do you date outside of your race?

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ShiningAmber

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I have dated outside my race before and there was no problem. Of course, people will stare and say rude things, but really it's just skin color and skin color shouldn't matter.
 

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Lumipon said:
No, I'm not a furry.

Oh, you meant race as in "the same species but different fenotypes"?

Yes, I'm not a racist.

/snark
Just wanted to point out that you're not automatically a racist even if you don't date outside your own "race".

OT: Yes. I've only dated white girls so far, but I had a fling with a black girl, and I've had a one-nighter with an asian girl, if that's of any relevance.
 

Mister Chippy

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Why is this even a question? Seriously...

I've been on very few dates in my life and I've still managed to date people with different colored skin than me. Its honestly not even something I felt people would even think twice about...
 

Tsun Tzu

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lRookiel said:
I don't date at all...

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This. But only because I've been in a relationship for ...wow, going on 6 years now.

As for race? it doesn't really matter. Skin color doesn't necessarily hinder a person's attractiveness.

I just wish other folks felt the same way about me. D:
 

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Yup. Doesn't evolution work that way anyway? Why would I want to fuck with something that looks like me? If they have things I lack then I want them more than the others. Genetic diversity is what we have to strive for.
 
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Haven't dated many women but I'll substitute date with sleep with.

The answer is an emphatic yes! I've slept with black women, asian women, hispanic women, native american women, arab women, imaginary women, you name it. Sex is too good to limit it to one group of people :p

And most of the girls I've dated have been asian or hispanic, with only like two being white (one of those two is my current girlfriend).

I did however grow up in a very diverse city and a very diverse county where white people of my age were few and far between so it isn't like I deliberately avoided white girls or anything.
 

Chaos Isaac

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Honestly, this shouldn't even be a question. But alas, yeah, I have. Being half and half, (white and black) I've dated hispanics, whites and blacks. I can say i'm generally more attracted to white and asian women though.
 

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No. Physical attraction plays a huge part in dating. At least for men. It is not something that you have any control over. And I happen to be attracted to Scandinavian look. Blondes with pale skin and blue/green eyes. I love 'em. I like redheads too. But girls like that are rare where I live. Maybe that has something to do with it. I find them exotic.
 

Kevlar Eater

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*no point in quoting Forever Alone pic*

Of course I've never dated, nor will I. But if I were, I would not care what ethnicity she would be.
 

SinisterGehe

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No... I am not that in to other animals. Humans do just fine.

Nah... I don't date at all. Can't be arsed with all the social effort required.
 

kudakitsune

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Frokane said:
when I say race I mean Ethnic race, I dont want to hear about how youre one-quarter Irish and you dated someone from sweden.

and IN before any snarky 'human race' jokes about how youve slept with your hamster.
Ohhh, COME ON!!! You just killed a hilarious discussion. Not Funny men, not funny at all. Also a little bit racist question but anyway
 

N3squ1ck

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I almost didn't date so far in my life, so until now: no, but not because of racist reasons, just out of "I'm ugly and nobody would date me ever"-reasons :S
 

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shrekfan246 said:
And just for reference, the Weird Al song "White & Nerdy" may as well have been about me.
Going by the answers so far, it may as well have been about this site too.

Live in South Africa, never had the privilege to date another ethnicity. Things are still not quite integrated here though, and were even less so in my 'dating years' (it's more of the cultural difference than the skin colour for most people). Married and out of the game now.
 

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Mister Chippy said:
Why is this even a question? Seriously...

I've been on very few dates in my life and I've still managed to date people with different colored skin than me. Its honestly not even something I felt people would even think twice about...
Missing the point as it applies to most people. Although it certainly and unfortunately does happen that someone will be attracted to someone of another race and for some questionable reason or another 'choose' not to be with them for that reason. For those people, your post covers the appropriate response.

But, as is the case with me and plenty of other people, the variation in answers is less about 'what we think twice about' and more about what we are sexually attracted to. For example, I have no objections to dating a black woman, but rare is the one that I will see and be aroused by.
 

DRTJR

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No, but I have had one girlfriend whom was also white. Almost when out with an Asain girl once but she moved to New York.
 

hutchy27

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I haven't yet but I'm open to the idea, depends on the person. Not much racial diversity where I live.
 

Connor Lonske

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i'm a white bisexual (who prefers men) who lives in the bronx.

so yeah, not much chance or logic in a gay relationship here, and i'm not interested in girls all that much.

also i'm a dork so that doesn't help my chances either.