Do you have a fetish? Why do you think you have it?

[Evilsanta]

Hm...The most obvious one I have is a glasses one. And the reason for that might be that I have glasses myself and just that I find women wearing glasses a lot more attractive.

There could of course be other factors that I don't know about.

 

[Chrono212]

1. You have three guess and if you don't get it in the first (/_-)
2. I have a clear, and undiagnosed, psychological disorder.

Ain't I a fun guy?

Ugh.. I totally know this one.
Give me a sec....
...
Is it... Tommy Lee Jones?

Spoiler: Ohgawdyes!

 

[ZtH]

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I find your response to his comments is far beyond what could be deemed polite. At least in his post he kept to discussing the points you had made rather than stooping to asking you to call yourself "a gigantic asshole" for his pleasure.

You also failed to note that he referred to some fetishes as "dangerous" and recommended that people who found their fetish dangerous seek treatment, which shows he was not claiming that all fetishes were equal.

As for your other questions I believe the original poster referred to "loli" which I will assume to be a reference to hentai of that nature for the purposes of a response. It can be considered healthy when most of such materials are in fact catering to ephebophilia which is the attraction to adolescents. Adolescents are biologically ready for procreation and as such feeling sexual attraction to them is normal, in fact it could be considered odd or even unhealthy to not experience sexual attraction to specimens who are physically ready for mating. As for how it is on the same level as a nurse fetish, they are comparable in that they are both physical urges that you do not have a choice in. Acting on these impulses is where you have choice, but feeling attraction is beyond a persons control. Yes, I realize you intended for these questions to be rhetorical, but I found myself unwilling to "do the planet a favor."

To wrap things up and address your edit I found your post to be unnecessary and lacking any content worth reading. I also find it annoying that you felt the need to address something that was already stated by the poster as being unwanted. Finally, your original post lacked any contribution to the topic and the person who quoted you was right to call you out on your statements.

 

[minus_273c]

Yup. BDSM.

Where did it come from? Star Wars (you know what I'm talking about) and a long-term girlfriend, short term wife, long-term ex, who was also into it, with a compatible leaning.

CJ

 

[Ironrose]

Female input, yay!

I'm a bit into biting but mainly into being dominated.
I think it comes from the idea of men being in charge; they will take care of me in public and do what they want with me in private.

 

[Ultress]

I have a couple that I'm not reveling but most involved being berated and humilated by women.


For the why, I'll chalk it up to self-loathing and bad relationships.

 

[RowdyRodimus]

Glasses on a girl, especially when they leave them on for everything (if you CATCH my drift).

I think it goes back to the first girl I was ever with had these stunning eyes and her glasses made them even more beautiful. I often wonder what happened to Amy and wish I had made a few different choices when we were together. Oh well, no sense dwelling on things we can't change and worry about those things we can.

 

[Zaik]

1: One particularly stands out.
2: Caused by women that think sex is "lay there and make awful howling noises". I won't bother to finish if she wants to just lay there.

 

[RagnorakTres]

[T]he rest...who knows? I'm not fucking Freud.

I would hope not, that's necrophilia, which I believe is still illegal. Not 100% on that, though.

 

[The-Bad-Blooded]

1. yeahs, Honestly, I tend to look at the ass, and also, i reckon the neck is the sexiest part of a woman...

honestly, if a woman has a sexy neck, i know were i'm focusing most of my attention...

2. no idea where it came from.

 

[TheGuiggleMonster]

1) I love seeing girls sneeze
2) This is actually not a very uncommon fetish, and it seems that everyone who has it has had it since they were young. I have always found something strange about seeing girls sneeze before I was attracted to them but it's only when I started getting attracted to girls that this became a fetish. When I say I found it strange I mean that in a curious way.

I've never told anyone about this before in my life but no one knows TheGuiggleMonster's true indentity so I think I'll be fine.
http://www.sneezefetishforum.org/forums/index.php?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnF7Y3tLOOk

EDIT

A lot of people seem to be descirbing what kind of person they are attracted to. I'm not sure if that counts as a fetish but I should probably shed some light on that topic as well seeing as everyone else has:
1) Long hair.
2) Either green or light brown eyes. Greyish blue is the worst colour. My eyes are green.
3) Wearing a short skirt and no tights is better than wearing no skirt and no tights. This could actually count as a fetish.
4) All the normal stuff about breast arse curves etc.
5) I am white and I only like white girls.

 

[Corgyll]

1. Yes, redheads.
2. Not sure, my ex kinda looked redheaded without makeup. Strange but true!

 

[The_Echo]

I'm fairly sure I have a tongue fetish. Licking, specifically. (But then again, what else can you really do with a tongue? ... ... Don't answer that.)

Soft tongues are especially nice. I don't really know why I like it so much, though.

PS: This whole thread is making me feel like a creep, but at the same time I'm OK with this.

 

[Adzma]

Like the OP I have macrophilia.

My assumption as to why is because when I was young I always wanted to be really tall, and as I matured I really liked the idea of girls being really, really tall.

It's an odd fetish. :/

 

[biGBum333]

A real obsession with redheads, especially if they're "strong but sweet"

And I really have no idea where it came from.

wow as soon as i saw this thread i immediately thought ''red heads''. totally ninja'd me

 

[RagnorakTres]

[T]he rest...who knows? I'm not fucking Freud.

I would hope not, that's necrophilia, which I believe is still illegal. Not 100% on that, though.

Bleh...thanks for that. I think I got the wrong guy.

No, you were right, Freud was the psychiatrist who obsessed about sex. He postulated that every sexual fetish and psychological disease sprung from a deep-seated Oedipal Complex (basically the urge to have sex with your mother). He's been largely discredited as a serious source of psychiatry due to the suspicion that he was high on cocaine (or something, I don't remember the specific drug) and projected his own failings on his subjects during testing.

I was making a joke on the fact that he died somewhere in the middle of the 20th century and thus "fucking Freud" could be misinterpreted to mean "having sexual intercourse with the cadaver of the one-time psychiatrist Sigmund Freud." I am currently overexplaining the joke in the (perhaps vain) hope that it will eventually, through recursive humor physics, become humorous again despite me having to explain it.